Sunday, February 23, 2014

From baby to toddler...

Age of Lady Kaitlyn:  11 months and 12 days

Family,

Our little girl - standing and cruising all
the time now - next step.  Walking!
And a good Sunday morning to you from the Queen City, where the Munch is PASSED OUT after an early wake up this morning.  I'm hoping she'll have a good sleep, as we're going over to a friend's house for lunch today and don't want a fussy cutie bootie!  But one hour in she hasn't moved, and so I like our chances for a good sleep.

This week's post will be a quicker one, as it was a bit quieter on the home front.  From a sneetch perspective, Jenny and I both fear that she's getting sick again, as she's pulling her left ear and is horribly congested when feeding (she's back to the point where she can't eat without taking a break for air because her nose is so stopped up).  That being said, she's not running a fever and still seems happy & active, so fingers crossed we can make it until her 1 year check-up before returning to the doctor (2 weeks from Tuesday).

Not sure how many of these we've got
left, so we're gonna make every one count.
As for the week itself, whilst a short one it was still very good.  Poor JT had TONS of work to do, so the week was filled with lots of early mornings and late nights.  Tuesday night I actually had the sneetch all to myself whilst JT worked, and so we had a good chance to play (in every room in the house).  That evening bred a very emotional moment for me (shocking, I know).

You see, typically when I'm playing with Kaitlyn, I have music playing on my i-Pad.  It's quite cute, as the Munchkin crawls all over me searching for the source of the sound but unable to discern that it's in my pocket (this also works well when it's playing and I slide the phone across the floor, as she'll then chase it).  Well, on Tuesday she's crawling away from me and "Swept Away" by the Avett Brothers comes on.  Now this song WRECKED me at Kim and Matt's wedding, as I could already picture K going from "twirling on the floor" of the playmat to walking down the aisle and having her first dance with her husband.  Well, it had the exact same affect on me that night, coming on so suddenly as the sneetch crawled away from me before turning back (leg in the air, of course) to look at me with a huge smile on her face.
Ready to me, mommy!

I was reminded how I always am that it all goes by SO FAST - truly this year has gone by in the blink of any eye.  Case in point - Jenny and I are AMAZED at how big the sneetch is in her crib now!  I remember the little girl swaddled so tightly she couldn't move and wearing a little blue beanie in the bassinet.  Now she doesn't fit sideways in the crib and seems to stretch have the length of it - how is that even possible?  Jenny and I walk in every night to look at our little miracle, and we are amazed at how quickly she's passing from baby to toddler.  The milestones are one thing, but her features are what strike us most - she no longer looks like an infant.  Truly - she now looks like a little girl (and a very pretty one at that).

K's new favorite pastime - opening and
closing doors...repeatedly...
The only other news this week was a surprised visit by my sister down to Charlotte.  As you may know, Pattie's a freshman at Radford and a member of the softball team.  Well, they had a "same day" add to their schedule, changing out UNC-Greensboro for UNC-Charlotte.  That means that I got a text at 12:35 saying that Pattie had a 6:30 game FIVE MINUTES from the house - so cool!  She was actually the first person I saw when I walked to the stadium, and we got to chat before and after the game.  It was really awesome to see my sister's school in action (they won 6-5), and I am proud to say that I've now seen both siblings in action in college - that is just nuts!

Not a whole lot else to report from the CLT - Team Taylor has a day of visiting friends and doing taxes (both US and Singapore), so we won't get too wild and crazy.  This next week should hopefully be a quiet one as well, which is a good thing since our lives flip into overdrive that following week.  Those details, however, will follow in subsequent blogs...so stay tuned. :-)

Chat soon!

Love,

Sam and Jenny

Thursday, February 20, 2014

The Munch rolls 11 months...

Age of Lady Kaitlyn:  11 months (WHAT!?!?!?) and 9 days

Family,

Happy 11 months, Munch Munch!  Enjoy those blueberries and puffs!
And a good Thursday evening to you from the Queen City, where wife muffin is currently putting the munch down ahead of tackling her kickboxing video whilst I sit here backing up photos (and "entering the time machine").  SO MUCH to catch you up on!  And yes, I realize that it's been more than a while since my last post.  However, between a) traveling to Costa Rica for work, b) getting snowed in whilst there, c) traveling to ATL less than 8 hours after arriving home last weekend, and d) being diagnosed with GOUT (that's right - GOUT - the "disease of kings"), it's been a little crazy.  But I'm back now, so let's get amongst it!

For starters, I feel I simply must type this again in ALL CAPS - KAITLYN ELAINE TAYLOR IS 11 MONTHS OLD!!!!!  How is that even possible?  She is getting SO BIG!  Truly - this year has flown.  Jenny did an amazing job handling the photo shoot without me last week - especially since K no longer fancies the idea of someone putting stickers on her.  :-)  Instead JT used the sticker as "artwork" whilst the munch indulged in one of her favorite pastimes - eating. :-)

Thug life...
Honestly - this past month has just been incredible.  K's got 6 teeth now (those 2 up top are going to be Bucky Beaver - stay tuned), and her smile is 10 miles wide and can melt a glacier.  Her ear infection has FINALLY cleared up, and the results have been almost instantaneous - her head tilt is gone, her balance is better, she's got more energy, and she's back to smiling all the time.  She really is an absolutely perfect, happy baby - as a parent I couldn't be more blessed.

This month was a HUGE one in the motor skills department, as K PULLED UP TO STANDING!  She's definitely starting to cruise a bit more, and with each passing day you can tell that she's getting stronger and more confident.  I am amazed at how she just pops up now, and I'm thankful that she's also learning a bit of balance in there to go along with it. :-)  It's crazy to watch her pull up to tabletops that just 2 weeks ago were way beyond possible - growing so fast!

Laughing and crying...it's really a fine line...
Still no words to report, but she's definitely stretching out that larynx!  She's a squealer now, and we are now being showered with consonants on a daily basis.  But when she's not babbling, she's definitely working on her percussion - WOW.  That kid absolutely LOVES to bang things together.  She knows we like it, as well, as she always smiles whilst doing it. Oh, and when she's crawling, her "new thing" is to make sure you're following.  She'll go two feet, stop, and then spin around with one leg in the air (basically like she's peeing on a fire hydrant), and make sure you're there (her smile is the cutest thing EVER when she does this).  And now is a good time to confirm that, when she catches her, no one can tickle her and make her laugh like Jenny - SO FREAKIN' ADORABLE.

It's go time - show me some snow.
Also, her dexterity and fine motor skills have improved.  I notice it when we build a tower of blocks and she scrambles over to it.  Rather than just barreling through it like the juggernaut, she stops, inspects it, and normally pulls only the top block (granted, there have been exceptions to this :-).  She then pulls them down in order in a mad scramble to the bottom.  I try to thwart this by always adding a new bottom block before she can get to it - drives her crazy (but in a good way).  Do you get the sense I'm a proud parent? :-)

Not exactly the way you
described it, mommy...
As for the week itself - WOW - talk about out of control.  It all started Sunday night (shortly after I'd finished the blog).  Team Taylor settled into bed early (around 9:15 or so), and I was almost asleep when K suddenly cried out.  Now this NEVER happens, and so we were on our guard almost instantly.  Our first thought was teething, but we were terrified to use the orajel (since we'd heard it affects an infant's gag reflex).  We tried some teething tablets, but they did nothing.  We then tried formula, and she did take 4 ounces.  However, that didn't stop the tears.  We then tried Tylenol, but that STILL didn't get it.  Ultimately, we tried the orajel, but even that only provided very temporary relief.  She was screaming again at 1 AM (we are talking standing up in her crib, holding the slats, staring at the camera, BEGGING for help), and ultimately I had to hold her in my arms in the glider until 4:35 AM whilst she slept and I contemplated life.  In retrospect I felt frustrated by the whole affair (especially knowing that a work trip was on the horizon and I was leaving JT with a potentially fussy baby), and looking back now I feel like I was a really bad parent that night.  I did what was required of me, but I didn't do it gratefully or with a smile on my face.  All I could think about was the sleep I was losing and how tough this was going to be for JT, when I should have been thinking about what I could do to help the Munchkin.  Needless to say I was NOT happy with myself the next morning, and I resolved again then and there to be a better father and husband.
Parenting sign #10 that you're exhausted:
You try and brush your teeth with
Desitin butt paste.

This takes its place as one of my
favorite photos EVER.
I put K back in her crib (asleep) at 4:35 AM and walked into the bathroom, where JT was throwing up.  Rinse-repeat this at 5, 6, and 7, after which time I had to leave to go (sick myself at this point) to the airport.  I have NEVER wanted to leave the house more - I felt so bad about EVERYTHING (and physically was wretched as well).  Luckily the sneetch slept soundly all week (no more episodes, so we think it was bad food), and JT got to feeling better later in the day.

I was a train wreck, however, and I actually slept 14 hours that day.  I was sick most of Tuesday as well, and Wednesday I woke up feeling ok but unable to put weight on my right foot.  Only later (after a flight cancellation and a drive to Atlanta) would I find out this was gout, and it got progressively worse throughout the work week.  Add in the fact that THE STORM OF THE DECADE hit Charlotte whilst I was in Costa Rica, stranding JT and K in the house for 3 days whilst a foot of snow and freezing temperatures sealed them in, and you have a recipe for an unhappy Sammy.  For me it was not just the fact that they were up here alone (luckily the power only went off for a brief period).  It was more the fact that it would have been a golden opportunity to be home with my girls (watching K see a big snow for the first time), and I missed it for work.  Now don't get me wrong - I am NOT complaining, and I think it was SO GREAT that JT got this time with K in the house (although she then had to turn around and work late every night to catch up since daycare was closed).  I just wished I'd been here as well.  Snow is hard to come by in Charlotte, so each time it happens is a special event for me, as it reminds me of growing up back home.  But I am sure there will be others - I just hope she's not 11 before a storm like that hits again. :-)

"Wow, this obstacle course is easy.  Aunt
Kim is WAAAAAY skinnier than daddy."
My Thursday flight was cancelled (apparently the worst day for travel since 9/11), but I did get on a flight Friday (delayed 3.5 hours but still got home!).  I arrived home at 1:30, and we got up at 6:30 to pack and head out to Atlanta to visit Kim and Matt.  Matt was stuck in Aspen (tough life, I know), but he got home that evening, and we had a GREAT visit.  K had some trouble sleeping Saturday night (hungry we think, as she took 6 ounces during the night), but on the whole we had a blast.  And the best part - we actually got out of the townhouse this time!  We went over to Lennox park for a bit of a picnic and stroll (the weather was amazing), and I was even able to walk a bit with my cane (Sat was VERY rough for me and my foot).

It was a quick trip (we headed back early Monday), but it was really great to see them, drink some good wine, eat some excellent food, and just relax. I was grateful for other sets of hands with K, as I could barely walk.  I did get to the doctor Monday, and thanks to a boot, a strict diet, and "the mother of all anti-inflammatory medicines," I'm now back on the mend.

Ok - I don't want to give away any more of this week, so I'll stop there.  Happy 11 months of life, little sneetch!  Mommy and Daddy love you!!!!!

Speak soon!

Love,

Sam and Jenny

Sunday, February 9, 2014

One step (or stand) closer to full mobility - the Munch pulls up!

Age of Lady Kaitlyn:  10 months and 29 days

Family,

And a good Sunday afternoon to you from the Queen City - another big week of milestones to report!

"Don't you hear the sound, of lions in the
town...roar, roar, roar, Zumba..."
Let's start with Tuesday, where I am VERY HAPPY to report that, after 3 rounds of antibiotics, the munch has FINALLY kicked her ear infection.  This was a BANNER moment, as that infection stretched all the way back to early January (but felt like it stretched back to the summer - WOW, what a journey).  And now that the augmentin (apparently it was more than just amoxicillin on steroids) has knocked the ear infection out, it's all about probiotics to get the good gut bacteria back into her system.  She's been having at least one a day, and the Bull must confess that he's been getting into them as well. What can I say - full fat, whole milk yogurt is so guuuuuuuuuuuud (peppy cheekies).  Plus, she doesn't really like the blueberry ones, and since we purchase them in a mixed pack, it would be a shame to NOT eat them, right? :-)

Sock in mouth in 3...2...1...
As for the other big milestones, Monday (yes, yes - I know - we're out of order already at 3 paragraphs in) was the first day in K's NEW CAR SEAT!  That thing is a bloody behemoth, but she does seem to fit in it good and enjoy riding in it.  Daddy continues to forget that, unlike the infant carrier, there is neither a sunshade nor a rack of toys attached, and so K has been relegated to playing with her socks and beanie during most of the drives.  However, I have ratcheted up playing the "Og's Music time" CD from Daycare, and she does seem to be enjoying that.  As for me, I will say that I'm not totally comfortable that the song "Jiggle up and down, I'm a-ridin' on my pony" is now part of my daily list of humming tunes whilst working.  But hey - when I see those little feet spin in circles and hear her clap as it comes on, who am I to comp


And another change - the cabinet locks
in the kitchen.  We are ALMOST done with
babyproofing - daddy just has to figure out
how to install all those bloody drawer latches...
lain?  Life definitely has its little bonuses. :-)

The car seat definitely takes some getting used to.  It attached smoothly enough (we used the latch, and it's still rear facing), but tightening (and loosening) is a bit tricky.  Also, the safety harness definitely gets twisted a lot, which can be frustrating if you forget to adjust it before you bring the munch back out to the car.  Also, as there is no sunshade, it's a bit tricky to drive her home in the afternoons, as the sun is right in her eyes.  She hasn't complained to date, however, and so hopefully we can get through until it's time to flip the seat forward - that will be a BIG day for Katie the Corolla, as right now that car seat is eating a TON of space in the backseat.

The next milestone is a big one - THE HIGH FIVE, BABY!!!!!  Now this one was a journey, and it started on Monday when I was feeding her.  She was definitely going through a growth spurt last week, as she was SUCKING DOWN 7-8 ounces at a clip from the bottle.  Given that it was tough to keep wiggly wigglerson still for any length of time, I started wiggling my fingers in front of her whilst feeding.  This normally works for a bit, as she can grab on to my fingers (and by extension NOT grab hold of the bottle and rip it from her mouth).  This week, however, she started slapping my open hand.  When I started in on the "Patty Cake, Patty Cake" bit, she started smiling.  Next thing I knew, throughout the day I could open my hand and get a High 5.  That's right, folks - she's hip to the ways of the world!  Okay, so that might be a bit too far...but it's still really cute to watch her do it.  Jenny and I tried to teach her the knuckle blast (including "blowin' it up") yesterday.  And whilst that did result in lots of giggles and smiles, she's not quite sold on its appeal or relevance to mainstream culture.  Don't worry - I'll get her there.
Just seconds before the Sneetch stood up -
she LOVES the cabinets in the Jack 'n Jill.

She is waving a lot more now as well, and we truly believe that, at this point, she actually understands what he wave means.  Last week it was really more an exploration of movement, but I do think we've turned the corner on that one.  Well, I'm giving her credit for it, anyway. :-)

K's photo at daycare as part of National
Reading Month - the cover has her favorite
book listed:  Go Dogs, Go!
The biggest milestone, however, has GOT TO BE with her mobility - the Munch pulled to standing on Tuesday!!!  I arrived at daycare to a Happy-gram, informing us that on this most auspicious day the Munch crawled to the gate by the kitchen and pulled up to standing. WOO-HOO!!!!!!  And since that moment, it's been non-stop improvement.  She can now pull up on Purple Couch, her crib, the changing table, the table in the bonus room - you name it.  Also, she is TAKING STEPS!  I would definitely call it the start of cruising, as she pulls up, figures out where she wants to go, and then takes steps in that direction.  She'll also take steps if Jenny and I are holding her hand - SO CUTE!  I will say that, in the spirit of full disclosure, there is one aspect of the pull-up she still needs to master - sitting back down. :-)  Seriously - this is also SO CUTE (I know, I know - a bit biased) - rather than fall back on her bum, she starts to do a split until she can slide down far enough to fall into a crawl.  It is adorable (even if it's frustrating for her), and even this weekend I'm seeing improvement with her control.  She does get a bit frustrated when she's standing and wants to come down (but can't), but you can already tell she's starting to analyze the situation and think of potential ways down.  The next Rhodes scholar HAS BEEN BORN.
K added kalamata olives (soaked in garlic)
to the list of "foods I enjoy" this week.
She also crushed pears, string cheese, and
tomatoes.  Now if we could just figure out
that whole sippy cup thing...

One of the activities for motor skill development this week was "the obstacle course," and I can absolutely tell that it's paid off for K.  She crawls over Jenny and I all the time now, and no position of our torso or legs (or face for that matter) will keep her from her goal (what that is I can never actually say, but it is ALWAYS on the other side of my body).   I have really enjoyed positioning my legs and body in such a way that she has to think through the strategy to get over/past me (even when that path of least resistance means I get a foot in my larynx).


In other news, the sneetch is definitely teeth right now.  She's running a low grade fever and pulling on her ears today, and her slobber has increased by a factor of ten.  We had to give her some Pedia-care, and I'm glad we did, as she became a new girl after that dose.  We'll give her another one after bath and before bed, and hopefully she'll sleep like a rock once again (12.5 hours the last THREE DAYS).  She's still not sleeping a ton at daycare, but the staff there said that she's been happy and has eaten like a champ, so no complaints from me!  I should note that it's been interesting to watch her thirst for formula disappear as quickly as it arrived - she MUCH prefers solids now.  She tried lemons this week and LOVED them - Texas Road House will never be the same.

Godspeed, little purple Nalgene!  We'll see
you again in the Himalayas of Heaven.
One new tooth did pop in on Tuesday, but I think we've got 2 or 3 about to break through.  We can see the white just under the gums, so we know we're close.  I just hope that Munch Munch sleeps this week whilst I'm away - I'd hate for Jenny to have to pull late nights as well as early mornings.

Lastly, I would be remiss if I didn't say farewell to a fallen comrade.  That's right, sports fans - after 8 years of being part of the family, traveling with the Taylors to five continents, and seeing us through 2 home purchases, 2 land purchases, and becoming parents - Jenny's purple Nalgene finally cracked this week.  That puppy has been with us FOREVER, and it was sad to see it go.  JT has now struck up a new bond with my 13 year old Denali Mountain Works Nalgene - fingers crossed it gives us as many good years of service.

And YES - I am conscious that I just gave more print to a plastic water bottle than K's tooth progression, but cut me some slack - I'm a sentimental guy.

Okay, that's it for now - another GREAT WEEK in the books.  Who knows what's in store in the run-up to K's 1 year birthday!  Chat soon!

Love,

Sam and Jenny

Sunday, February 2, 2014

Back to full strength - for at least 24 hours...

Age of Lady Kaitlyn:  10 months and 3 weeks

Family,

Ready for more solids, mommy!
And a good Sunday morning to you from the Queen City - it's Superbowl Sunday!  I thought I'd try to knock this out whilst the munchkin is passed out - in her newly lowered crib!  That's right, sports fans, Team Taylor has crossed off "Phase 2" of the childproofing today in the form of 2 big accomplishments:  the lowering of the crib and the installation of the new car seat.

The good news is that both activities were pretty quick.  The crib was actually quite easy to lower (but definitely required two people to re-attach), and the car seat wasn't so bad save the fact that IT BARELY FITS IN KATIE (that would be the name of my Corolla to the uninitiated).  We got it in there (rear facing, using the latch), and I think it will be much easier once it's forward facing (which is still quite a ways off, as the sneetch has to be something like 35 lbs before we can flip it).  In the interim, however, JT is going to be quite snug in the front seat!  We're planning to take it for a test drive today - stay tuned to final results. :-)




Droppin' the boom - lowering the crib in anticipation of
the Munch standing on her own soon.  Her mommy once
crawled out of her crib and slept in the floor, so we're being
proactive.  Plus this saves the mobile for a bit longer. 
As for the week itself, it was a good one.  The best news was that, after the third round of antibiotics, it looks as though the Munch has FINALLY kicked her ear infection.  Reports from daycare were consistent with what we've seen here at home - her smile is back and bigger than ever, the head tilt is gone, and she's no longer crying when laid on her back.  Thursday and Friday were fantastic, as she was an absolute BUNDLE of energy.  Our concern, however, is that she already seems stopped up again, and we really, really hope the medicine did in fact knock out the infection vs. just getting it close to the finish line.  Her chest if definitely rattling when we pick her up, and her breathing (which had become so quiet this week that JT and I panicked a few times when checking on her before bed) is starting to get loud and wet again.  To top it all off, she pulled on her ear (the tell tell sign) right before I put her down for her morning nap.  We have the check-up on Tuesday, so we'll see how her ears look then.  Fingers crossed the congestion is just the normal "crud" that the Peds warned us about - more to come.

It was a CHILLY week that even featured SNOW!
We keep the sneetch nice and bundled on the
drive to and from daycare.  Notice the mark by
her mouth - that's from the torrent of slobber we
are always wiping - new teeth should be here
any day now!
As for the Munch, her appetite for formula has come back with a vengeance!  She set several new "single session" records this week, at one point taking down 10.5 ounces of formula!  It's amazing how strong and mobile she's becoming, and one of the items I'm most proud of this week is her ability to negotiate obstacles when crawling.  She really likes crawling on Jenny and I now, and it's SO CUTE to watch her try and figure out the best way over us.  Also, she's learned how to negotiate the "down step" to the Bonus Room!  Now granted, it still involves something of a face plant, but I'll take it - it's a victory all the same! :-)

Within the last 24 hours we have had two finger pinches, meaning K closes something and doesn't have the strength (or understanding) to realize that it's her weight that's pressing down on her finger.  The first one (yesterday) was quite painful for her, and she screamed like a banshee for about 10 minutes.  The one today (on her pink Vtech "laptop") wasn't so much a pain as a shock, and given that she'd been awake 2.5 hours and almost instantly passed out on me, I'm writing that one off to just being tired.

Lastly, in family news - Team Taylor did manage to "get out" yesterday!  That's right, sports fans, abandoning our typical "you stay and I'll go" method of parenting, we loaded K in the Bob and headed for a local mall to knock out some shopping.  We were out of the house 2.5 hours, and K was AMAZING - not a peep from her!  She fell asleep in the car for about 20 minutes on the way home, and that little power nap carried her through until 7:20, when it was finally "night nights."  She really is the cutest kid EVER.
K helping Jenny sort through invoices - financial recon
is a family affair in the Taylor household.  After all - we're
better when we're connected.  :-)

In extended family news, I am VERY happy to report that our "Australian Family," Dean & Dom, were able to move their twins from NICU to a local hospital this week.  YAY!  The boys are both doing great and gaining weight - such good news on so many fronts.  We love you guys!

Not a whole lot else to report this week - certainly quieter than the visit to TN.  Fingers crossed that the Munch has kicked her ear infection, and GOOOOOOOO BRONCOS!!!!!!

Love,

Sam and Jenny