Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Steamrollin' (and swimming!) through Summer...

Age of Lady Kaitlyn:  3 years, 4 months, and 22 days

Age of Baby T:  19 weeks and 4 days (the size of a tomato)

Family,

And a good evening to you from the Queen City, where the Bull is just trying to get a few key stokes in while the house is quiet.  And absolutely fabulous (even if eventful and expensive!) July is in the
Little Ledecky, baby!!!!
books, so let's get amongst it, shall we?

7/1 - so July started with a bang, as Team Taylor loaded up the car and drove to the Volunteer State for the long holiday weekend.  Let me just say first off that I didn't realize how much I needed this time away, and this time with my family was just PERFECT.  K had a blast, I really got quality time with everyone, and I had the most fun I've had in TN in a long time.

We got there in the afternoon and went straight for mom's pool.  She'd pulled some trees out, and the new look of the place was basically a posh resort!  K went straight into the water, and everyone was amazed at how well she swam (me included - so proud of my little Pisces!).  Mom even pulled out a treat for me - my old turtle that was the sprinkler I ran through as a kid.  that thing is almost 4 decades old!  I was so excited that I couldn't help running through the sprinkler a few times (K followed suit).

Dad, Alice, and Pattie came over that night, and what followed was just an absolute blast.  Everyone had a great time and ate like kings.  We even broke out the fireworks...which K was NOT a big fan of.  We started with the sprinklers (which I thought was a great idea), but K burned herself a bit on one of the sprinklers.  She definitely cried for a bit, but then she got back on the horse and played with one more set of them.  Mom had gone all out with the food, the fireworks, and the decorations, so rest assured K still had TONS of fun (and food!).

The funniest moment was when we started shooting off the (admittedly super small) fireworks.  K thought it was neat at first, but then the report when one of them exploded clearly scared her.  After that, she just kept covering her ears and saying either "it's too loud" or "let's get further away."  We ended up only using half of the ones we'd planned, but there were still some classic moments, such as when the "very mild" ladybug actually flew up off the ground and crashed into a tree!  Luckily we didn't burn the place down.  K summed up her feelings on it the next day when she said, "I don't want to do that again EVER."  Priceless.  She was so tired that night that she didn't even get a bath or want us to read!  That's a first!


Baby T hit 15 weeks on this day - the size of an apple!  The other big milestone was that Baby T can now hear our voices!  So exciting!!!

7/2 - after breakfast, we rolled over to Dad and Alice's house to spend the day with them.  I have to give Alice the credit for us even being there, as before she'd called to say "let us be grandparents," I'd never even considered heading home for the 4th.  That day was just a blast of terrific food, pool time, hot tub time, and relaxing.  We even got K on the slip 'n slide (so what if we had to drag her :-))!  We played around all day, and it was just SO relaxing.  We even spent the evening watching the fireflies come out before taking K off to bed (LATE once again).  The highlight for her was definitely the slip 'n slide.  She wasn't sure at first, but by the end she was ALL ABOUT it - too cute!  We got some great pics of her playing - she was just so, so happy.  My daughter loves Tennessee - I can't complain about that!

Oh, and K's line of the day was walking down the steps with Alice.  She said, "Granny A - don't fall like you always do!"  Priceless!  Such a memory on that little goose.

The highlights from the Dad/Granny A visit:

Soul Surfer!

I mean, she LOVED the slip 'n slide.

Even if I was the one who had to pull her down it every time. :-)

Homemade popsicles!

Knoxville Zoo!




In their defense - my only request was "don't let her ride a horse."
So I guess they followed my instructions...which will get more explicit from here on out. :-)
7/3 - This was another great day for everyone, as K went with Dad, Alice, and Pattie to the Knoxville Zoo and spent the evening with them.  JT and I actually went to hang out with Johnny and Rebecca, and MAN did we have fun.  It was again such a relaxing, refreshing day, and we absolutely made every second of it count.  K did too, as she rode on a camel, visited the splash pad, ate a nutty buddy, went to Wal-mart, watched a movie, played with fireflies, and even made a bird feeder!  I mean, that's a full day out right there!

 The highlights of the stay with Vol Nana and Grand Pooh:

She loves Granddaddy...but she loves cupcakes more.




My room...now filled with Sofia...


Too cute.

I pledge allegiance...



7/4 - K woke up with a dry diaper this morning (so I'm told), marking 7 of the last 8 days dry!  She's definitely close - it's really only the deep sleeps where she's absolutely exhausted that we're seeing her still have full diapers.  Exciting!  We drove home throughout the day.  K was fussy but slept 90 min (her average bedtime in TN had been about 9:30).  We actually were able to go both ways without stopping for lunch, which made the experience SO much better (and shorter!).  Knowing that we can now do it in 4 hours is great, as it means we can roll out about 3 PM and get there in 4 hours in time for dinner - that's a difference maker.

Her cute line of the day:  When asked if she wanted a brother or sister, she said a "Bister."  Pretty cute.

Her not so cute line of the day:  So K has been misbehaving a bit lately, and when she's called out for it, she says, "Benny said we could do it" (that's Benny from Dora).  It's either been "I didn't do it, Benny did" or "But Benny said we could."  Mercifully this hasn't happened in a couple of weeks, so I'm hoping we're past that.  

7/5 - K's first day of dance class!  She was in there with her friend Emmi (who goes there regularly), and she LOVED it!  The funny thing is that you never really get many details from her about the day, but we were able to piece some of it together. :-)

Her classic quotes from today:  I asked her to do something (no idea what), and she replied with her usual "Why?"  I said, "Why do you think?"  Her response:  "One, because you said so."  CLASSIC!  I mean, that's always how I start my response to the "why" question, but to hear it back was just priceless.

Second - she and Jenny broke a wishbone, and K got to make a wish (I actually think Jenny had the bigger piece, but details).  She asked for 2 things:

1.  That mommy would have a big, stinky poopy

2.  That daddy would pee pee

I mean....WHAT?  But seriously - K is OBSESSED with poopy right now and sings about it all the time.  Every song ends with "and I'm eating poopy."  I mean - is it just in humanity's DNA to make toilet humor?


7/8 - 10 YEARS OF MARRIAGE!!!!!  Holy moly, how is that even possible?  JT and I went out for an amazing date night, with Kayla (Dawn's daughter - went to Peru with Jenny) watching the Goose.  Jenny and I hit the Melting Pot, where we were treated to quite the culinary adventure - SO FUN!
Who is that sexy lady taking a bumpie?

Jenny - there are a million things I could say and type here, but let me just say that you are THE MOST amazing mom, and I LOVE raising a child and "doing life" with you.  You are my best friend, my partner in crime, my soul mate, and the heartbeat of this house that you have made a home.  I love you, am so proud of you, am in awe of you, and cannot WAIT to see you chasing around another one in a few month's time. :-)  I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!

I mean...ADORABLE.
K was apparently good all night but must have melted down in the bath.  Apparently Kayla just opened the drain (as any normal person would!), but K freaked out because "that's not how daddy does it."  Classic!  Next time I'll teach Kayla how to fold the washcloth and turn it into "the apparatus." :-)
"Dat's me paaaaaaaassed out."
Oh, and K swam 150 METERS IN THE COLD POOL today!  I mean, it was nuts!  She just kept going and going and going!  I was so proud of her, and I was teary eyed watching her and JT in the water together swimming.  They have something they are both good at and enjoy, and I'm hoping for a lifetime of wonderful memories in that pool.  Go Aqua Devils!  I will say something else that made me proud - I see a lot of parents on the sidelines or the benches, but not many in the water.  JT and I are in that water a TON, and I think we're seeing the benefits of it in Kaitlyn's progress (but more

importantly, she's having fun with us and we're having fun as a family).  I just loving being in the water with her - she's so free and happy, and she really seems to be enjoying herself.

This was also the big "recital day" at dance camp, and it was TOO CUTE!  First, they executed their
compulsory moves, and the kids were just precious.  Seeing K "sashay" and do the little thing with her hands above her head was just too cute - we had such fun!  They also did 3 routines, and the girls seemed to really, really enjoy themselves.  It was a princess themed week, and they danced, did arts and crafts, and just had a lot of fun.  I don't think we'll enroll her in it in the fall (we actually decided on Soccer as well as continuing swimming), but she did enjoy it, and it's likely something we'll do again.

The recital highlights (of which there were many):

Getting set for first position!

Ready to "sa-shay, mommy!"

"Suuuuuuummer..."

This little pig is too cute...

I'll huff...and puff...and blow your house down.  Notice my daughter was
smart enough to build her house out of bricks.  Just sayin'...GENIUS.

One for the ages right there.


Baby T was 15 weeks on this day - the size of an avocado!  JT actually had a doctor's appt on this day - heartbeat was 152!  That baby's not giving away any secrets. :-)  I got that text in the morning, and it really, really lifted my spirits.  I'd had a spirit of fear pressing down on me over the days leading up to that appointment, and I think I got teary-eyed when I saw the text (I certainly was relieved!).

7/9 - We had a fun day out on this day, starting with Panera (had a gift card) and then rolling over to Monkey Joe's.  K was a little fussy - she actually opened with a MELTDOWN on the first inflatable.  However, we did rally. :-)  We then rolled over to NOMAD, where K went BEAST MODE in the cold pool again.  I mean, this girl is a machine!

There was a bit of trouble on this day, however, as we came home to find several water spots on K's ceiling.  I will spare you the gory details, but we ended up with an HVAC technician at the house at 11 PM and K sleeping in the in-law suite.  We ran the HVAC for a couple of hours to keep it cool but then had to turn it off.  And while it was okay on Saturday, Sunday was a whole new ballgame.

7/10 - K had another private lesson today, and Brandon said, "she's the easiest student I've ever had."
GERONIMO!!!!!
That was awesome!  He just said, "You tell her to do something, and she does it."  It really was crazy to watch her pulling rings off the bottom of the pool - so cool!

The HVAC was out that night, so we tried to run fans all over the house in an effort to keep it cool.  However, K's room showed 88 DEGREES!  I went in there while she was asleep, and it was like breathing in the Amazon.  I was actually a little concerned, especially when the numbers on her monitor when from the normal blue to red - that was a first!  Honestly, I knew she was fine, but you never know about suffocation with those little lungs, so I was antsy every time I got up to go to the bathroom and checked the monitor.

7/11 - So this was the first day of "Little Scientists" camp for K, and she LOVED it.  I actually think it was her favorite camp of the 4 we signed her up for this summer (which is why it was such a bummer that we had to cut it short).  She and Jenny actually slept down at her parent's place this evening, and I slept in the living room on an air mattress since it was 10 thousand degrees upstairs.

7/12 - So a few days prior to this one, we'd received a text that one of the girls at dance camp's sister had Hand, Foot, and Mouth.  We actually thought up until this point that K had avoided it, but on this day she started complaining that "her throat was hurting.  Then, like clockwork, we saw the bumps in her throat.  Not wanting to spread it like wildfire, we a) skipped camp that day and b) booked her in for an appointment with the Peds, who did confirm that a) she had it and b) she'd have to miss the rest of camp.  That was a REAL bummer, as she'd LOVED the first two days.  Side note - we did at least find out that Tuesday was the "big day" with experiments, and so she at least got to see that.

Never fun, but she was a trooper.
The good news - it passed VERY quickly for her, and it was the mildest case I'd ever heard of.  She had a very few bumps on her hands, and she had a few spots in her throat.  Eating hurt her a bit (especially acidic foods), so K had a lot of yogurt and banana smoothies during that period.  All in all, we feel VERY fortunate, as it could have been much, much worse than it was.  We actually had the Rice clan show up for a visit on 7/14, and K was in good spirits even then (her fever was already gone).

7/15 - the Rice clan actually arrived the night before, but we got into full swing on this Friday.  We started off at Primal Brewing, where K was an ANGEL!  We had an absolute blast - such fun!  We were the first pour of the day (12:17 PM in case anyone's scoring), and K really had fun in there.  We then went and sat by the pool, where K swim like a dolphin and had a lot of fun.

This was a big day for another reason as well - K got her last animal out of prison!  It was hilarious, as I made her a) go to the jail (my closet), b) take money out of the ATM (the wall), and then c) pay the Bail Bondsman (the door).  When I recounted this with some colleagues at work, the response was priceless:  "That's a pretty serious life lesson right there."  We actually did that for the last 3 animals, so I think it's engrained in her mind at this point. :-)

The weekend was a blast, as we had an amazing time with the Rice's, and K got a chance to hang out with both Sara Beth and Lauren.  K had a terrific swim lesson that Sunday - she was diving really deep!  She really is loving diving for rings now, and she does a great job getting down there quickly.  When she makes up her mind to dive down, she just puts her head down and goes for it!


A few Rice Clan highlights:

Chillin' with Uncle John at D-9.

My favorite pic of the weekend - @ Primal.  K LOVED the endless popcorn bucket!

Tweede Dee and...well, you know. 

Ginger Beer for Muffin Puffin @ Legion!


And in Baby T news - he/she was the size of a turnip this day!

7/19 - JT and K went to the Annapolis splash pad on this day, and they had a blast!  Also, on this night and the night previous, Team Taylor started praying differently with K.  Instead of kneeling by her bed, we started climbing into bed to pray (she pretty much mandates that now).   And in an effort to better adhere to our beliefs and cultures, we've started laying hands on each other - especially in areas that are hurting.  On this evening, they laid hands on my knee (it was hurting, and I had a race on Friday).  And sure enough, I can confirm that it did start to feel better!

On 7/18, I slept 11 hours.  On 7/19, I slept 9 hours.  Those were 2 of the biggest sleeps I'd had in an age, and that was the point I finally realized how tired I was - AND GRUMPY.  Before those two sleeps, I'd definitely had a less than pleasant edge, but after that I definitely found myself in a better place mentally and having more fun at home and in everything I did.  The rest absolutely helped me to enjoy family time, and I was much more "in the moment" while there.

Little Starfish, BABY!
7/21 - K had her best swim lesson EVER on this day - she was a machine!  Katie (the instructor) came over and said she was ready to move up, so she graduated from the Little Froggies and became a Starfish!  That's really huge, as not only is it showing progress, but she's also both really loving it and showing an aptitude for it.  We actually saw her do 8 straight strokes freestyle!

Out of the water, K's obsession is PUZZLES.  And let me tell you - this girl is a SURGEON.  Seriously - she can do those things like it's NOTHING.  It's amazing to watch her work so fast!  At this point, she was only doing 24 piece puzzles, but she's since graduated to 96 piece puzzles!  Insane!  She loves them, and so I want to continue fostering that aptitude.  I need to find the next great Sofia or Frozen puzzle for her to crack. :-)  During this stretch, the 10 minute "reading ritual" at bedtime was eclipsed by puzzles.  She couldn't have had less interest in books (or even her stickers) - it was all about the Frozen puzzles from Vol Nana (eventually giving way to the Sofia puzzles from Vol Nana :-)).


7/22 - Baby T update - the size of a pepper!

One of my new fave pics of us.
7/23 - We hit up DPK and renewed our membership, and K LOVED IT!  We then rolled over to NOMAD, where K swam 225 meters ON HER OWN and played around pulling rings off the bottom of the warm pool.  At this point, she's really all about the cold pool, but eventually she goes over to the warm pool to play on the ramp or the step - it's amazing to watch!

The highlight of the evening was probably church, where they had a big Summer Nights bash.  There was a TREMENDOUS storm during service, and afterwards the bounce houses were soaked.  That did not stop K from getting on them, however, and she.  Was.  SOAKED.  Lexi (one of the student assistants for FH kids) picked up up and then put her back down saying, "Ew, you're soaked!"  It was t

oo funny.  K didn't mind - she also got a Kung Fu Panda temporary tattoo and played on pretty much everything.


Side note for this period - if you ever ask K what she wants for her snack, the answer is ALWAYS the same:  "Chocolate Bunny Snacks."  This is some goodness that you get a BJ's, and there are 4 flavors of "Bunny Snacks."  K, however, DRAINS the chocolate ones first.  Cheddar, Chocolate Chip, and Honey don't get a lot of love.

7/24:  Starting the "nesting" process:  So we hit the Famous Toastery over by Concord Mills and ate like KINGS before rolling over to IKEA to start furniture shopping for K's room.  It was a really good hour, but the most interesting thing was the discovery of "Smalland" right at the entrance.  Um, HELLO? Best thing EVER!

So here's the deal - if your child is 3-5, you can check them into this little self-contained play area for (I think) 60 minutes.  There's a bathroom, there are balls to jump in, there are coloring books, there's a TV, there's other stuff - it's pretty much paradise if you're that age.  That gave Jenny and I an hour to shop and relax, and it gave K an hour to just play.  It was money!  And best of all - we think we found her chest of drawers!
K at the Kannapolis splash pad.

We then hit Concord Mills, where K fell in a store (the hot sauce store).  I thought she was going to lose it (picture the calm before the storm with the quivering lip), but suddenly, out of nowhere, this lady appears and says, "Don't cry - I think I might have a magic sucker.  Would you like one?"  She then pulls out a blow-pop and gives it to K, who has COMPLETELY forgotten about the fall.  Come to find out, the lady was a teacher, quite adept in dealing with such emotions.  I actually didn't think anything about it at the time, but Jenny did point out that we let a total stranger give our child something.  Note to self - I must be a little smarter in future about that.

Either way - we rounded out the day with K swimming 600 METERS ON HER OWN AT NOMAD.  Incredible!  I mean, she would just go SO HARD non-stop.  Basically she would swim to the end, pull off her goggles, say "Where's mommy?", realize she was on the other end, and then say, "Let's go!" before tearing back into the water.  I caught her a couple of times, and her heart was beating out of her chest.  That little Pisces LOVES the water!

Interlude:  A few DPK pics to celebrate the return of Team Taylor:

Now Public brand!






7/25 - Summer Olympics (Toddler Edition) - so this was K's last camp of the summer, and it was an absolute blast.  She competed in events, made a picture of the Olympic rings, did an obstacle course, made an Olympic torch, made a gold medal - you name it.  It was really, really cute.  I was just thrilled that she got to go all week.  K loved it because she got to ride with Mrs. Lindsey and her "best friend Eli" most days, which was pretty darn cute.

What was funny about the whole week was that you could NEVER get K to tell you anything about the day.  You had to piece it together from talking to teachers or looking at what she brought home.  It was funny, as normally she's quite loquacious.  For this week, however, mum was the word. :-)

7/26 - ServeCLT at Fire Station 31 - So this was a hoot, as K came with us for one of our Service Events.  We did "muster drills" with the firemen, and the kids got to participate in the "Bucket Brigade" (really cute).  This basically consisted of them trying to put water into a big container, with the end result being that they soaked themselves and pretty much laughed the entire time.  I gotta admit - it was pretty cute.

7/27 - Praise be to God:  Perfect and Healthy:  So this was a BIG day for Team Taylor, as we went uptown for the Anatomy Ultrasound.  Obviously we felt good and were very confident that everything would be okay, but of course there's nothing like seeing it.  And boy, did we ever see it.

So I didn't quite appreciate it when Jenny told me a few weeks back, but given her "advanced maternal age," she was sent to Maternal Medicine vs. Bradford for her ultrasounds.  The difference is

You can even see the nose!

Look at those little Tarheels!

that the folks at Presby have INCREDIBLE equipment, and the ultrasound we received was basically 4-D!  We saw EVERY BONE in his/her body.  We saw blood flow.  We heard the heart beat.  We saw SUPER CUTE little feet.  We even saw the little pug nose!  It was just incredible, and we got the best news you could ever hope to hear - Baby looks perfect and is tracking within 1 day of the due date (I actually saw 12/24 on the screen the last time we were there - INSANE!).

It was just a spiritual, amazing, incredible, perfect moment.  The spirit of fear can sneak into you if you allow it, and moments like this are just such comfort and blessed assurance.  God is good, and he always keeps his promises.  Every good and perfect gift is from above.  I could just go on and on, but I think the best way to sum it up is the way I sum up a great workout:  "THANK YOU, FATHER!!!"  So excited!

K had a big day as well, as she had her first Starfish swim lesson!  Her instructor (Ms. Donna) bragged on her and said, "She's doing really well for her age."  We were proud!  I haven't been able to see a lesson yet, but apparently it's her and 3 other 5-6 year old boys.  Way to go, K!  I've taken to calling her "Little Ledecky" at this point, as she's loving it.  Ms. Donna did seem impressed that she was so far advanced for her age, so that's a great feeling.  Oh, and for the first time ever in a lesson - they jumped into the cold pool!

7/29 - The End of Ducky Potty...or so we thought:  So on this day we hid Ducky Potty in the closet.  Our thinking was that, since she could not climb onto all toilets, we no longer needed to continue emptying and cleaning ducky potty.  Froggy potty was set to remain, as we knew we needed something during nap and bed time.  K didn't miss a bea.  She went in to pee in the afternoon, and then there was silence in the bathroom.  Then we hear, "Where is Ducky Potty?"  We explained that Ducky Potty went away because he was no longer needed.  K was a big girl now and needed to use the grown-up potty.  She didn't really bat an eye, and so we thought "WOW, that was easy!"  Stay tuned for - as Paul Harvey would say - the rest of the story....

The celebratory O'Douls.  Thanks, KJ!
Baby T hit 19 weeks today - the size of a tomato!

7/30 - The Return of Ducky Potty - so this was a GREAT day, as we had the Miller and Tavares clans over for a cookout at our house.  We were super excited about this, as Ray and Lisa had been aware of all our challenges getting pregnant (they went through the exact same thing - 3 miscarriages before their "rainbow baby"), and we couldn't wait to share the good news.  Well, the second they walked in, it was pretty much a given that JT was "with child," and they had a sigh of relief on their faces as they said, "We hoped you had news!"  It was a treat, especially since Lisa was the one who told Jenny about the "rainbow baby."

The day was great, and EVERYONE had a blast.  The kids played SO WELL together - it was just amazing!  The weather cooperated as well, and so we just had a grand old time.  And K even did her first ever somersault!  She'd been close to it on occasion, but she actually pulled it off that evening!

The Miller-Tavares-Taylor Reunion Recap:


The future Olympian swimmers of North Charlotte.


One for the ages - amazing how much these kids have already grown.


I mean, if she tells me she's gonna date this kid, I"ll punch someone. :-)

As long as Jackie's not telling her Cabo is a "good spring break vacation spot," we're ok.


Oh, and for some reason she just decided to open the closet door by the bathroom before anyone arrived for the shin dig.  What do you think she found in there?  That's right - DUCKY POTTY.  It was hilarious.  I was just in the kitchen when suddenly I heard "But the one little duck, with the feather on it's back" blasting out of the bathroom.  I honestly couldn't stop laughing - too funny.  We actually decided to just leave it through mid-August, as we knew we'd be gone and wanted to try and make things as normal and as simply as possible for the grandparents while we were away (more to come on all that in the next post).

7/31 - K actually dove down and touched the bottom at FIVE FEET today!  She did it over at Clarke Creek pool, where we had a "pool date" with Kelly, Tom, and the girls.  We dropped the bomb on them, so once again we'll have kids very close together in age!  JT had been wanting to tell them, so this was super exciting.

Ok, that's all the news that's fit to print.  Speak soon!

Love,

Sam and Jenny



Tuesday, July 19, 2016

Team Taylor dives into summer...

Age of Lady Kaitlyn:  3 years, 4 months

Age of Baby T:  16 weeks, 2 days (the size of an avocado)

Family,

And a good Monday evening to you from the Queen City, where the Bull is solo tonight in a house
with only 1 working HVAC.  Having tried sleeping last night in 88 degree rooms (and worrying that K might potentially suffocate given the lack of airflow - even with three fans in there), I sent the girls and the TBD down to South Carolina to stay with Jenny's family.  I'm actually planning on sleeping on the air mattress in the living room tonight.  And while that is sub-optimal, the good news is that a) a replacement is on the way tomorrow, and b) I've got some time to really devote to cranking the Blog out (or at least making progress!).  So let's get amongst it, shall we?

6/2 - K successfully opened the drain for the first time ever!  So I think we've alluded to the fact that K's sense of independence is a bit excessive at times (more on that throughout this post), and the trouble is that, while I love her willingness to try new things, she is adamant that no one can help her when she's trying to do things - even if they are beyond her current abilities.  The drain in her bathtub had been one of these items until this moment, but BOOM GOES THE DYNAMITE.  It's funny, as I'd basically just told her "Sweetheart, you can't do it yet.  It's ok, and I appreciate you trying, but you're just not strong enough."  Two seconds later, that drain was flowing like a Maelstrom.  Quality!

#tillthewholeworldhears
6/3 - We hit NOMAD on this day, and K actually stayed in the cold pool for THIRTY MINUTES!  It was nuts, but she had a blast!  Also, Baby T rolled 11 weeks on this day - the size of a fig. :-)

6/4 - This was a big night, as this was the night that we went to Saturday evening service.  Normally

Sammy the Bull doing his part to protect JT - spraying
Premetherin all OVER her clothes...and the screen porch.
we don't go on Saturdays, but on this night they were praying for the missionaries heading to Peru.  Just before the sermon started, they called the team to the front.  The leaders then walked up and laid hands on them, and Pastor Troy actually laid his hands on Jenny's forehead!  It was an incredible moment, and the message also helped really bolster my strength and confidence about Jenny going to Peru.  It's funny to write about it now that she's already home, but there was definitely a spirit of fear trying to press on us in the days leading up to the trip.  I had been strong and felt very confident that God would protect her - after all, we had prayed on it a lot and believed that's where God wanted her to be - but as D-day closed in, there was certainly some anxiety that creeped into the house.  However, I heard the sermon I needed that night, and after that it was full speed ahead.

6/5 - K had her first private lesson over at Emmi's pool on this day, and she did great!  The instructor, Mr. Brandon, was great, and K really took to him quickly.  He had lots of great ideas on how to get her to do certain things in the water, and it was $20 very well spent.  We then stuck around and played in the pool (a lot in their hot tub), and K had a blast with Emmi.  It was so funny - K just wanted to do everything that Emmi did.  We've actually seen this a lot lately, and in many instances she'll just completely copy the object of her attention at the moment (you should see her with little Charlotte at NOMAD - she is almost like her shadow).  Emma was really cute because she kept calling K  "little Kaitlyn" (apparently her babysitter is named Kaitlyn as well).  K was really whiny on this day.  We thought it was just a one off.  Little did we know...
Stage 1 - the "Getting to Know You" period

Stage 2 - let's see those kicks and find out what you can do
Stage 3 - face in, let's float!

6/6 - K's first day of Summer Camp:  so this week started the first of 4 camps this summer for the Goose.  This one, over at University Methodist, was called "Wonders of Nature."  And let me tell you - K absolutely LOVED IT.  Seriously - she had a blast every single day, but particularly on the day where they gave her the Smore to take home.  Too cute.

JT had an appointment for Baby T on this day, and the heartbeat was 168.  Everything looked and sounded GREAT!

Side note on this day - Jenny received a letter from Cousin Mark.  Inside was a note about the upcoming trip, a check to sponsor her on the upcoming trip, and another small gift.  It was his dog tags from Iraq, and inscribed on them was the Bible verse that Jenny had repeated over and over in the run-up to the trip - Joshua 1:9.  Truly, it was a "God Encounter" moment.  Believe me on this people - God absolutely WILL and DOES speak to you when you need to hear His voice.

6/7 - I started this day a little on edge about Zika, but then I switched my research from news and forums to actual research and empirical information.  Again, I felt led by God to change my search tactics, and the end result gave me a much greater peace.  Also, we had lunch with the Parkhouses that evening at Hawthorne's and dropped the bomb!

Look at that hand!
6/8 - We got some terrific news at the OB-GYN.  The first check for Downs was negative - THANK YOU, FATHER!  The heartbeat was 162, and all the blood work was great.  Oh, and this was the night that K got to eat her Smores.  Hilarious.

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/10 - JT left for Peru early this day, and we didn't even have time for a "Bumpie."  However, she did get one in Peru to commemorate Baby T rolling 12 weeks - now the size of a lime!  I worked most of the day but took the afternoon off to swim with K at NOMAD, where K peed on me while I was giving her a piggy back ride in the pool.  AWESOME.

Some side notes at this point in the month:
12 weeks and counting!

1. "Start the timer" - so we usually use a timer before bed time, setting it for 8 or 10 minutes depending on how late we're getting her into bed.  A few weeks back I started saying it in a terrible Boston accent -  "Staht the tama" - and K would always correct me and ask me to "not use the funny voice."  Well, this week she started to copying whatever I did, and the results have been hilarious.  She's got a high pitched voice, a deep voice, a British voice - you name it.  Too cute.

2.  "Why" - I mean, this kid is asking it NON-STOP.  HOLY MOLY I DIDN'T THINK KIDS REALLY DID THIS.

3.  Her favorite question to ask (and she will ask it 600 times):  "Where we goin' go in da mornin'?"

6/11 - So I will just be honest - this was the toughest day I've ever had (and I hope will have) with K. I'm not sure if she didn't sleep good, she missed her mommy, a combination of the two, or something else, but she was an absolute TYRANT all day on this day.  Everything was a struggle.  I spanked her 5 times, we did multiple timeouts, I took 7 animals from her - still nothing worked.  It all started with her wanting to dress herself.  There are 2 problems here.  The first is that some outfits just simply aren't designed for a 3 year old to put on by themselves.  K, however, refuses help  - even when she gets so twisted that she's basically in a straight jacket.  But no matter what, she won't let you help her.  And then,
when she can't figure it out, she immediately gets so frustrated that it's an instant meltdown.  I mean, it was this way from 7 AM onward ALL DAY, and she didn't nap (which was a killer).  And don't get me wrong - we still had some great moments.   It was summer life group launch, and there were bounce houses, shaved ice, face painting for the kids, and they even got to spray colored water all over their teachers for the amount they raised as part of Liberty.  K ate that Shaved Ice like it was her job.  They gave her just the ice and let her mix the flavors - she was ALL ABOUT IT.

I will thank my mom for her coaching and encouragement on this evening. I 'd hit my breaking point, and quite frankly I was neither speaking nor behaving very politely.  Mom gently corrected me, and I'm thankful for that.

6/12 - K woke up at 4:40 AM screaming.  I went in there to check on her, but she was deep inside of a nightmare.  She actually opened her eyes and looked at me, but then she went back to rubbing them and re-settled.  That further frayed my nerves heading into Sunday, but luckily she was GREAT!  Honestly, she was a complete angel all day.  She started by asking me "Daddy, will you please help me put on my clothes?"  I was thrilled beyond words, because to me it suggested that I'd held the line one time longer than she was willing to push.  Truth be told, she really did miss the animals in the bed and wanted them back.  Perhaps I have finally "found her currency."  For her good behavior, she eventually got 3 animals back.  She also did a great job helping me clean up, so I gave her coins for her piggy bank.
JT with the kids in Peru.

She had a GREAT swim lesson - she was even pulling rings off the bottom of the pool (3 feet)!  She did unfortunately burn her feet on the pavement.  She was walking, it got too hot, and then instead of running she froze and started screaming.  I ran over and picked her up, as she was pretty rattled.  What I will say, she's VERY cautious over there now - she wants me to carry her EVERYWHERE unless a) I can prove it's shaded or b) Emmi is already walking along that same path.  And to confirm - her little tootsers are fine.

Dinner that night was with the Tacy's, as they'd graciously offered to look after K for the week so that I could continue working.  K showed me her room, had fun playing, and ate like a champ.  All went well until she noticed that I wasn't unpacking a bag.  When she realized that I was leaving, she suddenly started hanging onto me really tightly.  They all walked out with me, and K just looked pitiful - her little lip was quivering.  I bent down to give her a hug, and she just completely broke down.  It was some of the hardest crying I'd ever seen from her, and she hugged me so tightly.  I think the poor girl felt like both parents had walked out in 36 hours, and all the change was just too much.  For my part, I drove away a basket case.  I had so many emotions running through me.  I felt like I'd not been a great father to K that weekend.  I felt like K was truly sad, lonely, scared, and upset.  I felt like my mom was not best pleased with my discipline, dad was worried I was going to lose my job, and the whole family was worried about Zika and Peru.  I knew that I just had to reset, and the time alone did help that.  I have been shown twice in the past month that I think I'm going a little too hard and trying to do too much.  This night (and the Monday afterwards when I went to be early) were clear indicators that I was exhausted.

In retrospect, an experienced like this is a strong reminder of how hard Jenny's job is day in and day out, and also have absolutely fantastic she is at it.  She faces these challenges every day and has to dismantle the atomic bomb sometimes hourly before it explodes.  For me, it was a great lesson that I shouldn't just try to jump in when I hear K screaming outside my door, as I could very well be undoing some good work or teaching that Jenny's in process of conducting.  Also, I found that I was SCATTERBRAINED that weekend - I was losing stuff and finding it later in the most random of places.

One other item to note - I started doing research on needed caloric intake and portions for 3 year olds, and I realized that I might be giving K too much food.  Sure enough, when I started using a measuring cup for the cereal, I realized that I'd been given her double the recommended amount.  Kids her age need 1200-1600 calories, and I fear I've been putting too many fruits, too much cereal, and likely too much of the main meat/pasta/protein at every meal.  I'm making a much more concerted effort to be smarter now, as I obviously want to set her up for success with portion control and with her eating habits.

Oh, and one more thing that was super cute on this day.  I told her that she had to clean up her "old
room" (wonder what she'll think when Baby T takes that) and that everything needed to be off the floor.  Well, I came back in after doing my tidying, and sure enough the room was spotless!  I was SUPER impressed, and I think I even gave her an animal back to commemorate the effort.  It was only later that I noticed toys where in the hamper, in the closet, behind the door, you name it.  But hey - she did what I asked her too, and the room looked spotless at first blush, so no complaints!

Also, her imagination really seems to be taking off.  She's crafting stories during quiet time and when playing by herself, and the tales are becoming more complex.  It's really neat to listen to!

6/13 - Great news from the geneticist who looked at JT's blood work:  the results were great, and the risk for Downs dropped to 1 in 1800 and the risk for Trisomeme 18 dropped to 1 in 2200.  There is one final blood test and hurdle to clear, but everything sounds like it's going great!  the lady said that she wasn't concerned - AMAZING!  Thank You, Father!  t can't remember if I mentioned this last month, but during Jenny's last ultrasound they said that everything looked fantastic.  All the parts were proportional, and she was tracking within 2 days of her due date (how they can possibly know that is beyond me).  Honestly, it's just been amazing to watch this miracle unfold according to God's perfect plan.  So incredibly exciting!

Little Hornet in spirit!

6/16 - K came back from Nole Nana's this day, and she rocked up with some SUPER CUTE arts and crafts.  And not only had she done a daily craft herself, she's also made a gift for mommy, a Father's Day gift for me, and a craft for our anniversary!  All of them were wrapped, and K was desperate to get into them.  We had to pull her away!

I took her to NOMAD during the afternoon, and when we got into the locker room and I told her to take off her bottoms she looked at me matter of factly and said, "I'm still peeing, dada."  I had to fight to keep from cackling, as there were loads of dudes in there.  Simply priceless.

6/17 - We hit NOMAD again on this day (I mean, we're there at least once a day at this point - we are basically family), and K started singing "Call Me Maybe."  It was too cute, and when I asked her where she heard that, she replied - "Mommy!"  JT - are you a closet Carly Rae Jepsen fan? :-)

Baby T hit 13 weeks on this day - the size of a pea pod!

Chillin' at Emmi's pool.
6/18 - So this was a big day, as JT came home!  Unfortunately she missed her connection in Newark, but the good news is that she still made it home in the afternoon.  K and I made a welcome home sign and drove to the airport to greet them.  They were all exhausted, but it was SO GREAT to have her back and have her home!

On the couch before we went to pick up JT, K was laying on me.  Obviously it had been quite the ordeal (and not without its tantrums and tough moments!), and that moment of us just sitting there, her head in my lap, was just too perfect.  I said to her, "I'm really proud of you, kid.  You've been resilient through all of this."  She actually sat up, looked me straight in the eye, and said:  "It was my pleasure."  I was pretty much, well, blown away.  And then she gave me that sweet little smile.

Side note is that it's SO INCREDIBLY GOOD to have my girls back safely and at home.  JT slept like an absolute champion, and I slept good as well knowing that she was back safe and that Zika was far, far away.  God, thank you SO MUCH for protecting my family on their travels.
The pre-game:  practicing that smile!

Homecoming!!!!!

And then what matters - the gifts. :-) 

Tell me that isn't Cruella seville...

Thug life (alpaca edition)

The cutest item from this day - we were doing magnets in the bonus room, and K picked up the letter "D."  She said, "Here's what your name begins with - Daddy!"  It totally caught me off guard - and I LOVED it.

6/19 - This marked the 10th day straight that K had swam (and we're pretty much daily at this point - an off-day is a rarity), and the highlight came during K's swim lesson.  Mr. Brandon said, "She's the fastest learner I've ever seen.  You just tell her to do something, and she does it."  Side note - he actually said this again last Sunday, as he told her how to dive down to the bottom, and she did it instantly.  He was absolutely blown away.  Makes a parent feel good!  The lesson went great - that girl is really learning quickly!

Also, this was Father's Day, and we had a really nice church service.  They offered bacon topped donuts for the Father's, and K was ALL ABOUT eating mine!  At one point I set it down trying to take a picture or something, and she just DEVOURED a section of it.  Classic!  Also, they had whole milk and chocolate milk on offer for the dads, and K didn't miss a beat getting TWO CUPS of chocolate milk.

Best wife and daughter giving the 4th edition of the best Father's Day gift a daddy could ever receive.  Love my girls!
Now what I will say - K was, by and large, a monster on Father's Day.  Unlike last year when she was a saint, this go-around she was a whiny tyrant.  That being said, there was one moment right before church when she stopped raging, looked up at me, and then said, "You are the best daddy EVER."  I mean, between that and the homemade Father's Day card she gave me, how could I not be wrapped around her little finger?  So yeah, it was a good day. :-)

13 weeks, baby!  Look at that cute little bump!
6/20 - "Can I shake?"  So with Jenny in Peru, K had obviously been with me a lot that week and the two weekends on either side of it.  Well, as kids often do, she's is almost ALWAYS in the bathroom with me when I go.  Well, I was peeing on this day, and she asked me, "Daddy, how come you don't wipe?"  I said, "Boys shake, girls wipe."  Well, the other day she was watching me pee (I mean, staring intently - it's pretty intense) and asked, "Daddy, can I shake?"  Well, I thought she was asking if she could help me (to which I was going to scream NO WAY JOSE) when she just stood up from Ducky Potty and started shaking and dancing - it was HILARIOUS.

On the independence front, however, K has taken it to a new level.  She's now trying to actually unbuckle her own car seat when we arrive at our destination.  And even though I've politely told her "Sweetheart, you can't unbuckle it - that's the point of the design," she goes BALLISTIC when you step in to help her.  It's the same with clothes and everything at this point.  I've heard other say it, and my buddy Johnny actually said this past weekend, "Y'all have the patience of Job."  However, something tells me that will soon change. :-)



6/21 - First braid!  She got it at bed time, and it was just adorable.  Her 2 great quotes from the day:

1.  "You are a smart little daddy."  (I can't actually remember what I did).

2.  "I have tiny little nipples."  Getting out of the bathtub - I mean...I don't know.  What can I say?

6/22 - 1st French braid!  Man, JT is like a surgeon with this stuff - I have no idea how she does it!  And the cute thing - the last 2 nights we've all been "scary ghosts with the hoodie up," which basically means we've all worn one of my hoodies or rain breakers at the same time and run around the house.  K has been ADORABLE, as the hoodie is obviously enormous and swallows her whole.

The other classic moment was when I flapped my wings and made a "dinosaur sound," at which point K said, "Pterodactyl!"  I'm telling you - HARVARD.  BUSINESS.  SCHOOL.  AT.  16.

6/25 - Disney tunes on You Tube - so on this evening I let her watch "Under the Sea" on my phone.  You Tube always queues up the next one, and she saw "Part of That World."  She asked if she could watch it, and I said, "Ask me in the morning, and I'll let you see it."  Sure enough, I went into her bedroom when she woke up, and it was THE FIRST THING SHE ASKED ME.  I mean, we are talking .0000009 seconds after entering the room?  AMAZING!  Side note - she's now singing Part of That World all the time and actually a) knows a lot of it and b) even does some of the inflection!
Look out, Katie Ledecky...

K helped us weed this day, and she really was a big help!  We pulled a lot of weeds, cleaned up

around the fence, and removed dead sticks that were scattered all over the place.  This really was a great weekend, as we had Jenny back and were able to just saturate in some family time.  Oh, and I finally learned the secret to Harry the Happy Dragon at Harris Teeter.  You see, I've never had a penny on me, so I've never been able to get it going.  K had always said, "Mommy can make it go!", but I just assumed that meant JT had change (which she normally does).  However, on this day at the Teet, she showed me the secret, which basically consists of you slamming the machine with your flat palm, at which point it comes to life!  For the record - I successfully made this happen on my own last week.  BOOM GOES THE DYNAMITE.

Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice!
6/26 - K's cute line today was walking around with the Kingdom Builder's boomerang (it's foam) and repeating "My good friend Boomerang."  The funnier moment was when she was in the bathroom a bit later.  I heard what I thought was, "I love you, asshole."  ( I mean, she was on ducky potty...)  In shock I walked in there, only to find out that she was holding an apple and had said, "I love you, apple."  WHEW!  Another tough conversation avoided for another week.

JT had FH kids, so K and I were playing in the morning before church.  Well, K stacked 3 coasters together and told me that she'd just made me a sandwich.  When I asked what it was, she said, "Meat, chicken balls, and lollipops."  I about fell out laughing.

That afternoon we went to NOMAD, where K was a WARRIOR in the cold pool!  She actually swam 5 lengths (125 yards) on her own!  Granted, she would stop on occasion, but I think that's amazing!  At one point she was chasing JT, and I got teary-eyed watching my girls do freestyle in the lane.  I thought about all the fun I hope we'll have as a family exercising and swimming together, and I also thought about how neat it would be if they both enjoyed grinding out laps together.

In a bit of Urban Dictionary, I taught K "#awesomesauce!"  She is really cute when she says it - even does the hash tag motion.  This father is proud.

14 weeks, baby!!!
I got teary-eyed a second time when she curled up beside me on the couch to watch Ariel on my phone.  She was snuggled in so tightly, and it just felt amazing.  This weekend had been a complete 180 from the previous (and the week as well, which had been tough for me and JT), and I just felt so much better and so much more connected to my family.  Writing this almost a month after the fact (and having slept almost 11 hours last night), I can say that I think I've gone a bit harder than I realized, and it has taken a told on me mentally, physically, and emotionally.  I am conscious that I need to start dialing it back vs. trying to constantly knock out to-dos.  The good news is that I see a shelf life on trying to turn the dial so hard, and I'm hoping that there will be a gradual descent starting in August with life just getting calmer.  However, all my friends who have 2+ tell me that will absolutely, definitely, CERTAINLY not be the case. :-)
K and Eli creating the next masterpiece.

Oh, and K has been all about imitating daddy lately.  The other day she asked Jenny, "What is daddy eating for breakfast?"  When JT told her oatmeal, she said, "I want oatmeal, too.  I want to eat whatever daddy eats."

I mean...cutest.  Photo.  EVER.
6/27 - K has somehow magically fell back in love with bubbles in the bath again, and she's really enjoying hiding her hands and feet in the bubbles.  She'll usually say, "Where are my cute tootsers" or Where are my cute little hands," and then you have to look for them before she jerks them out of the water.  Also, she is LOVING playing the "No, it's Daddy!" game.  The rules - I say something that applies to me (can be anything) and say, "Is that mommy or daddy?"  She will say mommy, at which point I say NO, IT'S DADDY!!!!!" and then tickle her.  She loved it so much the first night that she's asked for it repeatedly (and we almost always acquiesce."  The way she asks is funny - she'll say, "Can you say the words you did yesterday?"

6/29 - Not sure if I gave the background on this, but during K's tantrums while JT was away, I'd confiscated several animals and put them in prison (aka my closet).  Well, this day was a landmark moment, as the final one was rescued from Prison (Jennifer Puppy).  You see, I'd let her reclaim 1 a day, and then only on days where she'd actually behaved and hadn't gone mental during putting her clothes on.  Either way - all good things.

6/30 - Strong backstroke in the pool today.  Our little girl is soon to be a Starfish we think!

Okay, that's all the news that's fit to print.  Chat with you all in a month!

Love,

Sam and Jenny