Age of Baby T: 10 weeks and 5 days (the size of a Kumquat)
Family,
And a good afternoon to you from the Queen City, where a whirlwind May is now in the books and T
eam Taylor is poised for a June that will see this house and our lives transformed. How's that for an opening, huh? Let's get amongst it, shall we?
General update - at the moment, my daughter is UBER into dresses. Seriously - every single day is a dress at the moment, with the top choices always being either Ladybug dress #1 or Ladybug dress #2. I will talk more about K's fashion sense further down, but suffice it to say that t-shirts are NOT the weapon of choice at the moment. Also, she does NOT want shorts - even if it's 14,000 degrees. I give a lot of credit to JT, as K is finally starting to see the value of wearing shorts vs. pants during a Charlotte summer, but it's been quite the journey. I mean, we are talking a girl mandating pants even if it's 90 degrees out - insanity! It's all about the "sparkle pants" that she likes so much. It's funny - one mom did make the observation that "sparkle shorts" might be the antidote. Why didn't I think of that earlier...but I'll tell you one thing that's just SO CUTE: anytime she puts on a dress, she says to Jenny, "I want to go show daddy how pretty I am." She then runs into my office (she's normally dressed before I start calls) and presents herself. For me, I get a) to see my super cute daughter dressed and ready to start the day, and b) a big hug, so it's a pretty awesome way to steel myself for facing corporate America. :-)5/4 - during prayers this evening, we asked K who she wanted to pray for. Without missing a beat, she said, "This bed." I mean, you gotta roll with it, right? And so there we were, saying, "Father, please bless this bed, that K can have a good night's sleep and be well rested...in Jesus Name...Amen." What's even cuter - she's now doing it herself.
5/5 - K's first swim lesson as a Little Froggy! So on the whole it went really well! She met her new teacher (Mr. Ryan), who was impressed for a first lesson and said that she was "a breath of fresh air." It's her and three boys, and she does seem a bit more willing to listen (and a little less likely to go off piste and start splashing) than the Y chromosomes, which is part of why I think he likes her. :-) That being said, she did a really good job with the kick board, with floating, and with at least putting her face underwater. Staying under longer was what Mr. Ryan said to focus on, so that's where we turned our attention in subsequent swims with her. 5/6 - Stroller Stride! So this was a new concept for us, but it's essentially moms getting together and exercising with their kids. The kids can either participate or ride along in the stroller, so it's a good chance to get some fresh air and exercise - all without needing a sitter! This one was at Birkdale village, and K seemed to have fun. I got to swim with her that afternoon at NOMAD - we swam for 65 minutes! I will talk more about swimming later in the post, but let me just say that her progress (in my admittedly biased eyes anyway) has been positively meteoric as of late. A lot of credit goes to Jenny, as she takes her swimming at least once a week outside of class. I am trying to do it as well, as a) that gives me some time with her, b) reinforces the skills, and c) gives Jenny a bit of a break. Daily we are seeing progress, and she's getting more and more fearless in the water (including jumping in it). I will say that, as of the 6th, she was still not a fan of wearing goggles. But times, they are a changin'...
Oh, and on this day (7 weeks pregnant), Baby T was officially the size of a blueberry. And in case you're curious:
Week 6 - size of a lentil bean
Week 5 - size of a poppy seed
Going forward, I'll give these updates in the weeks where the milestone is crossed. Out of the gate, however, I needed to play a bit of catchup. :-)
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| My favorite of the 3 pics from the William's house. Eli took a chair up those stairs, and K just plopped down like it was the most normal thing ever. LOVE. THAT. KID. |
5/7 - Over to the Williams clan - so this day Team Taylor rolled over to JP and Lindsey's for dinner. They are friends from church (ran my life group this time on Boundaries with Kids) with 3 kids and live in the neighborhood. We met them at a ServeCLT event back in December and thought they were great (I can confirm they are :-)). We grilled out that afternoon, and K had a BLAST running around their backyard. I was actually inspired as well, as seeing all of their toys (and their new fence) gave us some ideas about how to get more out of our backyard. Update on that - we were so inspired by their view of the golf course that just today (it's June 1 as I type this) we ripped up 34 bushes so we'd have a clear view of the fairway! K had a blast running around and playing with their kids, especially Ryan (she's 6 - K pretty much followed her around everywhere and did everything that she did - too cute).
5/8 - Mother's Day! So the beginning was a bit ominous, as K started out quite fussy (I even had to stripe her in the morning. The side note is that I did a lot less striping in May, and I do feel that I've seen better results from just the "threat" of it at this point - more about discipline later in the post). However, as the day wore on, it got much, much better. :-) We had a terrific church service and grilled out to celebrate Mother's Day, and on the whole it was one of relaxation and family time. Oh, and the cutest thing that night - As K was laying in bed, she kept singing the chorus of "God is on the Move" by 7th Time Down. She just kept shouting (we're talking no tone): "GOD IS ON THE MOVE! ON THE MOVE! ON THE MOVE!" Rinse/repeat - I mean...pretty darn cute.
5/9 - THE MIRACLE - So let's call it like it was - Team Taylor woke up ELECTRIC on this morning, as it was our appointment with Bradford. It felt different - all the symptoms were there, the energy in the house was different, and I am being completely honest when I say we KNEW that Baby T was going to be healthy and show a heartbeat. There were, of course, those jitters - ESPECIALLY when we went into the ultrasound room. This time, however, it was different. Because this time - we "struck the ground."
Some back story here - a few weeks before, I watched a sermon from Mike Griffin (Jenny had
already seen it) about "raising your prayer to God in the morning, waiting expectantly, and then striking the ground - not two or three times, but five or six or even seven times." The point of striking the ground was to show your faith that God would hear your prayer and grant what you had asked if your heart was obedient to him and focused on him first and foremost. Now anyone who's read all three (and now four volumes) of Raise Kids with the Taylors will note the rather dramatic change in my perspective on, well, EVERYTHING since joining Freedom House. One of the most profound areas of change has been in prayer and in a desire to submit to the will of the Father. As James says: "The fervent, effective prayer of a righteous man accomplishes much," and I want to be that righteous man who's prayers serve as arrows in the hands of the Almighty. Jenny and I had been praying daily for a healthy baby, a healthy mommy, and a healthy pregnancy, and as we pulled into the Bradford clinic, I wanted to leave no doubt that I was trusting God and believing in his infinite grace. They say "God always delivers on his promises," and let me go ahead and tell you, sports fans - he sure did this time. :-)
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| BABY HAS A HEARTBEAT!!! |
So there we were at the Bradford clinic, getting out of our car and trying to contain the jitters. I got out, walked over by the dirt and the trees, said a quick prayer, and then slapped the dirt - seven times. We then walked in and waited for just a few minutes before they took us back to the ultrasound room. It was the moment of truth.
I remember it quite vividly. Jenny and I weren't saying much. We just waited until the lights dimmed and the ultrasound monitor was placed onto Jenny's stomach. There was a flicker, but no sound. I wasn't breathing at that point, desperate to know the verdict (even though I already knew it). And then the technician said, "You won't hear anything because it's not a vaginal ultrasound, but that flicker is a heartbeat! Baby is showing 134 - good and strong." And then there were tears. Lots and lots of tears. :-)
We confirmed that there was just one in there, and then came my favorite part. They asked Jenny how far along she thought she was, and when she told the gal, she said, "You should be 7 weeks and 3 days." She then proceeded to measure Baby T, and what do you know - SEVEN WEEKS AND THREE DAYS. Again - RIGHT. ON. SCHEDULE. God is good. God is GREAT. And that day will always be remembered as the first time we saw our "rainbow baby."
K was so cute throughout the entire thing. She kept saying "Is there a baby in mommy's tummy?" She kept touching Jenny's stomach and kissing it - too cute! She has already told us that she wants a brother and believes that's what's growing inside Jenny. Oddly enough, JT and I think the same thing. It's all truly miraculous, and all glory and praise be to Jesus, God the Father, and the Holy Spirit for this truly amazing, incredible, miraculous blessing. For our part, we were just in shock (and elated, of course!). The shock is transitioning to pure joy and excitement at this point, but there's still some of that "I can't believe this is happening" lingering in our brain cases. And to think about the testimony Jenny is going to have in Peru - I cannot WAIT to hear what transformational, transcendental experiences await on the other side of that trip.
5/11 - The surprise visit from Aunt Pattie - It was a bit last minute, but Pattie decided to drive down and watch her old school (Radford) play in the Big South conference tournament. It was down in Rock Hill, so she got the chance to watch them play and hang out with her friends before driving up to spend the evening with us. K LOVED it - they had a blast! They played together for a good 3-4 hours, most notably on the red exercise ball.
5/13 - Criss-cross apple sauce - so this was another "so glad she's in pre-school" moment: I noticed she was sitting on her knees (which is apparently bad for children), and so I said, "can we do criss-cross applesauce?" Now in times previous that wouldn't get much traction. This time, however, she did it almost instantly! That was really cool to see. Also, she can now put her nightgown on all by herself! This evening was the first time I'd seen her do it - growing up! Also, she's pretty much 100% self-sufficient going potty now. She can get herself on the adult potties, go pee, wipe, then climb on her stool and wash her hands - nuts! Now I will say two things: 1 - she really doesn't like to wipe, and it's been a challenge to ensure she does that (although I've noticed it's been better lately), and 2 - it's a little tricky for her to keep her balance and pull a small bit of TP from the holder. But all in all, she's just knocking off milestones left, right, and center!At this point in the month, the shows were pretty much consistently 30 minutes of either Frozen or Rapunzel both morning and night. Also, I did note that she was really, really whiny this day. Truth be told, after a bounce back in April, we're starting to see a lot of whining and pouting as of late. I have since started writing down "House Rules," and I'm trying to be much better at telling her when there are rules and what the consequence of violating that rule will be. As I indicated earlier, I have tried to utilize the "Boundaries with Kids" concept of empathizing with K but explaining that the rule is the rule, with my job being simply to enforce the rule (even though I always tell her I don't want to discipline her, which is true).
The good news - she swam GREAT this day at NOMAD. Progress is almost daily at this point. Also, she's really taken a shine to the book "Boo." My favorite part is toward the end when she tries to pronounce "trick or treat" (she's got it memorized as per standard) - she says "Fwick or fweet." Love that kid!
| JT at 8 weeks. |
5/14 - a triumphant return to Lake Norman - So this day saw us back at GC and Melissa's on the lake, where we were hopeful K would fare better than the previous go-around (I remember it as one of her most profound meltdowns EVER, largely due to her discomfort in the life jacket). Well, I am THRILLED to report that this particular venture was a HUGE success, as she had a blast. She swam in the lake twice (it was cold but not unbearable, and she kept calling it the river), had tons of great food (I mean, that kid can KILL some ice cream), played around in the hot tub (she got in twice - that was her favorite part of the whole day, as she would say, "Can I get back in the warm water, dada?", and LOVED the boat ride! The water was choppy, and she thought the "big waves" spraying over the side was about the coolest thing ever. I thought she wouldn't enjoy it, but she LOVED it! She and Caden were really cute on the boat, as they were in the front, screaming at each other and making each other laugh. Also, she was simply adorable laying on the hammock with Georgia, both girls happily swaying in the breeze with their thumbs safely ensconced in their mouths. :-)
The highlights:
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| The girls being treated like royalty, courtesy of their servant GC. |
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| K swimming in Lake Norman...and LOVING IT. |
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| But then she found the "warm pool..." |
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| And the rest was history...until we noticed she was turning into a lobster. |
On the Baby T front - we told the "Loan Solutions crew on this day." They had just said, "we don't have any more babies to play with"...and then BOOM WENT THE DYNAMITE.
5/16 - JT told her Life group about the pregnancy (she told Dawn as well). The life group called her
"anointed," and one girl even asked her to lay hands! Dawn told her that she knew she would be pregnant when she told her in January about Peru. I mean, the pray energy emanating from these people is just amazing. We are humbled, touched, and eternally grateful. For my part, this was all the answer to a pray, as it gave Jenny a lot of strength and confidence with regards to her testimony and praying, as she led the life group in their closing prayer. I had asked God to give her increased confidence in her ability to pray, and you could just see the confidence when she returned home that night. Thank you, Father!
5/17 - She recited "Frozen - a New Reindeer Friend" all the way through for the first time. That's a long one, so that was quite impressive!
5/18 - JT's belly. :-) I mean, let's go ahead and say it -JT is POPPIN' OUT EARLY this go-around! It's been crazy how much quicker she's "popped" - there won't be any hiding this soon! Her belly button is almost gone already, and there is definitely a bump. JT and I think she was probably 20+ weeks before she was at this point last time - insane how the body remembers and just settles in!
5/19: K unfortunately had a temp over 100 (we later found out it was a virus) and had to miss pre-school on this day. That was too bad, as it was the end of school year ice cream party! However, my wife made sure she didn't go without - K got her own here at the house. :-) I will say that she's actually already sounding better, but all the same I'm glad we weren't "those parents" and still sent her to school.
5/20: This was a milestone morning for K, as she took her nightgown (Ariel) off all by herself...and quickly! I really didn't think she could do it, but then BAM! Nakey baby TT! And on the Baby T front, the little nugget rolled 9 weeks today - the size of a grape.
5//21 - BOMB DROPPAGE!!!! So this day was OBVIOUSLY one for the ages, as we let the parents know this day! Obviously we wanted Jenny to tell her folks first, and she told them early afternoon. She drove down, walked in, got K settled, and then changed out K's shirt. K then ran in with a shirt that read "Promoted to Big Sister Effective December 2016." AMAZING! Obviously her parents were thrilled, and then a notification to Kim via FaceTime (for the shirt, of course) was a fast follow. I was outside Asheville doing the Black Mountain Monster, so I didn't get to call anyone until about 5:30 (which is how I wanted it, as I wanted to ensure JT told her folks first). For mom, I had the photo of K ready to send, and so I called Mom and then said, "I have a photo from today that sums up everything." However, the bloody photo would download onto Mom's phone! Honestly, I chuckle now remembering how I told mom - we chatted about an hour, and for the first half hour I tried to drop subtle clues about things. Why we were changing vacation plans, why Jenny might not go to Vegas, etc. But then, finally, when the photo wouldn't go through as a text, I pulled over and sent it via email. Mom got it a minute or two later, and she instantly got choked up. I then did something I've never done before - I shared my testimony. I specifically focused on the tithe and the amazing events at each point (especially this year), and I tried to relay how apparent it was to us that Baby T was an absolute miracle from God (she agreed :-)). It was a wonderful, emotional conversation, and she was thrilled about it all. Dad was, too (I got the chance to tell him later in the evening).
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| The shirt that connects and angel with a miracle. |
shipping package with the shirt folded up). At the time it was just important to me that we kept it, as it, coupled with an ultra-sound photo, were likely to be the only reminders we had of a child that we'll never meet here but I firmly believe we will meet in Heaven. Little did I know that, even then - there was a plan. I mean, the ONLY WAY POSSIBLE that shirt could have ever been re-used from a size or date perspective was the following December, and lo, and behold - But God.
What I will say - when Jenny realized that she could re-use the shirt (before she'd even opened it) - her smile was a mile wide. Truly, there is a grand design to everything. I could wax quite spiritual here about all we've learned during this process and how these experiences have transformed us, but let me just simply say that we are humbled, our cup runneth over, and glory and thanks be to God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
5/22: A little news: So this day started with a bit of a harsh tone, as Jenny checked the CDC website in an effort to calm her mother by showing her that ZIKA wasn't in Peru...only to find that on that very day Peru had recorded their first in-country transmissions. Now readers - for those of you reading this 20 years from now, you may have NO IDEA what ZIKA is or was, but at the time of writing it's an epidemic that has swept the Americas. Basically it's a virus transmitted by a certain type of mosquito. And while the virus is largely harmless to everyone, there is circumstantial evidence that it's devastating to unborn babies, causing a condition called microcephaly (among other things). Admittedly this was rattling to us both, but at the time we agreed that we would just pray on it and see where the Lord directed us.
On a happier note thinking about progress in general, K is actually opening her closet door, picking out her own outfit (she steps on the chest that holds the ski gear), taking it down from the rack, and then dressing herself! Seriously - she's been doing this for a week now - it's AMAZING! Here favorite thing to wear is dresses (there is no close second), and her favorite dresses are two ladybug dresses that Vol Nana procured for her. Oh, and she LOVES to wear her sparkle pants. How much does she love them? So much that we can't get her to wear shorts - even when it's a basquillion degrees outside!
Also, she's got a new nightly ritual now where she takes 2 seashells from her bathroom, puts them behind her back, and then walks into her bedroom saying, "Can anyone guess what I'm holding?" And while it's all fun and games, we actually caught that little stinker hiding them in a drawer in the room and then getting them out after we'd said good night and sleeping with them behind Big Bear in the bed! We finally had to monitor it (but she pulled it off on multiple occasions - even after we were aware she'd been doing it!). Clever girl!
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| Muffins for Mom! |
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| Just too sweet. |
5/25: K drops some great quotes: So K has a nightly ritual of looking at photos on the iPhone while we put lotion on her. Well, given that most of the photos are repeats, she's taken to saying the same things (largely copying us) as she flicks through them. Some of the best ones:
1. Anytime she sees one of her sleeping: "Dat me PAAAAAAAAAAASSED out..." And here are some of the classic pics showing that very thing:
2. When she sees the spoiled meat we returned to BJ's: "BAD MEAT! I like Bad Meat!" She will then proceed to show it to each of us and say, "Bad meat, mama! Bad meat, dada!" HILARIOUS!
Also, she's now doing the prayer by herself, and after every person (including the bed) she's saying "In Jesus' Name." And another milestone - first dance class today! It was a free class, and she must have had a blast. We also hit the farmer's market for bounce houses and food (YES - it was a full day).
5/26 - Pre-school graduation (say WHAT?!?!?!?!?) - so this was a first for us: the first time we've
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| My little "fisher of men." |
seen kids go through any type of graduation ceremony. K's little group was GREAT, as they walked out with little fish strapped on them and sang "Fishers of Men" (K actually still sings it quite a bit). All the performances were cute, but then the 4 year olds (the graduates) started their performance, and let me tell you - I. JUST. LOST. IT. I don't know what I expected, but suddenly here are these kids dressed in caps and gowns, with this gorgeous song playing, and I was blubbering like a baby. I mean, she'll be RIGHT THERE in 2 years, and those 2 years will go by in the blink of an eye. K was an angel and say in her mom's lap throughout the performance, and I just spent a lot of time looking at them and thinking about how quickly it all changes.
One great teaching moment today: Jenny went to Goodwill shopping for toys for the mission trip. K went with her, and when Jenny explained what they were doing, she said, "Kids don't have toys?" Just Saturday she said "Daddy, is mommy in Peru giving toys and candy to the kids there because they don't have any?" I am thrilled that she heard that message at such a young age, and I'm very much looking forward to reinforcing that with volunteer activities and other mission work in the future.
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| Last pic with Ms. Tara - she was great for K this year. |
Oh, and on the K front, she's started wearing her hair in a ponytail. It's TOO CUTE! It also makes her look SO much older - my little Munchkin is growing up before my very eyes! Also, she announced on this day: "I wanna be a police." She took that from graduation, where each of the 4 year olds said what they wanted to be. It was pretty darn cute. And speaking of what she's saying, there are 3 things constantly on repeat right now:
1. "Why?" I mean...it's. Just. Endless. But she's still pretty cute.
2. "When I grow up I can (insert whatever the task is I'm helping with) all by myself?" I have gotten into the habit of always saying yes, but Jenny had to correct me when it came to standing in the cold pool, as she can't even do that! :-) But it is pretty funny - it's always either "when I grow up" or "when I'm a big girl..." Just stay little, wee one! Don't grow up too fast! It's a one way street!
3. "Where we gonna go in the morning?" I mean, we get this one at least 457 times a day. As with why, I've started replying "Where do you think?" Normally I get the correct answer...and a sly smile. :-)
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| Baby T at 10 weeks. |
5/28 - Neighbor Karen's surprise 50th b'day party: This was over at their house after church, and K KILLED some Mexican food! This was a great day overall - church was terrific, the day was fun, and K was an ANIMAL in the pool! Seriously - it was her fourth day swimming in a row, and she was phenomenal on this day. We had 45 minutes of her streamlined and kicking, and then we had another 25 minutes of her floating on her back and even doing some backstroke. And most exciting - she wore her goggles the entire time! It was like a switch just flipped or something, as this was a meteoric improvement (but don't get me wrong - that kid is doing GREAT and progressing quickly. Her private instructor asked me on Sunday: "How old is she?" When I said 3, he said, "She's doing pretty good for that age." I like him, so that's a great sign. :-)
5/29 - Baby Qberry Shower in Floyd, VA - we left CLT about 9 AM or so on this day and made the trek up to Floyd for Cousin Marc & Kim's baby shower. Those two have been trying to have a child for several years now, and so this child is truly a rainbow baby. We are SO excited for them and wouldn't have missed this for the world. The party itself was great - the food was incredible (K quite liked it all), there were cows in fields, dogs swimming in ponds, wagons to ride in - you name it. K had a BLAST running around the house, and she also loved playing Duck, Duck, Goose with her cousins! She even got read to be one of the adults (they did a kid's story time, and K was mesmerized). It was just a really fun day, and we spent the night with Megan's parents. K slept in Auntie Cici's room, which was good (she did sleep all night straight through) except for the fact that she woke up like a shot at 6:30 AM and instantly started calling out, "Mommy! Daddy! It's morning time! We got down there as quick as we could, and luckily they have a HUGE basement with a basquillion toys. K played with this little farmhouse for a good hour. It's actually been neat to watch - she's really starting to play with doll houses, farm houses, etc, and she takes great care to set each piece up. I even noticed this in child watch on Saturday, as she was very meticulous with each piece she selected and then pondered where to place it in the house. Too cute.
5/30 - Gout started on me the day before, but I didn't realize it until later this day. It was a REALLY tough day for me (as I could barely walk), but K and Jenny had a blast. K played with balloons and ran all around the cabin (she LOVED playing with the boys). A cute story came this morning when Maurice (Megan's dad) was sitting with us down in the basement. K decided she needed to pee, so she just grabbed ducky potty, pulled it right in the middle of all of us, dropped her drawers, and then proceeded to fill that puppy up. Maurice said, "We might need to teach you a little about privacy." Too funny!
Also, the sweetest moment - when K noticed I was hurting, she asked me why I was walking funny. I told her my foot was hurting, at which point she kissed it and asked if that made it feel better. And then, later than night when I couldn't walk back into her room to give her a final hug, she asked, "Can you crawl in, dada?" I mean, how do you say no to that?
The Floyd Highlights:
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| Because you don't actually need a body of water to enjoy an inner tube. |
| "Asked women..." |
| Great shot of the "cousins..."and K in a posture of COMPLETE DEFIANCE. |
| Storytime with cousin Jessica - these kids were mesmerized. |
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| Lunchtime! |
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| And my personal favorite, henceforth known as "Life in Appalachia." |
5/31 - Lifegroup Dinner - It was just the Taylor clan and the William clan, but we had a blast hanging out with them to celebrate the end of the life group semester. K stalked Ryan the entire time, mimicking everything she did and said. Their cutest moment was when they walked out together under a blanket like they were hiding from us. I mean...those are pretty cute kids. Just sayin'...
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| My little hippie... |
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| ...and my little princess Rapunzel. |
Ok, there you have it! May was, simply put, INCREDIBLE. There is so much more I could (and should) write, but ultimately some of it just has to remain either in my head, in the Encounter Log, or on the cutting room floor. And since it's taken me so long to pen this one, I now have to turn my focus to starting the June blog! I need to "pull a Joshua" and stay the sun for a bit!
That's all the news that's fit to print. Chat soon!
Love,
Sam and Jenny
































