Thursday, June 27, 2019

And just like that - We no longer have a Kindergartener....

Family,

And a good evening to you from the Queen City, where summer is flying by quickly!  Much to record (as always), so let's get amongst it, shall we?

6/1 - Today was a BIG one for Lady Kaitlyn - her first ever visit to Frankie's Fun Park!!!!  This place is brand new, and truthfully I was planning to stay away unless I saw a deal (as I assumed it was expensive).  Well, lucky for us, one of her classmates had a birthday party there - thank you, Laney (and parents :-))!

Jenny went with K while I watched Bear, and it sounds like they had an EPIC time - go carts, food, a big play area, a goodie bag that felt bottomless - you name it!  They were there over 3.5 hours!  And it gave Jenny a chance to get some summer contact info and play dates lined up, so that was a very good thing.

I was not having quite as much fun, however, as Bear was an absolute TYRANT!  Honestly, it was UNREAL!!!!  It all started at REI, where Bear asked for a bar.  When we got in the car and I showed her the bar, she was FURIOUS with anger.  Turned her face away and tried to get as far away from me as possible (while still being buckled into her seat, of course...meaning she didn't get very far).  She screamed for a bout 20 minutes before finally saying "please," and so I then asked her if she wanted me to break the bar.  She confirmed yes, but when I did she AGAIN started screaming.

By now we were home, and she REFUSED to get out of the car.  I basically had to haul her out and bring her in, at which point she cried FIFTY MINUTES STRAIGHT until she finally calmed down and had some lunch.  BEDLAM!  It was better in the afternoon, but still - TOUGH AFTERNOON!

But a cute highlight I don't want to miss - mom bought the girls matching uni-kitty dresses, and they both LOVE THEM.  I got a picture of them both in uniform - too cute!  Also, we made lasagna that night, and K was DESPERATE to help.  I am happy to report that she was a good assistant to JT in the kitchen.

6/2 - Today was a GREAT day, starting with Arrows.  We went to both services, and K got to pray over the offering in the first service.  That's my girl!  I taught in the second service, and there was a moment where I really got teary-eyed.  This was the last service for the 4th graders before they move to JV, and pastor Michael called them all up so that we could pray over them.  As he was talking to them, he said, "You will ALWAYS be Arrows."  Honestly, I just about lost it.  It was such a special, emotional moment, and I was really, really thankful that a) I'd had the opportunity to teach those kids and b) that K was in there with me.  I have the next EIGHT YEARS to pour into my (and other) children - such a tremendous responsibility, opportunity, and blessing.  THANK YOU, FATHER!!!!!

There was a really, really sweet moment in the car before church.  We'd just parked, and I said, "I cannot believe you're almost out of school!  Just one full week left!"  Kaitlyn said, "I'm not ready to leave Mrs. Pate."  And at first it was innocent, but then....suddenly...you could tell that it all clicked.  In that moment, K realized the truth for the first time - she only had one week left in that class:  with Mrs. Pate, with her new friends, with Mrs. Hong...with kindergarten.  And in that moment, she was SO BRAVE fighting back the tears that threatened to appear.  For my part, I remember BAWLING on Mrs. Johnson's chest the last day I collected attendance in 5th grade, so that moment hit home.  She then asked me, "Will I be at Bradford next year?"  When we told her she was going to be there for the next TWELVE years, she was instantly much, much happier.  Plus she'll have all next year in the same annex as Mrs. Pate, so that helps.

It was such a profound moment, as we teeter here on the edge of innocence.  Those kids still have so much love for their teachers and their fellow man, and it's just so amazing to see.  In fact, while I was in the sanctuary, I believe that God gave me a word for Kaitlyn:  LIONHEART.  She has such a big heart, feels emotions so close to the surface (and in such a big way), and she loves so passionately.  That girl is going to be a PRAYER WARRIOR, and I look forward to the amazing things she will accomplish through Christ Jesus.

After that it was over to Team Williams, where we spent the next 5 hours hanging out and having an absolute blast.  Honestly, this weekend was SO RELAXING, and I am so incredibly thankful for it.  I received the rest and rejuvenation that I so desperately needed, and it I had plenty of laughs in the process.  It was just so much fun, and I am thankful for so many great friends.

And a very sweet moment at bedtime - I had told Kaitlyn that I thought I'd received a word for her from God, and that night while tucking her in I said, "Good Night, Lionheart."  She looked up at me and then whispered in my ear, "Good night, Good, Good Father."  My heart just about melted.  She had drawn some music notes and written that down earlier in the day (we sang it in Arrows), and after dinner she had said, "You're a good, good father."  Talk about melting your heart!

6/3 - Ocean Day at BPS!  Not totally sure what this entailed, but the kids got to bring sunglasses and a towel. :-)  The best news of the day is that Cora does NOT have an ear infection in either ear, AND her hearing is in the normal range (a bit low on one side but not a concern at present for Dr. Lovejoy).  Cora was actually in great spirits after visiting the doctor - it could have been the "purple lollipop." :-)

One question and something to note - Kaitlyn has been ALL ABOUT using signs and hand motions to communicate with me vs. answering with words.  While sometimes this isn't a problem, it has been an annoyance as of late.  If anything, it's been a source of tension in the house.  I am not really sure why she does it - could it be because JT and I communicate non-verbally sometimes?  Honestly, Jenny and I are almost always talking vs. signing - just not sure about that one. Perhaps I'll learn sign language. :-)

6/4 - Today was "Nature Day" at BPS, and get this - since it was Laney's "actual" birthday, her mom came by, made the whole class trail mix, and then had prizes for bingo!  Kaitlyn won some slime, which she has absolutely LOVED playing with.  And to be fair - it's pretty sweet.  She can turn it into a glove - she is playing with it constantly at home!

Also - taking a step forward on piano:  we texted a teacher in the neighborhood about lessons.  She's full and we're currently on the wait list, but we are looking around and so far have been pleased to know that there's at least one option within the neighborhood.  Watch this space - exciting!

Swim practice was cut 5 min short due to thunder, but there were no complaints from the peanut gallery. :-)  K did get home in time to work on her card for Ms. Pate, which is just SO SWEET.

6/5 - Today was Water Day at BPS, and they apparently had quite the good time playing outside for 2+ hours!  They played drip-drip-douse (which sounded quite fun), and by all accounts it must have been a good day.

I actually got to take Kaitlyn today, which was a real treat for me.  Realistically this is my last "kindy drop-off" for K, and I got a little emotional driving away.  I was so thankful that I got to do it, as it was just nice to be on campus and in the midst of such a wonderful place that has been so special to our family this year.  As I drove out of there, I couldn't help but think of how much has transpired this  past week (let alone this year!), which is just one more reason that in the back of my head I'm not sure if I'm ready to give up the blog.  There are times when I'm just ready to pack it in, but when I think about not recording some of these moments for posterity, something just doesn't feel right.

They only got 5 minutes of swim practice in today before thunder shut them out.  However, that was just more time on the playground, so I get the sense K wasn't too upset. :-)  Plus it got her home in time to do Ms. Hong's card, which is also super sweet.

On the Bear front, that girl is SO FUNNY when you start playing music - especially a song she knows like Rainbow or Float.  She is LOVING to dance and is quite militant about everyone being "on the dance floor with her" - too cute!  We actually had a really good night tonight at bedtime.  She didn't want to read to me at first, but once she got in the chair, she curled up with me and snuggled with me for a good while.  We've actually seen more of each other lately, and I've even read to her a few of the mornings.  I think it's made a big difference, as I'm not just coming in as some authoritative figure in her life but also as someone who (hopefully) brings joy.

Last note - K read "Little Red Riding Hood" tonight, and it is SO FUNNY to listen to her say "wolf." She just CANNOT get that "l" in there, with the end result being her saying "Wuff" on every page.  Love it!

6/6 - So Cora was a flat out ROCK STAR today.  First off, she put HERSELF down at nap time!  No joke - Jenny said that she was sitting in the chair "reading" when she came in.  Jenny said, "Once you finish that, go to bed, okay?"  JT then went into her bathroom to do something, and when she came back, Cora was PASSED OUT on the bed.  How amazing is that?!?!?!  Love these children!

Cora is "reading" a lot more these days, which means she's not only flipping through the pages but also making up stories.  REALLY CUTE!  It's just one more thing she is doing that K did, which is really neat to see.

Oh, and the biggest win of all on the Cora Bear front - she tried to spit after brushing her teeth tonight!  She really did make an effort to brush as well, which is a notably first (for me at least).  Proud of you, Thing 2!

Today was the last full day of school, and the theme?  PIRATE DAY!!!!  K found her eye patch, put on a swashbuckling dress, and tucked her little plastic sword into her belt for a day of riding the high seas and shouting "Aaaaaargh, matey!!!!"

But as it turns out, we apparently didn't dress 100% according to code, as K came home and said, "I was the only one who brought a sword.  (beat) Because it's a weapon.  (beat) And you can't bring weapons to school.  What more can I say?  PARENTS. OF. THE. YEAR.

The day went quickly, and I left work early to ensure I could get home in time for the drive as a family to Bradford for....the End of Year celebration!!!!!  I mean, I simply CANNOT believe it, but this school year is OVER!  Where did it go?!?!?

The performance (in the music room), was SO sweet.  First they did "Things I learned in Kindergarten," and each kid had a speaking part.  Then they sang and danced to Lean On Me and How Sweet It Is to Be Loved by You - too cute!  Kaitlyn's smile was a mile wide - she was having so much fun and is such a good little performer!  You can tell that a lot of that shyness is melting away, and she's starting to be more confident (and more importantly - enjoy the moment).  Ms. Pate and Ms. Hong gave each kid an award (Kaitlyn won the "Super Sweet" award) and a pizza box filled with memories and souvenirs from the year.  Then there was a slide show of the year in review, and I will be honest - this guy got teary-eyed more than once. :-)

And then, after signing her out, picking up her (really neat) self portrait, and taking some final pictures with Ms. Pate and Ms. Hong, it was over.  I mean, there is still 1 day of school to go (a half day tomorrow), but let's face it - this was it:  the end of a MAJOR chapter in Kaitlyn's (and Team Taylor's) life.

Last night while snuggling in bed, she said, "Dada, I am very S-A-D."  I explained that it was okay to cry and be said, and then I told her the story of how I cried in 5th grade on my last day at Russellville.  I think that helped her a bit and did resonate, but I'm sure it's still a lot to process.

Truthfully, it's a lot for ME to process.  I am SO THANKFUL for the people who talked us into choosing Bradford over Highland Creek and for this entire experience.  From the school to the people to the new friends we've met to learning and growth we've seen to the teachers - it is all just a gift from God.  Ms. Pate and Ms. Hong - I know that you two will never read this blog or even learn of its existence, but I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for all you've done for, taught, and given to Kaitlyn this past year.  This transition was a big one, and I will be honest and say I had no idea what to expect.  Well, whatever it was I did expect 10 months ago, you exceedingly and abundantly surpassed it.  Thank you SO MUCH for taking such good care of Kaitlyn and helping her grow in so many ways.  You are both blessings and lights in our path, and I just cannot thank you enough for everything.

6/7 - LAST DAY!!!!!!!  We got some "Last Day" pictures this morning, and I had the distinct pleasure and privilege of driving K to school for her last day.  I also had the pleasure and privilege of picking her up at noon when the final school bell rang!  I surprised her with lunch at Panera, where she was happy as a clam with Mac 'n cheese, a "flip flop cookie," chips, and chocolate milk.  She's actually relaxing while watching the tablet now, and then it's off to swim practice shortly to kick off the summer in earnest.  UNBELIEVABLE!!!!

You can tell that K is really struggling with the gamut of emotions she's experiencing.  She was happy and sad today. When she got in the car, she said, "I'll never see Mrs. Pate again!"  I explained that wasn't true and that she would see her in 10 weeks time. :-)  I also reminded her that she'd see Mrs. Hong this afternoon at swim practice. :-)  K was fighting back tears at times, but on the whole she's doing great.

Two quick ones to note - K's face has started to get really dry.  I think it's a combination of sunscreen, chlorine, and everything else, but we've had to start putting actual face lotion on her.  Poor thing!  Second - due to a tropical depression parking off the coast of SC, K and I are not longer heading to Edisto.  I broke the news to her last night, and she was actually really good about it.

We did make the day count, and I think we started summer off on a good note.  Kaitlyn watered her grass and green beans, and I am happy to report that both really are growing!  The green bean is actually sprouting, but more importantly - Kaitlyn is the one remembering to water and care for it every day!  Sunlight, water, checking on it, etc - is this girl going to have a green thumb?

And Bear is full on doing puzzles by herself.  IT'S AMAZING!!!!  I really can't get over how good she's become at it.  The Y staff told us that she was doing it, but I have watched it myself all weekend.  SO COOL!  Proud of you, kiddo!

Oh, and the funniest moment of the evening.  After a cocktail each, Kaitlyn informed us that we have "adult drink breath."  Funny, but a sobering moment as well (if you'll pardon the pun).  It made me check myself a bit and think, which I firmly believe is a good thing.  On Saturday night (I'm typing this on Sunday afternoon), I brushed my teeth post cocktail but pre-night time ritual.  K confirmed the smell was gone, which made me happy.  The girls know that there is alcohol in the house and that we drink it responsibly.  I want to ensure they always remember both aspects of that previous sentence.  

6/8 - Talk about a day for the ages!  We got up and were pleased to find that the weather looked good enough for the first speedy meet of the season.  We rolled over to the Hamptons for the meet, and K WAS UNREAL in that water!  Honestly, it is just NUTS how much a difference a year makes.  Her strokes - and I mean ALL of them - were VASTLY improved.  She was really pulling water!  She laid down 36 seconds in freestyle, which is flat moving!  And while backstroke was the toughest one for her, I was really impressed with her form!  The highlight was the breast stroke, where K WON HER FIRST EVER HEAT!!!!!!!!  She dug deep and found second gear to pull it out!  Then she laid down a sub-60 second butterfly (55 seconds)!  SO PROUD OF YOU, KID!

I was also proud of the way she played with and held onto little frogs on the playground afterwards.  Who is this rough and tumble little nature girl blossoming before me?

Lunch was at Cafe 100, followed by an hour at a really cute little park in Huntersville.  We then did a little shopping before heading over to Prosperity Park pool for 2 hours with Team Burch.  K and Taylie played SO WELL together and had a blast - it was a GREAT afternoon, and I was SO relaxed through it all.  This weekend was NOT expected, but MAN has it been fantastic.  We drove around in the X, blasting music on that great sound system.  JT was the DJ, and it was cute to see what song each person picked.  Kaitlyn is really learning the words to a lot of Kenny Chesney.  I was well and truly impressed!

Cora's cutest moment came when she was laying down on the changing table.  She looked over at her "big girl bed" (note - do NOT just call it a bed.  You WILL get corrected) and said, "Mine elephant tumbled out of mine big girl bed."  I mean, tumbled is a decent word for a toddler, right?  It is crazy to see how quickly she's picking things up.  She even has a lot of the Bunny names memorized in the Bunny flap book - it's insane!

6/9 - We went to church today, where K's tag officially said "Arrows" for the first time ever!  It was a SUPER wet day, but Jenny and K did make it over to Birkdale for a girls afternoon, going to see Aladdin and then stopping for ice cream at Kilwin's.  Bear passed out instantly (I'm typing this while she's upstairs asleep), which she needed.  Jenny is absolutely right - that girl absolutely still needs a nap most days.  While she's fine if she goes a day or two without one, by day three the edges are definitely fraying.

A cute moment at church - Jenny picked up Cora, and they had placed a little plush heart in her bag.  They told us that she made the decision for Jesus today!  Such a little cutie.  I think we might have to reinforce it a few more times between now and Arrows, but I am just so thankful that we're in such a life-giving church and that the girls are getting this exposure so early.

Speaking of the girls and routines, we're starting to settle into our summer routine.  The bed time has extended a bit, with bear going down at 7:45 and K following at 8.  Honestly, given that naps are a little later these days, it's probably not a bad thing, and certainly something we can manage for the next 2 months.  The girls are also quite enjoying dance parties after dinner, with the featured songs currently being either "Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go" and "Hey, Mickey."  I blame Jenny!

Cora actually wants to hear Float by KT Tunstall a lot.  It's so cute to listen to her ask for it:  "Can I peese here Tinkabell and de Everbeast, Gag?"  I mean, how do you say no to that? :-)

6/10 - So today was a GREAT day.  I had a word from God yesterday (at least it felt that way) that I needed to talk to K about how hard I'm trying to be a good father and that I'm sorry when I mess up.  Well, the moment passed, and I just let it go.  During the run today, however, I had that strong pull again to talk to her, and so I made it a priority when I got back (and showered, of course).  I told her that I want to be a better dad and that I'm sorry if there are times that I am too mean and she doesn't understand why.  I told her that, if she wasn't sure why I asked to do something or felt I was being too mean, to just talk to me about it.  I really think that helped, as we then proceeded to have a GREAT DAY!  It was just so much easier for me to say YES to things instead of always saying no.  Similar to loosening the purse strings just a little bit, it's amazing how much easier life is when you relax some.

The girls went to the Y, where K won bowling against the other kids - turning in a 77 and bowling 4 strikes!  I then met them a Tacos 4 Life, where it was Super Hero Day - dress like a super hero and get a free taco.  BOOM GOES THE DYNAMITE!!!  It was really cute.

The girls then went to the park (I was working), but after putting Cora down for a nap (She went out instantly - almost fell asleep on the swings!), they rolled over to the library.  Kaitlyn is supposed to be reading "J" level books, so we picked up several of those.  Honestly, she's already read tougher books than that, so we'll likely start getting into the "K" pile very soon.  Tonight's featured readings were "Pinkalicious at the Fair" and "Pinkalicious and the Pirate."

Oh, and in other news, the green bean shoots now have leaves!!!  Those puppies are really, REALLY growing!

6/12 - Kaitlyn CRUSHED a level 2 book tonight!  So - a bit of backstory.  She's at the "J" level, which apparently equates to "Level 1 books."  Well, she has been powering through Level 1 books for some time now, and I think we need to go full court press on Level 2 (and maybe even try Level 3).  At Panera on the last day of school, she told me that she read a book she was supposed to read at the end of first grade.  I do think her reading comprehension is awesome - very exciting!

Also, I have potentially cracked the code with Cora bear at night time.  Once you read a book to her, she will very sweetly ask, "Can we read it again?"  If you say, "Yes, but after that we have to go night night," she will nod, hold Lamb Lamb, and then sit very sweetly.  When that's done, she is great about letting you rock her - she was SO SWEET on this evening!!!!  She just about fell asleep on me (I could tell).  And when you ask, "are you ready to go night night?", she will just nod sweetly and let you put her down.  Love it!

Cora has also started eating her veggies!  She's realizing that if she wants seconds of "the good stuff," she's got to put some fruit and veg in there as well.  Yay!  And she tried buffalo chicken flat bread tonight...AND LOVED IT!

K had a great afternoon - Ellie came over for a play date!  They had a good 3 hours together and had a blast.  It was then off to swim practice in the rain, and Kaitlyn about FROZE!  To be fair, it is CRAZY how much cooler it is right now - probably 30 degrees cooler than this time last week.  JT showed up after practice with soup in a cup for her!

Oh, and in case you're curious - K regularly asks me at night if I'm "the skeleton copy of daddy in the night time who lives in the closet."  More often than not I just say yes and tickle her into oblivion.  Love it.

6/13 - So proud of Kaitlyn today!  I was about to go for a run when I heard footsteps.  Assuming it was JT I said, "Hi there Muff...." only to see my oldest at the foot of the stairs.  It was about 6:15, and K said, "Mommy was sleeping, so I didn't wake her."  SO PROUD!!!!!  Jenny desperately needed the sleep, as her poor body is banged up and really needed to heal.  Thank you, Kaitlyn!

Jenny did get in at the doctor today, and as a treat for the girls being so good during the appointment, she took them to Dollar Tree, where they picked "Chocolate bunnies" as their reward (too cute).  They then hit CFA for lunch (and ice cream for the 6th day in a row...just sayin'...).

Not a whole lot to report today, but K is pressing full speed ahead on Level 2 books. Jenny is tracking the books she reads and the amount of time spent daily, as there is a way to record that (and earn rewards) at the library.  K is spending about 20 minutes a night reading, but she also reads to Cora when she wakes up from her nap (and throughout the day), as well as in the car sometimes when we're traveling.  The other night she read one of the Princess Adventure Stories, and she CRUSHED IT!  I am so proud of her!!!

She's also started spelling words.  I have been impressed with the amount of words she's spelled thus far (and she has realized it's a great way to talk to us without Cora understanding :-)).  But on the Cora front, I MUST give her credit for how quickly her enunciation is improving!  She is getting much clearer on her words, and that little voice is still just so sweet (when she's not screaming at you or crying in your face, of course).  It should be noted that we've had to bring out the rod of love for bear, and we actually trotted it out a few times over this past weekend (it's 6/17 as I type this).  We just lightly tapped her this weekend, but she still bawled like you wouldn't believe.  Terrible two's in full effect!!!

Other note for the evening - Kaitlyn has really expressed an interest in helping us cook on a nightly basis.  Sometimes this takes the form of mixing or stirring, other times it's breaking eggs, and other times it's pouring stuff.  Well, tonight she wanted to help us make the salad (Caesar in a bag), and get this - SHE. LOVED. IT.  Seriously - that girl ate THREE HELPINGS OF SALAD!!!!  She even asked for it on Friday night and again on Saturday!  I mean....WHO IS THIS GIRL?!?!!? :-)

6/14 - SWIM A THON DAY!  It was chilly (59 degrees during her set), but Kaitlyn. Did. AWESOME!!!!  That girl laid down 13 laps (each lap is 25 yards) in 30 minutes!  I was so proud of her when she walked over to the table with all of those rubber bands (I was volunteering, recording the # of laps).  Kaitlyn's stroke has REALLY improved.  It's been awesome to watch.

Also, exciting news on the Bradford front - the new curriculum arrived today!  Also, they started paving the lot for the gym!  I am SO excited about that, as having that space for nearly all of K's time (and definitely all of Bear's) is going to be absolutely INCREDIBLE.  So excited!  Go Bears!

So a classic moment on the Cora front - it was nap time, but she flat REFUSED to climb into her bed for nap (or even to just play and "read").  Consequently, JT did the right thing and just said "see you in a bit" and then closed the door.  Well, fast forward about thirty minutes, and Cora's room is SILENT.  JT checks the monitor, and there's one small problem - Cora isn't in the bed! Sure enough, we go in to check, and there she is - PASSED OUT AND SNORING on the floor right beside the bed.  She was so tired she just fell asleep in her "frump spot."  How funny is that?  And best of all - she slept over TWO HOURS like that!

Now there is no easy way to say it - Bear has been TOUGH lately.  Given our schedules and the desire to just be out longer, she's missing her nap probably twice a week - usually on consecutive days.  I didn't think it would be that big of a deal, but Jenny was right all along - that girl DEFINITELY still needs a nap.  And let me tell you - when she is upset, it is LOUD.  Those little lungs are getting stronger, and she is crying with the force of a hundred banshees.  But the funnier part - you can tell she's faking in almost every single case, as usually she gets distracted and then cuts off the tears INSTANTLY.  I keep telling her that she needs to work on her acting, as right now her tells are very easy to spot. :-)

My buddy BJ came over that evening, and we grilled out and ate outside.  That was a TREAT, and the girls loved it.  The tiki torches really did their thing - that stuff works!  We even got out on the golf course to run around (and roll around) as it got dark (there was a full moon, so that helped).  Kaitlyn was out there screaming "BEST. DAY. EVER!!!!!", with Cora repeating it - hilarious!  I mean, that absolutely loved it!



This summer has just been such a great one for me, as it really does feel like we're starting to mature as a family and use the space we have.  We are using all of our outdoor space and making use of so many of the things we've purchased over the years.  It really does feel like we are making the most of our time - the yard (which I am finally watering), the flowers, the pools, the deck, the patio, and the screen porch.  I am a man at peace!  Oh, and did I mention how much I love the ice maker? :-)

6/15 - SWIM MEET!  This was the first home meet of the year, and it was GREAT.  Kaitlyn did really, really good - I am SO IMPRESSED with her form!  She shaved 9 SECONDS off her backstroke (which is the toughest stroke for her, coming in under a minute!  Way to go, kid!  She laid down almost the exact freestyle time (just .27 of a second slower), but considering this pool is 5 yards longer than the Hamptons, I'll treat that as a win (and likely a PR - I need to check!).

After that, we rolled over to Carowinds for what I thought would be an EPIC day.  And while it was, the drive down there was...well...HORRENDOUS!  Seriously - we left a bit later than normal (right after the swim meet, so about 10:15 AM, but the 30 minute drive took OVER 2 HOURS! I was not in a good place, and for awhile I didn't think there was any way we'd even get into the park.  When I said this to Kaitlyn (just trying to manage expectations), she started BAWLING.  She fought hard to contain it, but she was so upset.  I felt terrible, as I had planned this outing as a fun Father's Day weekend activity.  It was definitely trending that way.

Eventually, we did get into the park (by the Grace of God!), and we spent the next 5.5 hours there - all in the waterpark.  It was quite the journey to get in, and my foot is still sore from walking around so much in flip flops.  However, it was a GREAT day.  Kaitlyn measured 48 inches (thanks to her flip flops), which meant that she was tall enough to go on EVERYTHING by herself in Carolina Harbor.  Consequently, we hit Blackbeard's revenge and tore up some tube slides!

We went down 5 times, and the last 2 Kaitlyn went down by herself - first time she's EVER done a solo tube.  The first trip down was perfect - good speed, lots of turns, and then this awesome skid across the water when we landed.  K looked at me and said, "THAT. WAS. AWESOME!"  She was hooked!  Water dog just like her mama. :-)

She also had 4 laps in the lazy river (first time she didn't have to have a life jacket!) and spent over an HOUR in the wave pool!  She was a ROCK star treading water - I was well and truly impressed!

We finished the night with ice cream (49 cents!) from QT on the way home, followed by pizza on the deck.  I mean...talk about a GREAT day (and awesome lead in to Father's Day!).

Oh, Bear's classic moment - she discovered the water slides in the kiddie area, and she absolutely LOVED them.  She slide constantly, and we got some super cute video.  The funny moment was when she asked me to sing the "Rainbow song" from My Little Pony.  I started singing it as per her request, and then she said, "Stop.  That. Is. Awful."  I mean...

6/16 - FATHER'S DAY!!!!!!!  It was a great one all around - SO relaxing, so much focused time with my family, a GREAT message at church that really resonated with me, some great photo ops at church, and - for the 7th time in a row - an AWESOME photo collage from Jenny.  This was one of her best!

After church, we hit the pool for a bit, but by and large we were pretty chill.  We ate outside for the 3rd night in a row (which was awesome), and we spent most of the evening listening to Bear recite her favorite phrase (I hope you're ready for this):  "Macaroni what the pants...BOOM!"  Seriously - BJ was cackling - couldn't get enough of it. :-)

The funnier part - oftentimes I have NO IDEA what Cora is saying, but Kaitlyn can ALWAYS translate it correctly.  I mean, we are talking WITHOUT FAIL - it's incredible!

6/17 - Today I got to drive K to swim practice (it's moved to 8 AM for the remainder of the season...which is just 2 more weeks!).  She swam hard (always does!), and then JT picked her up and took her to Stonebridge United Methodist for....VBS, BABY!!!!!  I didn't get too many details, but she seemed to really enjoy it.  She knew several folks there (which always helps), and she came home with a cute little bracelet that said "Look to God," a little toy, and her very own homemade "Egyptian brick with straw."  I reckon that means they are talking about the Exodus... :-)  All in all, a GREAT morning!

In the afternoon I had a gap between meetings and played a bit of hooky, taking K to the pool for an hour while Bear slept.  That girl swam like a FISH!  Seriously - we just had 45 minutes, but she dove for her ring and swam the length of that pool NONSTOP.  I was impressed!  Her lungs are DEFINITELY getting stronger, and she is really able to stay under water longer.  Also, I am noticing that she's definitely got a second speed gear when she puts her mind to it!

Also, something very cool today - we started Kaitlyn on 10 minutes of "school work" after lunch (before she can have her tablet).  Ms. Pate gave her a geometry workbook and a learning packet for the summer, and included with it were tips on how to keep your child's learning fresh in their minds.  K was great about it - actually did even more than the 10 minutes and the sheets Jenny suggested!  Love it!

Also, two other big bits of news - we are enrolling K in piano!  First lesson is this week!  So excited! We got a great deal, as there is a former music teacher who's daughter (age 14 wants to start teaching).  They are giving us 4 lessons for a total of $50, and each lesson is 45 min.  Can't beat that!

Also, Kaitlyn is going to try Girl Scouts with Ellie this fall!  We haven't even told her yet, but Ellie's mom knows the Den Master (or whatever their equivalent is), and they were recruiting for some rising first graders.  Kaitlyn and Ellie are thick as thieves at the moment (think Kaitlyn and Kate this time last year), and so this feels like a win-win.

It really has been cool to watch Kaitlyn develop such strong relationships with new peeps.  She actually said the other day "I really hope I'm in Ellie's class next year!"  I reminded her she thought the same thing about Kate last year, and as a result of NOT being in class together, they now have new best friends as well!  That actually seemed to resonate with K (re-sult!).

Oh, and because she has been so focused on it and worked so hard, I feel that we need to celebrate a milestone in Kaitlyn's matriculation:  she can now wrap a towel around her hair all by herself!  It's so cute, and she looks SO GROWN UP when she's got it wrapped.  I mean, it is quite funny to see her head wrapped and her running around naked, but still - progress is definitely being made.

I do think K is starting to be more cognizant of boy parts and girl parts these days.  The tell for me was yesterday at the pool when she didn't want to deck change but rather wanted to go to the bathroom.  I didn't really fight it, as truthfully that will be the appropriate (and only) course of action soon.  If anything, it's good that she's aware.  But luckily we can still change Bear's diaper in front of everyone and their brother. :-)

And speaking of Bear - she rattled off almost all of Vol Nana's kitties tonight (and also got Molly and Jake - woof woof - in there).  Too funny!  Also, just like her sister, Cora is now ALL ABOUT MEOWING...ALL THE TIME.  And unlike Kaitlyn's well practiced and polished feline noises, Bear's is more of a harsh "MEOW!" scream in your face.  It apparently translates to, "LEAVE ME ALONE," as that is what she says when I lean in for a hug.  Good times... :-)

Today was a really, really good day.  Swimming with K and having that focused time was special - very much like old times.  Being able to help Jenny around the house (given her shoulder) was a big win and made be feel good, and driving K to swim practice and being part of her routine was a win as well.  And reading to bear and then rocking her to sleep was a GREAT way to end the evening.  God has really blessed me with peace and energy over these last couple of days, and it has just been an incredible transformation.  For awhile it felt a bit like I was running on empty, but I'm definitely energized and have my power turned up right now!

6/19 - The last two days have been great.  Work was really good both days, and there was still enough of a break on Tuesday to allow me another 45 min swim with K up at Prosperity.  It was such a blast - lots of laughing and playing - so much fun!  And I gotta say - that girl is REALLY doing an amazing job of holding her breath underwater.  She swam SO HARD during that window.  Between that and swimming hard at practice, it's no wonder she slept 12 HOURS last night! Not kidding - 7:30-7:30!


Yesterday Jenny bought the girls matching crocs (with the back strap), and they are so CUTE!  It is SO NICE for them to have slip-on pool shoes that are sturdier than the flip flops we're all wearing - they will make a BIG difference at the pool and at places like Carowinds.  YAY!  Plus they look adorable on them both.  Also, Bear is really loving going outside, and we definitely need some shoes for that girl so that she doesn't get any splinters on the deck.

Speaking of Bear, she is FINALLY starting to get the hang of brushing!  When it finally occurred to me to ask her to "watch Yaya," she seemed to get it.  In that moment she realized what she was supposed to do with the brush, and she actually started doing it!  Now granted, she's still swallowing toothpaste, but hey - it's progress!  Plus she's enjoying it more.  Tonight I said, "Do you think you can brush even better than yesterday?"  She nodded...and then proceeded to outperform last night's effort. RE-SULT!

Bear is also starting to learn the words to lots of songs - Sofia the first, 5 little monkeys, some Christian music, and my favorite - Don't Worry About a Thing.  Too cute!  She's also trying to say the alphabet now, and it's HILARIOUS when she gets in the middle and just starts mumbling while skipping over them.  Pretty funny.  She's also still picking her left nose CONSTANTLY, but hey - we'll get there.  It's hilarious when I ask, "Are you gold digging?"  "Uh-huh!"  Well...at least she's honest.

Audrey from the swim team came by today, and the girls played for a solid 3 hours.  They were great, and at the end K did the sweetest thing - she gave Audrey one of her Hatchimals!  She asked JT if she could, saying, "I want to give her one because she doesn't have any."  I mean...pretty cute right there...

Bear was down before 7 tonight, and K about 7:25.  K was shocked and said, "Normally when there's just 1 parent it's much later."  Surprise!!!!  Daddy was starving and had to eat!

6/20 - Big day today - Kaitlyn's first piano lesson!  She absolutely LOVED it - such good news.  She even gave the instructor a hug when she left.  Her instructor, Emma, is 14 and is just starting to teach piano.  I honestly think that's perfect for K, as they are learning together.  They asked Jenny to stay in the room with her, and Jenny said that it was great (45 min lesson - BONUS!).  Emma's siblings played with Cora in the other room, where they did puzzles, played with stickers, and apparently had a blast!  Matter of fact, they had so much fun they didn't want to leave!

The afternoon was a planned pool day, but a huge storm cut that short after about 30 minutes.  Not all was lost, however, as they packed up and went over to Theresa's house to play and have dinner (Papa John's).  They girls had a BLAST and again - they didn't want to leave!  All in all, I'd say it was a good day.

The storm in question was particularly nasty, for the record - INSANE wind and pounding rain came out of nowhere and lasted about 10 minutes.  It was the hardest storm K had ever been in, and she did get scared at one point (JT said she started crying, which was more than understandable given the ferocity).  I'm just glad it ended on a high note!

On the Bear front, today she did the world map puzzle 100% on her own!!!  Amazing!!!!  That is a first - that girl's got the gift!  But here's the random thing - when she hears someone in the house pass gas, she's started saying, "You fart!"  Which is MIND-BLOWING, because we don't say that!  We found out the culprit, so we'll have to be mindful of that (Kate :-)).  Amazing how quickly they pick things up!

6/21 - VBS ended today, and Jenny took Bear to watch the final performance.  I unfortunately was stuck at work and didn't get to attend as planned, but Jenny said it was a lot of fun!  She really enjoyed this camp, and she LOVES the music - it is our "cd of choice" as we are driving around.  She also loves the little trinkets (especially the bracelet) she received from there - a wonderful experience!  Full marks to the good people at Stonebridge UMC for making it such a wonderful, faith based experience for the kids.  And I am happy to report that both Kaitlyn and Bear know a lot of the words to the songs!  It's so cute to listen to them fight over who gets to pick the next song in the car.  We've had to institute rules. :-)

Kaitlyn did her first little bit of piano practice today!  I have to say that I've been really, really pleased with how willingly she's practiced piano and done her summer learning packet.  If anything, she's been keen to do more of the summer learning packet than the allotted 10 minutes a day, which is GREAT!  We have tried to impress upon her that practicing daily will just be a fact of life if she continues, so watch this space!

Did I mention how nice it is that music is such a part of our lives right now?  It's really been great - the jam box and Google Music have been absolute game changers, and it's so great to watch the girls dance and sing all the time.  Cora is ALL ABOUT spinning and dancing - too cute!  It's really been a wonderful lift in the house - especially with summer rolling around the corner.  Also, seeing Cora in all the cute dresses Kaitlyn wore for so long has been a hoot.  She seems to be more of a shorts and t-shirt girl so far, but we'll see if that trend continues.  K is still ALL ABOUT dresses.  So interesting to watch how these two are alike yet different.

We lit up the fire pit tonight so the girls could see it (even played a little soccer in the back yard), and K immediately sat down and said, "Dada, tell scary stories like Granny A!"  I was not necessarily in a mood to tell scary stories, which did NOT make K best pleased.  But she went forth and told her own story, which was cute.  Oh, and K has been a big help watering the hydrangeas - she is really enjoying that!  And I am happy to report that they are still alive and kicking as we enter July - even have some new blooms!

Oh, and remember that green bean we planted, it is now HUGE!!!!  We've had to move it to a bigger pot, and it is growing like something out of the Amazon.

6/22 - Today was a GREAT one - Pool Day!  Jenny designated this weekend as my "Father's Day Part 2," and it was absolutely incredible.  We met Clan McLaren at the pool for several hours, and I was able to really just relax, chill, and then play as I wanted to.  It was just a wonderful day, complete with grilling in the evening!  We had a lot of fun, the girls had a blast, everyone played hard, and K even got some Italian ice.  No complaints to be found anywhere!

That was not the case in the evening when K wet the bed.  We forgot to remind her to pee before bed, and both girls had CHUGGED Gatorade.  Cora slept through the night, but her diaper both right before bed and the morning of were ENORMOUS - hilarious!

6/23 - Today was a really fun day, starting at 8 AM at Clan McLaren's for....THE CRICKET!  That's right, sports fans, Team Taylor were the lone Americans amidst a group of South Africans watching the ICC Cricket Cup, with the featured match being RSA vs. Pakistan.  They got crushed, but we spent a good 6+ hours there laughing, eating an AMAZING breakfast and very good lunch, being introduced to the Moscow Mule, and learning about a sport that until Sunday had been COMPLETELY foreign to me.  It was so much fun.  The girls had a blast as well - K was sad to leave!  It was a really good re-connect with Kate, as they hadn't really seen each other much over the summer (other than the day before at the pool, obviously).  We even made time between innings to go out and play some cricket in the driveway!  That was a hoot - so neat to watch other cultures in action.

We spent the afternoon at the pool with Team Burch, and it was a really good 2+ hours.  At that point, K had been at the pool 4 days in a row (this is excluding swim practice), but everyone still seemed to really be enjoying it.  Kaitlyn and Taylie play GREAT together, and Cora was really entertained by a little blow-up clown fish.  When I said, "Is that a clown fish?" she replied, "No, GAG.  This is a type of Nemo Fish."  I tried to reason with her a second time...NO AVAIL.  Oh well, as long as she's happy and speaking to me, that's worth something.

Speaking of Cora - her bowel movements have been almost EXCLUSIVELY pellets as of late.  She even calls it before we change her, "These are pebbles.  GAG."  It's really tough to get the girl to eat anything other than cheese and carbs - to the point that she won't eat anything other than those unless you offer her something else first!  Jenny has started making her eat her fruit (I mean FRUIT for crying out loud!  What kid doesn't eat FRUIT!?!?!?) before she'll give her a cheese stick at lunch, and we always make her eat all her fruit and veg before she can have seconds of whatever the main meal is.  Full disclosure - She. HATES. this.  She will often kick up a fuss and push her plate around, throw her fork, knock over her milk, etc.  Consequently, we are stiffening up the discipline.  She has felt the "rod of love" a few times over the past week or so, almost always due to willful disobedience.  It's funny - we'll ask her to do something and she'll say, "No.  Don't get the Wod of Wuv."  Then, after a final chance, I walk over and lightly (and I mean CRAZY light...and against the diaper for crying out loud) tap her.  She then BREAKS INTO WAILING.  We'll get there!  And let's face it - she's still pretty darn cute most of the time.  The other night she asked Kaitlyn to tickle her, and watching them play was just priceless.

The girls played so hard that night that they went OUT light lights.  Seriously - Cora fell asleep ON ME, which I don't think has ever happened.  In this case it was almost instantly, and she was so sweet when I put her down for the night.  Reading to her has been really, really great lately - 2 books, then prayer and rocking, and then she's out.  Love that kid!

6/24 - Big day for Kaitlyn at the Y - Big kids go to the gym in Summer!!!!  The got to play lots of games, and Kaitlyn's team even won one of them!  She was MUCH happier about this experience vs. being in the community room, so that's exciting.

The girls hit the pool with Taylie and Team Burch again - Cora was a kicking machine!  She's really starting to move those arms and legs, which is exciting to see.  We have her on the YMCA individual swim lesson wait list for the fall - excited to get her swimming like Sis!

I must say, it really does feel like we're making summer count.  I have LOVED how we've used our pools, our outdoor space, eaten watermelon, played outside, been with friends, and just tried to live life outdoors as much as possible.  We've relaxed bedtimes and had so many outdoor activities, we've really been able to turn off all tablets and electronics and just soak in some family time.  THANK YOU, FATHER!!!!!  I love where we live - the neighborhood, the city, and the country.  So blessed.

6/25 - Once again, the girls made it count!  Daughters of mine, make sure you say a big THANK YOU to your mother when you read this, as she has been fully committed to you both this summer!  The day started at a Splash pad up in Huntersville, after which time they hit the park and played for a bit.  Then it was back to Clarke Creek pool with Team McLaren - 6th day in a row in the water!  You can tell that the sun, chlorine, and sun screen are taking their toll on K's face.  We are actually putting Jenny's top of the line face lotion on her at this point.  The good news is that it's definitely helping - want to protect that skin!

And a victory on the Cora front - Jenny has started with fruit in the morning before cereal, and Cora is eating it!  Same thing at lunch and at dinner.  Slowly but surely, we are getting there.  I mean, these veggies have CHEESE on them for crying out loud - they are basically a souflee of goodness!

6/26 - FRONT TOOTH IS OUT!!!!!!  That's right, sports fans, the front tooth is now out, and HOLY MOLY is that a big gap.  It's so funny - you always know the gaps will be big since there's so much space between the teeth anyway, but when you take out a top front, it's amazing!  The photos have been SO CUTE.  Now I will say - I had to be VERY deliberate with the placement of the tooth under the pillow, as we wanted to ensure it was as close as possible to the edge.  Full credit to Jenny, as she was the one who made the "Tooth Fairy Transaction" - well played!  And yes, K got a whopping $4 vs. the normal $2 - that's the going rate for top front teeth. :-)

It was really cute - I had to be at work early that day, but K requested that Jenny FaceTime me to show her.  Sure enough, I called and BAM - there was a gap in the smile!  Love it!  Thank you, kiddo - I am really, really happy (and honored) that you wanted to call me.

The girls then went to a Scavenger Hunt hosted by the neighborhood, and Kaitlyn was on a team with Fiona and Alison.  And get this - THEY WON THE SCAVENGER HUNT!  And best of all?  They EACH got a $20 AMC gift card!  It was hilarious - when I asked what they had to find, K rattled off a  few things:  "pine cone, six blades of grass, etc."  Then she said, "and we had to find a dead ant.  So we found a live one and killed it."  WOW.  So....maybe a teaching moment down the road...

The afternoon consisted of finger panting, tablet watching, and even a little pool time (shocking, that).  K did her learning packet and her piano lessons - she's been really, really good about practicing!

Oh, and Bear decided she didn't want to nap, so she tried to get out of her room.  However, because of the door lock, she couldn't make it happen.  The end result?  She fell asleep AGAINST THE DOOR in the floor.  Jenny found her when she went to open the door to her room and hit Cora in the head with the door upon opening it!  Stinker...

And in another big news story - Kaitlyn has FINALLY decided that she wants to spend some of her money (she's got $215 that we know about - EXCLUDING what's in the piggy bank)!  And after careful consideration on Amazon, she's now the proud owner of a $43 Mermaid tale!  We explained the value of comparison shopping, so we'll see the quality for money on this one.  Watch this space!

Oh, and Cora has started watching My Little Pony from the beginning!  That's right, sports fans - what's old is new again.  But she is SO funny.  When she finishes one, she'll say, "Can I watch another one?"  We'll say yes, but when that ends and she asks again, we always so no (I mean, this is like CLOCKWORK).  She INSTANTLY flails about in protest.  I mean, kid...something else. :-)

6/27 - Jenny started them at the Y today, and then the fast follow was the Mallard Creek Rec Center.  They had a blast - even made two friends to play with there!  Jenny said it was really cute watching them - Cora and Kaitlyn were the kitties, and the two other friends were the doggies chasing them.  Cora is absolutely LOVING pretending to be a cat right now (shocking) - but her meow is HARSH TO THE EARS.  Kaitlyn basically has the sounds perfected.  Bear...not so much.

Side note - at dinner, I've started asking each person what the best part of their day was.  I think that's been well received, and it feels less invasive when compared to peppering them with questions (which is what I've done in times previous).  Plus I like keeping the positive spin on things.  Hopefully we can have this trend continue.

Piano lessons went great - K really enjoyed it again, and once again they didn't want to leave!  Bear did puzzles with the other kids, and they seem super sweet.  I am SO HAPPY with how this is working out thus far!

I had a service event that evening, but they rolled over to Prosperity Park for almost 3 hours of swimming and pizza - Papa John's Delivery, baby!  A great time was apparently had by all, and I even made it home in time to say good night to each of them.

6/28 - A big day - the last day of swim practice!  We've got a meet tomorrow, but after that the season is over!  This season has been really, really great.  Jenny's got a good circle of moms to chat with, the kids all seem to be getting along really well, and the smaller team has made for more focused time between K and the coaches, with the net result being that her stroke has really, REALLY improved.  I feel SO fortunate and blessed to have this in the neighborhood - THANK YOU, FATHER!!!!!  And I really like the friends she's making on the team and this year's experience - definitely a GREAT first month of summer in the books.

The afternoon was spent backing for TN - it's VACATION WEEK, BABY!!!!!  Kaitlyn practiced piano, and then Cora followed after.  And get this - Kaitlyn actually played a short little song!  I was blown away!  It was really, really cool to see.  Admittedly it was simple, but she nailed it!

And the Mermaid tail arrived today!!!!  While there is a defect with the bow (which we've written the manufacturer about already), it is absolutely adorable!  She has been in it non-stop and is desperate to go to the pool (would be the 9th day in a row), but we've just got too much to do (and want to get them to bed early - K is EXHAUSTED and Bear napped face down on the carpet today...as she normally does when she's being obstinate :-)).

I had the chance to have lunch with the girls (surprised them), and now we are just in the waiting game until tomorrow (and loading up the Xterra!).  Two more cute things to note:

1. When K is talking to Cora, she often emulates us and says, "No, honey, like this."  Or she may say, "Come on, honey, you can do it."  Same inflection and everything - too cute!

2. As K goes to all these camps (to say nothing of vacations and Kindy), she naturally accumulates a ton of stuff, most of which isn't designed to keep.  However, getting her to throw something away is virtually IMPOSSIBLE.  And honestly, it's so cute, because when we ask her to toss something, she'll say, "Keep it as a memory?"  I mean, how do you say no to that?  And truthfully, I have a weak spot for it, as that is EXACTLY how I was growing up.  Until I was in my late 30's, it was virtually impossible for me to part with anything!  The DNA imprint runs strong in that one, my friends...

6/29 - Last swim meet!  We were over at River Run, which is a SUPER nice complex.  K swam really hard and finished strong - she was even in Jenny's lane!  That was the first time that has ever happened, and it was too funny watching her smile every time she came up for air.

After the meet (including a brief stop at the play area), Team Taylor changed clothes and headed off to vacation in.....TENNESSEE, BABY!!!!!!!!!  The X was loaded for bear - his 4th trip over the mountain!  We stopped in Black Mountain for some ice cream at Kilwin's, and luckily we got one of the two tables inside (it was a basquillion degrees on the street - the ice creams wouldn't have made it any time).  We then rolled onto Asheville highway, at which point poor Cora Bear started looking quite unwell...AGAIN!  She put her hand over her mouth a couple of times, and ultimately we just decided that we had to stop.  So we pulled off at a stream and let the girls walk in mountain water for the first time ever while they got their sea legs back under them.  Poor Bear really does get car sick!  I absolutely hate it for her and can definitely relate.  Consequently, I think that's the end of Asheville Highway for us (for the foreseeable future, at least).  We drove home via 40, and that was MUCH better - even the windy section didn't seem to bother either of them.

Also, I should say that the girls didn't love their first creek experience.  It wasn't the cold, but rather a) the bugs (I mean...COME ON!) and b) the slipperiness of the rocks that seemed to bother them.  They were both in crocs, and they definitely weren't capable of standing on their own.  The stream was moving pretty good as well, so I wasn't willing to let them go too far afield.  Jenny ended up sitting in the back with them for the remainder of the trip (just to ensure no vomit), and the remainder of the drive passed without incident.  I have to say - the girls were GREAT on the drive over.  They were really good about playing with each other and with what was back there, didn't beg for the tablet non-stop, and didn't ask how much longer until arrival.  And the cutest thing - listening to the girls argue over which VBS song to listen to next!  They were ALL ABOUT the new CD, and they both know a lot of the words!  Love these kiddos!!!

Our last stop before Vol Nana's was Yoder's, where we purchased enough candy to feed a small army.  Cora LOVED it and wanted to put EVERYTHING in our cart.  It's funny - it was almost 3 PM, and that place was PACKED!  It was then over to Vol Nana's where we almost immediately jumped into the pool to cool off and relax.  It was a BIG moment for Kaitlyn, as she got to break out the Mermaid tail for the first time!!!

So I will be honest - this thing was $43, and I didn't think K would play with it.  She had worn it all day around the house on Friday before we left, but I just didn't think it would be that practical.  Well, as it turns out, she is a veritable TORPEDO with that thing!  Seriously - she has the butterfly form DOWN PAT, and she absolutely FLIES in the water!  It was unreal!  When we played tag, she could genuinely catch up to me!  It was so cool to see.

It was a BIG moment for Bear as well, as a switch flipped in her mind and she FINALLY let us use the puddle jumper!!!  Seriously - this was EPIC freedom for both her and us, as now it meant that we didn't have to constantly have a parent hovering over her or sitting on the steps.  GAME CHANGER, BABY!!!!!!

We had a GREAT evening, and the girls were on Cloud 9.  Between the doggies, the kitties, the pool, mac 'n cheese, Disney Jr., and Vol Nana, the girls could NOT have been happier.  And things went even better for Cora, as she absolutely loved her big girl bed!  Mom had done a GREAT job of walling her in, and Cora slept like a champ up there (and really, really loved it).

6/30 - Today was another great day for everyone, and we essentially just hung out and took it easy.  K spent a huge chunk of time in the pool, where she was able to go underwater with her mermaid tail the length of the pool!  I mean, that's pretty awesome, right?  She did the whole distance (probably 35-40 feet) in a single breath!  K really has the motion down from learning Fly during swim team, and you can tell that her little tummy is getting stronger and forming some abs.  #diesel, baby!!!!

The day was a whirlwind of making cookies, swimming, eating pizza, watching movies, and making snow cones.  In the evening, Bear wouldn't settle - especially once Kaitlyn got in there with her.  We went in there 3 times to try and get her to settle, but that girl just kept singing "3 Little Birds" by Bob Marley (and some TV theme show) over and over!  The last time I walked in, Cora was on her back singing, and K was out of bed with her hands over her ears staring at me.  HILARIOUS!

But all's well that ends well, as we decided to put Kaitlyn in Vol Nana's room (there's a second bed in there).  This was a best case scenario for K, as it meant that a) kitties could be in the room with her, b) she was with Vol Nana, and c) it was the quietest room in the house (complete with Google white noise).

Speaking of kitties, Cora has been HILARIOUS chasing them down!  She flat stalks them and runs around after them like crazy!  These two girls are cat petting machines - hilarious!  Now Bear did step on Charlie's tail once, which was less than ideal.  However, they still got plenty of loving.  :-)

So there you have it - an EPIC start to summer!  I must say, I am very, VERY pleased with how much we've packed in to the first 3 weeks of summer break.  Honestly, all credit goes to JT, as she has really put her life and schedule on hold to make every minute count with the rug rats.  Luckily I've been able to join them a lot as well, and it really feels like we've done a good job of staying connected with friends - especially for K, where it's so important to keep those bonds in place over the summer.

Chat with you all in a month - stay cool!

Love,

Sam and Jenny

Sunday, June 9, 2019

May Day! May Day! Our girls are growing up too fast!!!!

Family,

And a good evening to you from the Queen City, where yet another FANTASTIC month is in the books.  Plenty to record, so let's get amongst it, shall we?

5/1 - So let me brag on my oldest today!  For the second time this school year, Kaitlyn Taylor cashed in her hard earned Bradford Bucks to give the class a party.  The theme this time?  PAJAMA PARTY!!!!!!!  It was $100 Bradford Bucks, and Monday is now the scheduled day for the party.  It's so official it's on the class calendar.  Way to go, kiddo!!!

It was a good day at school and after school, as the ladies took advantage of the gorgeous weather to hit the park.  K got a HUGE bruise on her arm, but it didn't slow her down!  Rough and Tumble, baby!

Also, Bear is continuing to NAIL the potty training!  She peed in Froggy Potty again today!  We are seeing more and more dry diapers for longer periods, which suggests that she's really starting to just naturally figure it out.  Exciting!!!!  I mean, this girl is a rockstar!!!

5/2 - A sweet moment today:  Kaitlyn presented Jenny with her "Mother's Day Book," which is something she'd been working on at school.  It was really cute - lots of stories or anecdotes were included, and almost every page had a drawing.  She did a REALLY great job with it.

5/3 - A HUGE DAY IN THE TAYLOR HOUSEHOLD!!!!!!!  CORA BEAR OFFICIALLY MOVED TO A BIG GIRL BED!!!!!  JT had talked about this being the day, but we weren't sure.  We asked Cora that afternoon if she wanted her big girl bed, and she instantly smiled (face lit up).  We knew she wanted it, and so we just decided to go for it.  It was going to be a no nap day anyway, so we knew that should help with the exhaustion factor.  And get this - THAT GIRL SLEPT THROUGH THE NIGHT!!!!!!  THANK YOU, JESUS!!!!!!!

That wasn't the only Bear news for the day - that girl is getting her 2 year molars!  One has already popped through, and the others aren't far behind.  That likely explains why she's been a little fussy and clingy lately, but on the whole she's been a trooper.

5/4 - We went into K's room about 6:30 (after she'd slept through the night - YAY!), and she was all smiles!  But the funniest part - Jenny asked, "Did you fall out?"  And Cora immediately said, "Yes!  On mine arm."  Too funny!  She didn't cry out - simply fell out of bed, climbed back in, and then went back to sleep.  HOW BLESSED ARE WE?

Today was a big one for K:  the K-6 Bradford Spring Spectacular.  It all started with a "Scavenger Hunt" on the path in the woods.  We looked for flowers, trees, insects, animals, etc, and the kids had fun with that (we saw plenty of classmates and other friends).  After that we walked over to Kaitlyn's class and then over to the Art Show, stopping first at the Raffle.  This was fun, as it was SO CUTE watching Kaitlyn evaluate all the bags and put tickets in the ones she wanted.  She loaded up on the one that had LOL surprise dolls!  Unfortunately (but not shockingly), we were NOT winners.  However, it was fun, and we enjoyed it.

It was then over to the art show, where each student had a piece of framed art available for purchase ($40).  K's was an owl in a tree, and it was really cute!  So we picked that up - along with some popcorn - and then headed out after a good 2 hours at the school.  I really do love that place - so many wonderful people, so many fun activities, and so much promise in the years to come.  THANK YOU, FATHER!!!

We then rolled over to CFA for some ice cream and time in an (air conditioned) playground - score! The girls were SO CUTE playing together.  Cora wants K to pick her up all the time and walk with her while chanting "Bug a boo...bug a boo."  Cora just cackles.  But beware when you want to do your own thing and Cora's not done with you!  She will come up to you and physically PUSH YOU to go where she wants you to go.  This girl doesn't play!  Needless to say we've had to explain that's not proper behavior, at which point she always immediately breaks down into a pool of sadness and tears.  good times...

The other thing to note - I came into K's room tonight, and she was reading Amelia Bedelia.  This was SUCH a walk down memory lane for me, as Grandmother Taylor used to ALWAYS read Amelia Bedelia to us when she was a guest reader in elementary school during library time.  So sweet!  I took a photo and sent it to mom and dad. A special moment indeed.

5/5 - Today was a great one...and a busy one!  We went into Bear's room at 6:48, and she hadn't left her bed.  She was sitting on it playing SO GOOD with her animals.  YES!!!!!!  A miracle!  After church, we rolled down to the Tacy's for an afternoon with Nole Nana and Grandpa.  Uncle Ron and Aunt Janet were there, and we had a fantastic visit with them.  We had great food, went for a walk, had plenty of laughs, and really enjoyed ourselves.  The girls played GREAT together and on their own - K even did two REALLY tough puzzles which she'd never seen before.  Way to go, kiddo!

Bear was in Heaven with the princess castles, and she curled up with Aunt Janet for a good chunk of time to show her all her toys (and especially all the ponies).  Janet was great with them, and the girls were all about her - holding hands, showing her things, and talking to her a lot.  It was sweet.

Bear was on no nap for the third day in a row, and you could tell that it was taking its toll.  She's a rock star and was super good, but by that 3-4 PM witching hour, that girl had flat out had ENOUGH.  She almost fell asleep in the stroller and actually asked to go to sleep in the back and play about 4:30, but obviously that was NOT the plan.  We just BARELY made it home before she fell asleep in the backseat - and Kaitlyn wasn't far behind either!  And I'm happy to report that Bear slept GREAT in her big girl bed for the third night in a row.  YAY!!!!!

And a bragging moment - the girls were VERY polite and well mannered at dinner, and I heard Ron and Janet say quietly, "Look how well behaved these two are."  That was a good feeling!  Proud of you kids!

Big moment for me tonight.  As I've mentioned periodically, I find myself still saying "no" too often or trying to enforce rules that don't matter.  I realize more and more that being tired is part of what makes me short with the girls, but luckily on this day I'd had pretty good sleep and was more aware of my actions and words.  Well, I'm about to leave K's room after tucking her in, and she says, "Sleep with me for a minute, dada."  At first my instincts kicked in - always put your kid down awake, it's already late, you must keep to the schedule, etc - but then it occurred to me:  how much longer do you really think your daughter will want to curl up with you?  And so, with the music box playing "Memory," I laid there for 2 or 3 minutes while K sucked her thumb and curled up against me.  It was just magic, and as the music box wound down and started playing slower and slower, I found myself almost at the point of tears.  I didn't want that music box to stop, as I knew that would break the spell.  But, as with everything - kindergarten, swim team, vacations, life - the inexorable march of time moves on, and with it, so do our days.  It was wonderful.  It was sweet.  It was perfect.  It was something I hope to do again.

5/6 - Today was a GREAT one for K:  PAJAMA PARTY AT BPS!!!!!  It was really awesome, as Mrs. Pate sent out a message the night before reminding everyone of the PJ party and thanking K for sharing her Bradford Bucks with the entire class.  I mean, I have to brag on my kid here - this is the SECOND time she's cashed in bucks for the whole class, and no other kid has done it once!  So proud of you, Suzie Q!

Also, Kaitlyn is back to praying at night, and I cannot tell you how sweet her prayers have been lately.  She is really constructing sweet, coherent, loving thoughts, and it's just beautiful to listen to.  I am SO THANKFUL she knows Jesus and has Him in her heart at such a young age.

The quote of the night was at the dinner table.  Jenny had made veggie tots for the girls (which I thought were quite good, for the record).  Well, Cora takes a bite and says, "These tots is terrible, mom." and then she spits them back out!  When she's done with the meal, she looks at both parents and says, "These teeter totters is terrible."  HILARIOUS!  It was a priceless moment.

5/7 - So I just have to be honest, vulnerable, and transparent - today was an EPIC PARENTING FAIL.  I had a GREAT day at work - things are really starting to click now, which is a great feeling.  I came home thinking I could bring that positive energy to the house, but alas - the wheels just feel off.

Long story short - K and I just did NOT get along.  I think I annoyed her, and she just shut down and refused to obey/listen/talk with/speak to me.  What started as passive resistance eventually led to a total shutdown, and by the time we got to the bath, she didn't want to say a word to me.  I asked her if it was something at school or something else, and she just shook her head.  When I asked, "Is it me?", she just curtly nodded and walked off.  Ouch...

Bear was crying nonstop as well, and she was FURIOUS that I was putting her to bed vs. JT (she was taking K since I'd had her the previous few nights).  The girls always ask who's got Jenny (vs. me) every night, as both of them want her.  Whoever gets stuck with me usually bawls, and tonight was no exception.  :-)

Cora was a MESS.  When I finished reading to her, she went into full-on frump mode and wouldn't speak to me, look at me, or even let me touch her.  When I asked her if she wanted to climb into her big girl bed, she actually just laid in the floor!  I then tried to put her in the bed, to which she made her legs rigid and REFUSED to lay down!  I finally had to "sweep the legs" to lay her down, at which point she wailed like a banshee (JT rushed over thinking she was hurt - it was THAT loud).  Cora probably cried for 30 minutes and was then away for over 90 minutes before she settled!  Not a great night.

After it was all said and done, Jenny provided some really great coaching about things I need to consider doing differently - a lot of it centered around not asking so many questions about K's day and just letting her be.  I went to bed that night rattled and rather disappointed in myself - one of my worst efforts in a long time.  I prayed about it at life group and the following morning, as it was heavy on my heart.  This time is so precious and so fleeting, and I don't want to lose a second.

5/8 - RESILIENCE!!!!!!!  Can I just say THANK YOU, FATHER!!!!!!  Honestly, tonight was just INCREDIBLE with the girls.  Jenny had life group, which meant that I was the one putting them to bed.  Bear was a mess when I arrived home - screaming bloody murder - but after that it was a PERFECT night.  The girls were SO sweet, we had a lot of great laughs, we played quite a bit, and it was just a perfect night.  When I asked Cora if I could pray over her, she walked to her bed, grabbed lamb lamb, and then climbed into my arms and laid her head on my shoulder.  Kaitlyn also snuggled with me - AMAZING!!!!!

It was an answered prayer, and JT was right - I need to just say yes more often.  I wasn't worried about the schedule or the clock, and I didn't chase them for everything they needed to do.  The result?  We actually got in bed FASTER than the previous night when I hounded them!  Talk about a lesson learned!

5/9 - Girls were up EARLY today!  Bear was up before 6, and Kaitlyn followed suit about 6:08.  Bear has gotten adventurous enough to go over to her seat and flip through books, but mercifully that's all she's done so far. :-)  Speaking of books, Cora is LOVING Dumbo right now!  She wants to read it all the time - it's a must first thing in the morning an before bed - but get this:  she does NOT like it when I do voices!  Just. Like. Her. Sister.  Come on!  My voices are GREAT!  I was doing the high pitched voice of Timothy the Circus Mouse, and she said, "Why. Are. You. Reading. That. Way.  Gag."  Too funny!  Oh, and the picture of Timothy on page 8 is pretty much Cora's favorite thing on earth - too funny!

The girls were great again tonight, but Cora was NOT happy when I took a booger out of her mouth before she could eat it.  She was ANGRY!  It wasn't anything a little sniffing of her ear and tickling of her tummy couldn't fix, of course.

Oh, and get this - a few weeks back I probably mentioned that we lost a library book.  We'd searched everywhere for it, and ultimately we had to pay for it (a whopping $7, which we did take out of K's allowance).  Well guess what - WE FOUND IT TODAY IN THE SITTING ROOM.  I mean...really...REALLY?!?!?!?

Kate was over today, and as usual the girls got on like a house on fire.  Bear didn't nap today, but she was great and stayed in her room, flipping through books in bed.  LOVE THAT KID!

Oh, and a classic moment.  I was talking to Cora at dinner, and she was explaining how a bird flew into the garage and got trapped there while mom and Bear were at the Y.  Cora was describing how Jenny finally convinced it to fly away, and she kept saying, "Den mama said - have to go THAT WAY, Birdy Bird!"  Honestly - I think she said that 10,000 times...and I laughed each time she finished.

5/10 - The girls woke up SCREAMING in excitement about Vol Nana's arrival this morning, and the weekend was a blast from that moment forward.  K had a great day at school - she used her Bradford Bucks to buy extra recess for the entire class!  I am SO proud of that girl.  This is the THIRD time that she's purchased something for the entire class.  Love it!

Jenny took Cora to the Y with her, where Bear is becoming quite the little celebrity.  The staff is amazed at how well she's doing with her ABC's - she can basically sing them all!  Also, they have been really impressed at how well she does puzzles.  She apparently did a 12 piece puzzle by herself with limited help on this day!

Since then, Bear has been doing puzzles NON-STOP.  It's amazing to watch!  And while she still needs quite a bit of help on them, you can tell that she's starting to figure things out.  It's renewed Kaitlyn's interest in it as well, so as you can expect we now have puzzles in various states of completeness ALL OVER THE HOUSE.  But hey - it's a noble pursuit, and it's proof that BOTH girls have their mother's ability for spacial reasoning.  WHEW! :-)

Mom arrived a little before 5, and the girls were squealing with delight.  Cora screamed "VOL NA-NA!!!!!" about about 400 decibels.  Too cute. :-)  But I did have to coach Kaitlyn that she couldn't wake Vol Nana.  At first mom said, "sure you can come in when you wake up."  She wasn't as keen, however, when I mentioned that would be 6 AM on the nose... :-)

The girls played pretty much every single board game we had over the course of the weekend, trotting out about half of them this evening.  It was so funny - it came out of NOWHERE!  They haven't even thought about these games for months, and suddenly they were pulling stuff out of the woodwork.  It was priceless - and great to see them getting some use!

5/11 - I am happy to report that, while K was up at 6:30, she did let mom sleep until 8:30. :-)  They all rolled to the Y to watch K at Dance, and then we headed over to Cafe 100 in Huntersville for lunch.  We sat outside, which wasn't great given the rain.  However, once we got everything reshuffled and adjusted, we had a really nice meal (that place is ALWAYS so delicious).  We did try to monitor bear's chocolate milk intake as best we could, as that girl was ready to INHALE IT.  She did finish a mammoth glass, but we were able to spread it out over an hour vs. 10 minutes. :-)

One thing to call out - the house is just feeling SO MUCH HEALTHIER right now, and you can tell we all just feel better.  The girls are getting up earlier, and while some of that is excitement and a new bed, a lot of it is the end of allergy season.  I feel pretty confident at this point that K does have some allergies, as it is INSANE how much better she now feels.  She's not blowing her nose, she doesn't have any red bags under her eyes, she's not coughing.  It's much the same for Bear, although it was never on the same scale.

The day went quickly, including stops at Lowe's and then....SWEET FROG!!!!!!  Y'all, Kaitlyn was SO EXCITED - she basically chanted "Sweet Frog, Sweet Frog" non-stop from the time we finished lunch until we showed up at SF (in a downpour of Biblical proportions, mind you).  Mom treated us all to fro-yo, and we made it count. :-)

The afternoon was filled with more board games - my favorite of which was Operation.  Cora tried to play it, and mom got SO TICKLED when bear just kept pressing on the side of the board (the buzzer went for probably 2 minutes straight).  The girls potted plants, painted nails, and just had a blast.

A moment of panic for me - the exhaust fumes in the Xterra were very noticeable today, and I realized that yes - we did in fact have a leak.  Instantly I panicked and thought, "have I poisoned my children?"  I honestly was on the verge of really freaking out when I remembered that God did not give us a spirit of fear but a spirit of peace!  And so, taking action, I got an appointment scheduled for next week to get it taken care of (that work is actually in process as I type this - THANK YOU, FATHER!!!!!).

5/13 - HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!!!!!  Can I just take a moment to say HOW INCREDIBLY BLESSED AND THANKFUL I am for the moms in my life?  Today was just an incredible day on SO many levels, some of which will be covered here - some of which were God moments that have been recorded in the Encounter log.

Church was just amazing - the message was incredible, the weather was perfect, and the pics were got were AMAZING!  After we got home and had lunch (and did a little more potting and planting!), mom took Kaitlyn to Birkdale for some ice cream at Kilwin's and a movie - Dumbo!  It was an afternoon of HEAVEN for K - Vol nana, ice cream, popcorn, a movie, and then a playground.  They had about 5-6 hours together, and I'll venture to say it was the best 6 hours of K's month. :-)  So cute.

Bear, however, was NOT as happy. :-)  She woke up from her nap, saw me, and said, "Where. Is. Vol. Nana?"  She didn't like the response of "she had things to do."  That being said, we rallied quickly, and we actually had a PERFECT afternoon.  We played outside in the backyard, and Cora sat on the swing with JT for probably a good hour!  All told, we were in the backyard for almost 2 hours before queuing up a movie for Bear (Barbie in a Mermaid's Tale, of course...) - IT WAS SO NICE!

K was really sweet that night but already getting sad.  After reading to mom and hugging her twice, she tried to hide her tears by saying, "My eyes are really running tonight."  Too sweet (mom had to fight back tears on that as well).

5/14 - So I was in Minneapolis for work today and didn't really get the chance to talk to the girls much.  I did, however, see Kaitlyn in her costume for the dance recital (they had final dress rehearsal tonight) and let me tell you.  SHE. LOOKED. BEAUTIFUL.  SO PRETTY (AND SO BIG!)!!!!!!

5/15 - I was still in Minneapolis this day, so I got these updates from the airport:

1. K started swim practice today!!!  She was in the same lane with Alison and some other friends, and you could tell that she REALLY had fun.  They worked on freestyle and backstroke, and she said that it went great!  Honestly - I think having more friends will make such a difference, and it makes me really happy to see how much she enjoyed her first practice.  That being said, she did confirm that the water was SOOOOO COLD! :-)

The other news from swim practice - K was hanging out with some friends at the playground after practice, and she SUCCESSFULLY DID THE MONKEY BARS ALL THE WAY ACROSS FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER!!!!!!!  Jenny captured it on video, so I got the chance to see it.  She did GREAT.  She started and then stopped, but the loss of momentum didn't deter her.  Instead, she just ratcheted it back up and CRUSHED IT.  Way to go, kid!

But the highlight of the day:  K gets in the car at BPS to come home and has this verbatim conversation with Jenny:

K:  "I have a boyfriend."

JT:  "You do?  You're too young to have a boyfriend.  Who is your boyfriend?"

K:  "Ricky."  (side note - when Jenny texted to tell me that K had a boyfriend, I immediately wrote back "It's got to be Ricky" - CALLED IT!  NAILED IT!"  Anytime she's at an event, I've noticed he is the ONE BOY she always says hi to AND is the only person she'll roll down her window for at carpool to call out to).

JT:  "Why is Ricky your boyfriend?"

K:  "He's nice.  He's a boy.  And he's cute."

JT:  "Well that's good.  What did he say?"

K:  "Oh, he doesn't know."

PRICELESS!!!!!!  Love BPS.  Love my girls.  Love being a parent.

On the Cora front, that girl is ALL ABOUT these little toys called "Pomsies" right now.  Seriously - when you give her that thing, she LIGHTS UP, and when she pushes its nose so that it starts babbling, she just cackles!  It is so funny and is the INSTANT antidote when she's misbehaving.


5/16 - Tonight was Kaitlyn's dance recital, and can I just say that it was AWESOME!!!!!  She looked SO PRETTY and SO BIG up there, and more importantly - she really, really had fun!  She was animated, had a huge smile on her face, and just seemed to relish every second of it. I was SO PROUD of her for making the most of it.  And you could tell that she was loving it, because after almost 2 months of begging to stop taking dance, her first question was "Can I do dance again next year?"  Too funny!  But it really was sweet, and she really did seem to have fun up there.

Afterwards we played tag outside on the front lawn (it was at a church) and just really had a great evening.  We took some photos, had a lot of laughs, and just generally enjoyed ourselves.  K didn't get down until 9 PM, but over the course of all that I was given the revelation that it's okay to not try and teach/script/control every moment.  I know that some of what I'm writing now is more for the encounter log than here, but the truth is our girls are a gift from God, and raising them is a privilege that he's given us.  Consequently, there has to be some overlap.

In the last 48 hours I've learned that you really can say yes more often.  And what's more - you can say no reactively and then change your mind - AND THAT'S OKAY.  Honestly, life has been better and more fun, and the girls have laughed a lot more around me (and behaved better).  I have realized that I've been striving a bit too much - trying to make every second a teaching moment or a way to prepare these girls for life.  Instead, I need to just "be" and love these moments that I've been given.  The Holy Spirit has really been helping to show me this (both via revelation and through Jenny), and I am so grateful for that constant instruction and support.

5/17 - A super cute moment today - Kaitlyn made the Bradford Instagram page!  We were sitting somewhere when Cheryl texted and said, "Have you seen the BPS Instagram page today?"  We looked, and there was a photo of Kaitlyn showing off her little toy ring.  So cute!  But then we saw why - the photo beside it was Ms. Pate digging through a trash can with the caption:  "what do you do when a student loses their ring?  You find an AWESOME teacher to go digging in the trash for it.  THANK YOU, MRS. PATE!"  Too cute!  That gal is a rock star. Teacher of the year! :-)

5/18 - Another big milestone today - K'S FINAL GYMNASTICS SHOW!!!!! She was REALLY not looking forward to it, and in the moments leading up to the show we found out why - she didn't want to have to do backward rolls.  We told her to just enjoy it and try to have fun - I challenged her to have as big a smile on her face for that hour as she had during the dance recital.  Sure enough, I'm happy to report that she did great!

They did a really good job with the setup - they recognized the senior team for their accomplishments, and they had each group rotate and do every single exercise (floor, beam, bar, and trampoline - in lieu of vault of course).  They also did some warm ups and got to walk the podium (to the Olympic music, no less) with their trophies, so that was cool!  It honestly was a great experience, and Bear was really good, too.  We were sitting on a trampoline for most of the show, and poor Bear was really having trouble walking on it.  But that didn't stop her from trying - and jumping!  Honestly, as long as she had goldfish (we are now eating flavor blasted goldfish...which are AMAZING) and a block from the foam pit, all was right with the world.

The afternoon was a full on blur of company.  Megan, Ryan, and Jonathan came up during the afternoon to hang out with us, and I'm proud to report that we made FULL USE of our outdoor space!  We grilled on the patio, and I hooked up the doggy sprinkler.  The girls had a BLAST shooting each other...and then I got in on the act as well.  We also had the frozen pool out, and they really had fun splashing around in that.  It was honestly the most we've EVER used our backyard - yay!  The dream of using every square inch of our place is coming true.  THANK YOU, FATHER!!!!!

The girls ate great, played hard, and really had fun.  And get this - THE CRIB IS NOW OUT OF THE HOUSE!!!!!  Megan and Ryan decided to take it, so we broke it down and shipped it out - INSANE!  I am really excited for them, as it was a GREAT crib - it's just always wonderful when we can keep things in the family.

5/19 - We had 2 church services today, and K got to play the game in the Arrows room BOTH TIMES! She had to bunny hop with a "mud ball" (aka brown balloon) around the course - it was pretty cute to watch her.

Afterwards we came home, where I watched both girls plus Cadi (Jen's daughter) while they went down south to visit Cuz.  Cadi slept for a good while, meaning that Kaitlyn, Bear, and I got some really good bonding time...including my oldest CRUSHING me at monopoly.  Cora and I played with the ponies and did some puzzles.  It's funny - Bear will ask you to "play puzzles," but what she really wants is you to put it together while she watches.  I asked her to at least help me flip the pieces over, but she was having NONE of it.  Too funny.

Once the girls returned about 5, I shot out with K for a little daddy daughter time to hit Sweet Frog.  It was a "no weigh day," meaning K could fill her 12 oz cup as much as she wanted.  And let me tell you - THAT GIRL PACKED IT FULL.  I honestly couldn't believe she ate it - it was AMAZING!  That place is SO good, and we had a good little afternoon there.  It was really sweet - she climbed on my lap about halfway through, at which point she would take a bite and then lay her head against my chest while chewing.  It was so sweet - I was in Heaven!  We then ran around a bit to "burn off some sugar" before driving home, where we ran around some more before calling it a night.  I did let the girls watch a show, but it was hilarious - anytime you say "show" Cora immediately says "I want Barbie in a Mermaid Tale!"  If you don't give her that, well...SHE. GOES. BALLISTIC.  Rinse/repeat 12 million times so far this month.

Oh, and I asked Kaitlyn tonight:  "Sweetheart, you technically have 2 more gymnastics sessions left if you want to finish those in stead of going to swim practice."  Her response:  "I am so DONE with gymnastics."  Too cute!  But I wanted to confirm it, and I was glad she was that emphatic with her response.

5/20 - So I have to mention here how much Cora is singing these days!  Both girls do sing a ton (Kaitlyn has been singing "My Girl" from her dance recital and "Lean On Me" from the end of year kindy show nonstop - complete with motions :-)), but Bear in particular is just hilarious.  I went into her room the other day to hear her belting "What a wonderful name it is, the name of Jesus!" at the top of her lungs while still on her back in bed.  I also tucked her in one night while she continued to sing: "Head.  Shoulder.  Knee.  Toes!"  My favorite, however, is when she asks for "the Donut song," which is really "Three Little Birds" by Bob Marley (aka "Don't worry about a thing").  It stems from a towel Granny A gave us with a donut on it that reads "DONUT Worry."  Well, Jenny started singing the Bob Marley song, and now Bear wants it every time she's getting her diaper changed in the evening.  And since I a) don't know all the words and b) don't have the same inflection and cadence as JT, Bear pretty much wants to stab me every time I try.  Seriously - you should hear the exasperation in her voice.

What I will say - Bear is definitely plumping up, so we are going to have to watch some portion control AND what she's consuming.  She's getting better about her vegetables, but she is really all about her carbs.  I noticed today that her thighs are definitely bigger than they've been in awhile!  It is just REALLY tough with the second one, as she sees what the first is eating and wants it so badly.  AS a parent, I haven't totally figured out how to strike that balance, so that's clearly what I need to think about and pray about next.

On the Kaitlyn front, Jenny has asked that she stop saying, "How dare you!" all the time.  We know that she's joking, but she does say it with reckless abandon - even when people are around.  To her credit, she's already greatly diminished usage, and when she does say it she catches herself.  So progress is being made at least.

Separately - that girl is really starting to read with inflection and speed!  I am so impressed with the speed at which she's reading.  I really hope we can support her enough to keep this up over the summer.

Lastly, she got an invitation to Laney's 6th birthday today, and the good news - it's at Frankie's Fun Park!  K is SO EXCITED.  Too cute.

5/21 - Daddy Daughter Date Night this evening!  I took K to Panera, where we CRUSHED some mac 'n cheese (still the best!), a brownie, some chocolate milk, and a bit of lemon drop cookie.  We were there about an hour and really did have a nice time.  I want to start finding multiple activities for us so that we can elongate date night, but we're just not there yet - especially during the school year.

Oh, and I found out that K has a new boyfriend - Gavin.  Apparently some friends told Ricky, so she had to swap.  Gavin apparently "doesn't talk," which means "he won't embarrass me."   We also confirmed that K didn't play with Kate on the playground today because "Suzie has taken over."  LOL - fast times at Bradford Prep. :-)

Also, Kaitlyn had her dentist appointment today.  While everything did look good (and Cora was apparently an angel waiting patiently while K had her cleaning), the dentist did say that her thumb sucking was now pushing on her permanent teeth and moving them back a bit.  He encouraged her again to not suck her thumb.  Jenny reminded her of it in the evening, and K said, "But I won't be able to sleep!"  She did lay down that night without her thumb, but I will be honest - that hit me with a wave of sadness.

It's funny - last year felt like the year of "tremendous change and upheaval" for us, but there's been every bit as much change inside the house this year.  Cora is running, jumping, and speaking so clearly.  She's in a big girl bed and is about to start pre-school!  The whale spout continues to move further and further back on her head and will soon become a full-on ponytail.

Kaitlyn is now SHOWERING!!!!  She loves it (loves the massage on her back), and both Jenny and I have been in there with her to ensure her hair gets properly washed.  There is other stuff, of course - she's getting taller, leaner, making new friends, learning so quickly, reading to us, reading by herself, writing stories, drawing amazing pictures, really starting to learn about Jesus and faith - and about to be a first grader!  As I recount all of it, I just realize how quickly they are both growing up, and the thumb sucking - while originally I was a strong proponent of ending - just suddenly took on a new identity for me.  Instead of something we needed "to break," it became one of the last vestiges of an era about to end, one from which you never return to and whose ending signals some end of innocence.  I think it's close either way, and obviously it's a good thing once it's done.  But MAN - I am going to miss seeing that little thumb pop into her mouth has she turns onto her side and snuggles up in the pillow.

5/22 - K cashed in Bradford Bucks for "special supplies" (aka Ms. Pate's special stash) and for the right to bring a cuddly friend today.  She better use those puppies up, as realistically she's only got a few more days left to cash them in!  Seriously - the next week is all about field days, field trips, and even a pajama/movie/popcorn day!  These kids are living the life!

And Bear is doing EXACTLY the same thing K used to do, and it's so cute.  She's saying:  "Hey, mama, watch me do XXX."  Then, after JT does, she says, "Hey Kate-win, watch me do XXX."  Then it moves to me and then whoever else is in the room.  Too cute, and EXACTLY what K used to do.  The other day it was "watch me drink my milk."  The parents were only too happy to do it.  Kaitlyn...not so much. :-)  But I have to give her credit - she's been a really good sport about it.

5/23 - BOYFRIEND UPDATE!  So apparently K still has Gavin as a boyfriend.  However, she and Ellie are also now sharing Camden.  Apparently this is kosher because the boys don't know that they are, in fact, "boyfriends."  It's honestly all just too funny. LOVE THESE CRAZY KIDS!!!

Oh, and Bear did say, "May I please be excused?" when she wanted to leave the table yesterday.  I mean...WHAT?!?!?!  Who is this child? :-)

5/25 - So today was a really good day, featuring 4 HOURS at the Sports Club pool!  The girls were really good and had a lot of fun.  I was exhausted when it was over, as I spent a lot of the day picking up and throwing K (my shoulder is feeling it today!).  We also treated the girls to an Italian Ice...and they LOVED IT (shocking).  It was a super hot day, and all I could think was how thankful I was to be living in Highland Creek with access to so many pools.  CLT is on FIRE right now!

The one hiccup of the day - K had told us for the last day or so that her throat hurt and had even come into our room several times in the evening/early morning to tell us it was bothering her.  Jenny was all about taking her to the Peds, but I was operating under the assumption it was viral and nothing could be done (or alternatively something else was in bloom.  Well, ultimately we ended up taking her to Urgent Care, and dare I say that my wife is a PROPHETESS!?!?!?!?  NAILED IT - Strep Round 4!!!!!  But K was super brave (sent my a voice text to tell me that the testing wasn't bad at all :-)), and we now have yet another prescription for Cefdinir in the house!  Both girls were down EARLY last night, and Jenny and I were fast follows - BUSHED!

5/26 - I am happy to report all of our Disney dining reservations are now booked!  More to come on these, but suffice it to say you have to book SIX MONTHS IN ADVANCE to get your spots!!!

We took it easy and were inside most of the day, largely because a) it was 10,000 degrees outside and b) K was still contagious and clearly a bit lethargic.  That being said, she is already showing signs of life and gaining energy.  She's just getting the medicine once daily, and I'm due to give her the next dose here shortly.

The weekend has been really good, and I've had the chance to have some real bonding time with the girls.  This is has been especially good in Cora's case, as I feel K has received a lot more of my focus and attention lately (dance show, gym show, date night, etc).  Cora and I have had a lot of fun this weekend playing on the steps at the pool, playing in the kiddie pool, and playing with hatchimals in the house. :-).

5/27 - K had perked up considerably by the end of the evening the night before (we are talking running around the house chasing Cora - AMAZING what two doses of that stuff will do!), and so that made today a REALLY good one - at Brewers @ 4001 Yancey!!!  We rocked up about 12 and had a good 4 hours there with Team McLaren and some of their other friends.  There was an adults table and a kids table, and Kaitlyn had a GREAT time!  Cora didn't have as much fun I don't think (poor thing was just so hot and tired - she almost fell asleep on the drive down!), but between food, petting doggies, and running around with the other kids, she seemed to have fun.

For Kaitlyn, I think it was a case of finally getting some dedicated Kate time.  I get the sense she hasn't seen her as much at school lately because "Suzie has taken over" (that was a direct quote).  You could tell that K really had a blast, as evidenced by the big smile on her face (She actually told Jenny that she was having SO much fun).

We got home about 5ish, and we tried to cool off with a little television and dinner before calling it a night.  The whole house was in bed before 8:30 - adults included!

5/28 - So today was a good day, but some challenges are emerging on the behavior front.  For starters, Bear has become really tough at dinner.  She'll always eat her main, but she wants virtually NOTHING to do with the fruit and veg.  She will often say, "Dad, will you help me?"  But when I got to scoop up a bite of veggies (which is always where I start), she just goes into meltdown.  The last two nights we've actually had to take her plate away from her with food still on it, as she was throwing utensils, knocking the plate around, and just being generally disagreeable.  Crazy!

Starting tomorrow, we are going to introduce her veggies and fruit first before she is offered her main.  Obviously she won't like that, but there's no doubt that little face of hers is getting rounder!

Also, both girls are now saying, "One second" any time you ask them to do something.  And while it used to literally be one second, it's now become a convenient way for them to just ignore anything we ask them to do.  The girls were a little tough tonight, and I could tell JT was over it by the time I got home.  I think Bear's constant whining and crying is slowing fraying us both - similar to her first year of life when she cried constantly.  Pray for us! :-)

Oh, and tonight Kaitlyn told me that she was glad I wasn't going on the field trip tomorrow because I am kind of annoying.  She also didn't want to hug me at bedtime.  Cora (who I read to...which she obviously wasn't happy about) refused to let me hold her and said simply, "Just leave me alone."  Ah, it's nice to be loved... :-)

5/29 - A fun day for Kaitlyn and the Bradford Bears today - a field trip to Patterson farms!  And get this - K actually guilt tripped Jenny on Sunday about not going, so JT and Bear made the trip as well! Now admittedly Jenny didn't see much of K during the day (she wasn't a chaperone and had the nugget, which obviously is a challenge in and of itself), but she did have fun and got some really cute pictures.  I loved this, as Jenny got the chance to observe K "from a distance in the wild," and it sounded like she had a lot of fun.  She's been hanging out with Ellie a ton lately, and they seem to be getting on like a house on fire.  I do know that Ellie certainly likes her jewelry!  Case in point - she basically snatched K's necklace off right in front of both JT and Alexis (Ellie's mom).  Too funny!

By all accounts the girls had a blast, and Jenny was able to bring K home early after playing around on the farm and at the playground.  There were strawberries picked as well - Cora even did some picking! - and I'm happy to confirm that ice cream was consumed. :-)

Oh, and a BIG MOMENT today - I came home from my jog in the morning, and Cora wasn't in her chair.  And then Jenny said, "Daddy, I'm so glad you're here - we have a problem.  We've lost Cora."  And then, from under the table, I heard the sound of meowing.  That's right, sports fans - CORA IS NOW DOING THE RENEGADE KITTY IN THE HOUSE IN LIEU OF A DAUGHTER GAME.  NOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!  The humanity!!!!!!!!  Actually, truth be told it's pretty cute, as her "meow" is akin to a lion in the pride lands fighting off a pack of hyenas. :-)  Plus her smile is a mile wide while she's doing it.

Cora is taking another page out of her sister's book as well - she's saying "Mommy, daddy watch!" on pretty much everything.  And while sometimes it's not terribly profound, watching her dance is absolutely priceless.  Most of the time it involves endless spinning (no idea how she stays upright?!?!?), but we also get the occasional bootie wiggle in there as well...which is nice. :-)

5/30 - Today was ANOTHER field trip for BPS (livin' the life, right?) - this time down to the Nature Museum and Freedom Park.   I got the sense that the farm was much more fun, but the girls still seemed to have a good time (even if the playground was apparently less than spectacular).  It's odd -they ended up not going to the playground at Freedom Park but instead went somewhere else.  Kaitlyn was LESS than impressed.

And speaking of Kaitlyn - she no longer wants to be known by ANY nickname.  Hoff, Goose, TT, Sneetch, Tater, you name it - all of these have gone the way of the dodo.  Oh well - it was nice while it lasted.  And it doesn't mean she won't come back around. :-)

5/31 - Today was movie and Pajama day at BPS, where the kindergarteners got to match Mulan and do Mix & Match popcorn.  Man - talk about cruising to the end of school!  It's like the best summer camp ever!  But honestly, they've worked so hard and learned so much this year, that they absolutely deserve it.  Plus I know that these moments are precious and the time is flying, so I want them to soak up every second of this.

On the Bear front, that girl is eating virtually NOTHING right now.  She is all about her carbs, but it takes WORK to get her to eat anything else - including delicious fruit!  We are also trying to get her to start spitting after brushing, but she's clearly not ready for that yet.  All she's doing at this point is eating the toothpaste as soon as it goes into her mouth.  But the good news - we are finally starting to see some foam in there when we brush (not her, but when WE take control), so I am hopeful it's just a matter of time.  The dentist said that it's not really a concern until they turn 4, so obviously we've got some time (and it does beg the question of why they insist we start trying so early?...but I digress...).

Oh, and gotta brag on my oldest - Jenny said that she CRUSHED IT at swimming tonight.  She said that she had tremendous form, and that during the circle swim she not only passed the girl in front of her but caught up to the NEXT person!  Way to go, kiddo!

So there you have it - an INCREDIBLE month in the books.  For my part, I have been without my laptop for the last week (we just added memory, and it's INCREDIBLY FAST!!!!!), and so I'm typing this on June 4 referencing a lot of notes and scrambling to remember everything that's transpired over the last 168 hours.  It's been quite the whirlwind, and typing at this speed leaves me with the feeling that I've missed something.  To that end, let me try and get some thoughts down:

1. I cannot BELIEVE Kaitlyn has one week left of kindergarten!  That has just gone TOO Fast, and man what a year of change.  She's leaned out, made lots of new friends, demonstrated she remembered how to swim, started chores, has deepened her faith, gutted out gymnastics and dance, and even learned to read!  I am so so so so proud of her and love the fact that we've started Daddy-daughter date night.

2. Cora has definitely arrived at the terrible 2's, and she's tough at the moment.  That being said, there are plenty of shining moments where her laugh is just incredible and makes me happy all over.  She definitely is more attached to Jenny than me, and I'm not sure how much of that is a function of personality or just the reality that I'm not around her as much as I was Kaitlyn.  In this period in K's life, I was working from home, had a much more flexible schedule (to be clear - I am NOT complaining about life right now, as it's still incredibly flexible - just in different ways), and did more pick up and drop off.  Hopefully I'll get back into some of that in the fall, but I do wonder if that is part of our struggle.  I am not part of the routine, don't know all the rules and rituals, and likely am a disrupter at the moment.  Pray for this guy!

Oh, and on that note - I can confirm that the "Rod of Love" is now out and waiting in most rooms of the house.  Watch this space!!! :-)

That's all the news that's fit to print.  Chat next month!

Love,

Sam and Jenny