Thursday, December 6, 2018

So many reasons to be Thankful - a blessed November

Family,

And a good afternoon to you from the Queen City - the Bull is now 41!  But this blog isn't about me, so let's get amongst it, eh?

11/1 - Since there was no school today, JT planned a ROCK STAR slate of activities.  It all kicked off about 10 AM at the Mallard Creek Rec Center, where my girls teamed up with Team McLaren for some playtime.  They pretty much had the place to themselves, and Jenny said they had a blast.  After that it was over to meet Megan Johnson and her crew for lunch at (where else?) CFA!  Again, it was a a good time filled with the playground, chicken strips, and ice cream.

It was then back home, where Abby came over for a play date until about 4 or so.  After that, Jenny went over to Lindsey's house to borrow some clothes (for our upcoming family photo shoot), and K and Cora played with the Williams clan for a bit.  Only later did I find out that at some point Cora was apparently on TOP OF THE PLAY STRUCTURE, which some girl we didn't know trying to "hand her over the side" to Ryann.  I mean...the last time she was over there, she tumbled down the stairs (luckily they have a split landing area).  Bear - just remember that none of this happened on daddy's watch! :-)

And speaking of Cora, she added "Ry Ry" (which counts!) and "new" to her vocabulary today.  I mean, it's multiple words a day at this point.  AWESOME!  Bring on Cora's two year appointment. :-)

11/2 - THE BULL IS FORTY-ONE!!!!!  HOLY MOLY!!!!!!!  But man, let me just say how GREAT a day and weekend it was, AND let me say how blessed and happy I am.  I have the three greatest gifts God could POSSIBLY give me - Jenny, Kaitlyn, and Cora.  I love our life, I love my job, I love being part of the Arrows team, I love our home, I love our cars, I love our city - Life is just SO GOOD.  THANK YOU, FATHER!!!!!!  There are just no words to express my gratitude to our Heavenly Father for everything that He's done for us.

As for the day itself, it started out AWESOME, as Jenny went to BPS for Kaitlyn's first ever parent/teacher conference.  It was 30 minutes, and it went GREAT.  Ms. Pate had TONS of great things to say about Kaitlyn, and her reading level was in the ROCK STAR status!  Everything was at grade level or better, which was thrilling to see.  Ms. Pate said that her phonetics (sounding out words) was really, really good.  Apparently they work on this a lot, and K nails it every time.  Where she gets frustrated is that she apparently also wants to spell it correctly and gets frustrated when she can't.  Ms. Pate has started writing the actual spelling on a post it note, and K is SUPER PROTECTIVE of those in the house (Cora ripped one once, and it was NOT ideal).  Now we understand the post-it notes!  Too funny.

K scored a "C" in reading, which at first we thought was not great.  However, when she explained it went from C to A, with C being the best (and not many kids were at that level), we were very, very happy!  Soon they are going to start breaking them up into different groups for reading, and K is going to be in the top group.  This is a blessing, and I am so thrilled.  THANK YOU, FATHER!

We did have a slight hiccup in the schedule, as bad weather (heavy, dark clouds) cancelled out family photo shoot.  However, that just meant that the girls got a good 90 minutes at DPK before hitting the second feature event of the day...THE FAMILY FLU SHOT!  Now to be clear - a few weeks ago, Jenny told K they were getting shots after pics.  Clearly she forgot, however, as upon learning where they were heading, she must have started BAWLING in fear.

When they arrived at the Peds, however, Kaitlyn rallied and was AWESOME.  She was super brave and volunteered to go first so Cora could see "how it was done."  And best of all - after the shot, K said, "Is that it?"  NO TEARS, BABY!!!!  Cora, however, did not fare as well.  In fact, she went BALLISTIC and apparently wouldn't stop crying.  But she did settle at nap time, and all was well.

After Cora woke up (and we added a new word today - "green!"  And yes, she actually can identify the color), I met them at Concord Mills for the promised reward post flu shot - COLD STONE!!!  We got a massive 4 scoop cup, which we then divvied out between us.  Cora even got some, and MAN was she all about it.  The second a taste hit her lips, she would start pointing and say "mo!"  But get this:  when she realized Jenny had the "Master Cup" from which we were receiving portions, Cora started pointing for Jenny to feed her...AND REFUSED TO TAKE ICE CREAM FROM ME!  I mean - IT'S FREE ICE CREAM!  I AM HANDING YOU ICE CREAM!!!! That girl...good think she's so darn cute...

The girls then headed over to the aquarium, and I drove over to Primal for some birthday growlers. :-)
When I got home, I was welcomed by a big "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" from my girls...including the CUTEST homemade card from Kaitlyn!  I had super sweet cards and wonderful presents from dad, mom, and Jenny.  Talk about a great night!

I went to bed that night with a full heart and a full tummy.  Talk about an AWESOME birthday - THANK YOU, FATHER!!!!!

11/3 - Team Taylor sure made this one count!  I went for a 9 mile run (longest in awhile!), and Jenny went to NOMAD for a BIG moment - the final Childwatch for the girls!  They were the only two in there, so they got to play with everything they wanted (including the Dora kitchen that Cheryl donated).  We got some good farewell pics of that, and then I met the girls at the Famous Toastery for breakfast.  We got in quicker than expected, and they proceeded to SCARF down some grub!  Honestly, it was PERFECT - great meal, great coffee, the perfect seat for us, and the girls were really, really good about coloring and occupying themselves.  And get this - K's front, upper, right tooth is loose!  She's got 2 slightly loose teeth at this point - CRAZY!  I have to think the thumb sucking is playing a part, but I obviously don't know for sure.

Oh, and random side note - Cora can now climb into both her high chair AND her car seat in the Xterra!  It's pretty funny - when she decides it's time to eat, she says, "EEEEE!", walks over, climbs into the chair, and then clips herself in!  Now granted, sometimes she can't make it happen, but more often than not she is successful at clipping herself in 100%.  We have tried the booster a few times, but she's just not ready for that, as she won't stay seated.  She definitely still requires "containment."

After that, it was time for the featured event of the day - the final Nomad family swim.  We went and got about 50 minutes in the pool, leaving right as they closed.  It was honestly perfect - we got time in both pools, and Kaitlyn really swam like a rock star.  It was almost as if she wanted to show that place how much she'd learned and how much she'd improved, as she did SEVERAL laps, most of them proper free style vs. just doggy paddle.  We had some good laughs, did the shimmy, and even each did a "final 50" to say goodbye to the place that has seen at least one member of this family almost every day for the last three years.

Cora was great as well.  She loved playing on the ramp, jumped into both the cold pool and the warm pool, and being towed around.  We got some great photos, and I left with a happy, full heart.  It really was a little sad to walk out of there with the family a final time - so many great memories!  But hey - things change, and sometimes you just have to make choices and moves.  All the best to you, Nomad - and especially to the wonderful folks who work there and who we've interacted with over the years. God bless you all.

11/4 - So today was a HUGE day for Sammy the Bull - the fulfillment of a dream!  Today I got my first chance ever to be "on the platform" at Freedom House, speaking to the Arrows class about cooperation.  Pastor Michael not only let me do the Open and the Message, but he also let Kaitlyn be in there!  She did melt down at point point during the music (a girl inadvertently stepped on her toe, and then I didn't give her the attention she wanted during worship time), actually standing behind me and holding my shirt while she sobbed.  It occurred to me in that moment that I'd never really explained to her that, when teaching, daddy has to put the needs of the class and the Word of God first, so I rectified that one the drive home. She was really good during the message - incredibly well behaved, in fact - AND she got a total of 9 tokens across 2 services!  She got 3 in the Arrows class for correctly identifying the tent I taught about - "Dada - it's called the Tabernacle."  Too cute!

Now for some reason, K spent all weekend wearing cheap sunglasses that had NO LENSES in them. She even wore them to church!  But hey - gotta pick your battles, and if she was happy, who was I to argue? :-)

Kaitlyn and Jenny then went to Abby's birthday party at...a skating rink!  Now I wasn't there (just got the text updates and saw the pictures), but it must have started out ROUGH.  Apparently K went into absolute MELTDOWN when she fell and couldn't master it instantly.  There must have been many fits of tears, but Jenny said that it was really amazing how quickly she caught on!  K was frustrated because she didn't dominate it, but we just had to explain that it was like reading, gymnastics, or anything else - it just takes time and practice.

On the Cora front, we had a MEGA BREAKTHROUGH today, as she finally verbalized "PLEASE!" We were in shock as we heard it!  Now granted, she also did the motion, but she absolutely said it!

I had a blast with her while JT and K were at the rink.  The highlight was changing the laundry to the dryer.  Cora wanted to help (she's actually really good about that and really does want to help...or at least be in the action), so I took the laundry out one piece at a time and handed it to her.  She would announce who's article of clothing it was, after which time she would put it in.  And then, once we were done, she slammed that dryer door for all it was worth (but got SUPER mad when I adjusted the temperature and time for some reason.

11/5 - Today was my farewell run at Nomad (I really thank God for it, as it only happened because of a slight drizzle), and I got the chance to say bye to Alma (she's been so sweet to us over the years).  She was shocked (and really heartbroken!), and she even came out and gave me a hug.  She said, "They will sure miss K and Cora."  That is true.

But when a door closes, a window opens, and today we joined the Y!  We got a GREAT deal, and the primary facility that we joined is incredible - so excited!  Jenny did her first workout as a member, and Cora ran right into the child watch area without any trepidation.  Yay!

Gymnastics was good, but K peed her pants.  She said that she refused to go to the bathroom because the door sticks and she's gotten stuck in there before.  My concern is that it feels like this has been happening with increasing frequency lately, and so Jenny and I agreed we're just gonna need to monitor it and ensure she's emptying her bladder regularly (certainly before practice).  Never a dull moment!

11/6 - Today was fun for JT and Cora, as it was Jenny's Life Group.  They went to Imaginon, and they FINALLY got to take the train (JT sent me a super cute picture of Cora looking out the window).  Oh, and Cora is definitely say "Dipe Dipe!" now - I am so proud.  Oh, and Jenny got her hair into the biggest whale spout EVER today - it looked like a fountain of hair!

Kaitlyn had a good day at school (did I mention the playground equipment is finally open for use!  HOORAY!!!!), and she got to play at Kate's for about 2 hours after school.  The one catch - Kaitlyn somehow pooped in her panties!  It was pretty gross, and I arrived to find her and Kate running around in shirts and panties.  Luckily the rest of the house was fully clothed. :-)

Apparently she tried to make it to the bathroom, but it hit her too fast, and a bit came out.  Again - we'll just watch it for now.  Hopefully THAT'S not a trend!  Oh, and K has started giving Jenny and I massages - it's hilarious!  My night is Tuesday.  Jenny's night is Thursday (K's is Friday).  I get a little back scratch, head rub, and squeeze on the arms.

11/7 - Today was a big day for K:  First ever hot lunch!  The featured meal - Jason's Deli Mac 'n Cheese.  Kaitlyn did confirm it was "the best" mac 'n cheese she'd ever had - it's just there wasn't enough of it. :-)  It also probably could have been a little hotter, as it was just warm by the time the kids got it.  Jenny had noticed this as well, but in defense of the schedule - it does give it time to cool down so the kids don't get burned.  Plus kindergarten eats fairly early anyway, so they wouldn't really want it much before that anyway.

EDITOR'S NOTE:  11/8-11/12, this guy was in South Florida for Outlaw Weekend.  Consequently the thread in that window will likely be a bit shorter and choppy, as a) I got most of my info via FaceTime and texts, and b) when you are this far behind on the blog, you try to pound it out and catch up as quickly as possible. :-)

11/9 - Today was Hawthorne's pizza day at BPS.  That's right, sports fans - hot lunch twice in a week (with a Lunchable in between)!  We are migrating to "Lunchable" Thursday, which means one less sandwich to prepare (#JACKPOT).  K did tell Jenny last week that she didn't want any more PBJ, so it sounds like we're gonna give meat a try next week.  Watch this space!

Oh, and in other news - two MEGA PACKAGES arrived from Vol Nana this week...FILLED with cat paraphernalia.  The kicker - Mom didn't mean to send them here, as they were for Christmas!  But the good news - JT didn't show any of it to K, so we were in the clear.

11/10 - JT hosted a shower for Auntie Megan today, and so Nole Nana watched the girls.  Jenny did get home in time to take the girls to church, where she said Mike Griffin laid it DOWN!  It was another late night (Saturday service always goes long - this one went until after 7 again!), so the girls got some cheese toast and managed to escape bath time. Lucky little ladies...

11/11 - The girls spent a good chunk of time with Auntie Jen (from Texas today), kicking things off at the Original Pancake House down by our old place!  K got the children's Chocolate Chip pancakes, and they looked like the STUFF OF LEGENDS.  K absolutely loved it -said they were the best pancakes ever.  She LOVED that place.  IHOP - you have been served fair warning:  UP YOUR GAME.

After breakfast, the girls went by the old condo to see "where it all began."  They took some cute photos outside of the place (and by the dumpster, which K said was "stinky, stinky") before running Jen to the airport.  Jenny said that K shed quite a few tears, as she loved hanging out with Webb and was sad she didn't get to see her more (Webb had a lot of folks to visit plus the shower, so most nights K didn't see her in the evenings).  But they had a fun Sunday, and Webb did get to tuck her into bed one night (after reading a chapter of "Purrmaids," which they have now finished!  I only got to read 2 or 3 chapters, so hopefully she'll want to read it again so I can get in on the action. :-)

Jenny was great about sending me photos all weekend, and I must say - the girls look SO GROWN UP!  It feels like they grow a foot every time I'm gone.  K is now putting her hair back with a clip on one side, and she looks absolutely BEAUTIFUL (and so grown up!).  Bear's hear is getting really long as well and still a gorgeous blonde.  She looked SO PRETTY in all her photos (and was sporting a big smile each time!).

11/12 - No school at BPS today, so JT took K to the dentist.  She absolutely CRUSHED it, and Cora was really well behaved as well.  RE-SULT! :-)  But get this - one of Kaitlyn's six year molars has already started to come in!  I mean, full disclosure here - I didn't actually know that "was a thing."  Apparently there are 12 year molars as well, but the crazy part about all of it - Kaitlyn has never once complained about this tooth that has now completely broken through, nor has she ever mentioned/complained about the other one which is on the verge.  Man, they are growing up!

After that it was over to the Cabarrus Y (our new home gym!), where Jenny and the girls swam with Lindsey and the Williams crew.  The big water slide wasn't available due to water aerobics, but the kids still got a good 35-40 minutes of swimming in.  And the best part - K and Ry both passed their swim test!  This was really cool - they had to swim a bit and then tread water for 30 seconds.  Since they passed, they were given reusable green wrist bands they can wear while in the water.  As long as they have those on, they are free to swim without adults being directly beside them (and once they're 10 they can actually swim on their own - how cool is that?)

Kate came over in the afternoon, and the girls got on like a house on fire.  Seriously - it is amazing how GREAT they play together, and even crazier that they've known each other for three years!

The highlight was at gymnastics, where Kaitlyn received...wait for it...wait for it...A CERTIFICATE FOR ACHIEVEMENT FOR DOING A BACKWARD ROLL WITHOUT ASSISTANCE!!!!!  That was great news and very much bolstered her spirits, as two weeks ago she'd announced to Jenny that she "wanted to take a break."  We weren't sure where that came from (as she's really starting to improve in strength, flexibility, and capability - plus she practices at the house ALL THE TIME), but during tonight's practice one of the dad's said that there was apparently a bit of a meltdown at some point during practice.  We weren't there (it was Megan's week to take the girls), but at one point the dad heard Mr. Frank say, "Kaitlyn, I can't help you if you're crying!"  Obviously you never want to hear that she was upset, but that is part of being coached.  I don't love how they press down on the girls while they are doing splits either, but what I will say - it is AMAZING how good her split is now - she is basically to the floor!

11/13 - I FINALLY SAW MY GIRLS AGAIN!!!!!!!  My goodness they look like 21 and 17 - INCREDIBLE!  I cannot believe how pretty they looked, and I could tell they were happy to see me. Honestly, they are playing SO GREAT together right now.  After dinner every night, they go and play on their seats, treating them like jungle gyms and sliding down them.  Kaitlyn is even picking Cora up now and placing her on her seat so she can slide down it - too cute!  They laugh together, play together, and most importantly - really seem to have fun together.  Now don't get me wrong, when toys are involved, it's a different story sometimes!  Case in point - tonight in the bath Kaitlyn tried to take something back from Cora.  She swung it away and said, "MY!"  She's starting to fight back!  Too cute.

Also, Cora walked up the stairs today on her own!  Obviously Jenny was behind her and she was holding onto the wall, but she did it!  And then at night, She and Kaitlyn walked up the stairs together holding hands.  I mean, it was just about the cutest thing ever...

11/14 - Now that I'm going to the gym in the morning and showering there, I'm only seeing my girls in the evening.  While I was a bit concerned about that at first, I am actually loving it, as I think it's making all of us appreciate the time so much more.  I feel like our conversation is better, the laughs are easier, and we just seem to really make those 2+ hours count.  Sure, they are filled with plenty of tasks.  However, I definitely think it's making me a more focused parent.

The day actually started scary, as I received a text about 10 AM that said in all caps:  "LOCK DOWN DRILL AT BPS."  Now give them credit - it was just a test, and they communicated that right below the main title.  However, seeing it did rattle me a bit.  Truthfully, it bothered me more than I expected, as all the myriad scenarios that could run through my mind did.  Police was on-site, they tested the communication system, and they simulated a live drill.  When K got home, she told us about it - they simulated a convict escaping into the woods behind the school, and the school was on lockdown in the rooms while the police searched for the suspect.  K detailed what the teacher said, where they hid, what they did with the blinds and windows, etc.  It was very interesting (albeit a bit scary).

But the better news - K received a special honor at school today!  It was such a big deal that Ms. Pate even emailed us.  Here's the deal - Kaitlyn became THE FIRST kid in class to receive 20 punches in her "Good Choices" card, meaning that she got to pick a coupon as a reward!  Her selected coupon was to bring a cuddly friend to school, which I thought was very cute.  We were SO PROUD OF HER!  Ms. Pate called her to the front of the class for the special announcement - LOVE IT!

Honestly, as a parent - what more can you ask for?  Ms. Pate said that she "is always showing what it means to be a kind, helpful, and respectful friend.  You should be oh so proud of her."  YAY!

Also, Cora is absolutely saying "Yes" these days (Well, it's "yea' in most cases, but it clearly means in the affirmative).  She is definitely fighting a cold, but she's still sleeping good (napped from 12:45-4 today!).  What is crazy - she LOVES the saline spray in her nose, but when she sees the snot sucker, she starts waving her hand and says "No!"  And she loves the vapor rub, but she takes some and then sticks it in her nose!  I mean, that should loosen up the sinuses...

11/15 - Kaitlyn promptly redeemed her coupon today!  She chose to bring two cuddly friends, which she got to take with her to lunch, to PE, to the playground - you name it.  She was happier than a pig in mud.

Jenny and Cora went over to a new friends house - Mace - where they had a play date & lunch.  They must have had a great time, and Cora dosed in the car (but really no time at all at home).

After school, the girls played great for a bit.  K complained twice about "pain while breathing," so we took her over to Ashley's for a checkup.  The good news - Cora has no fluid in either ear, and the right tube in Kaitlyn's ear is OUT!!!!  WOW!

Jenny had a service event tonight, which meant that I got to put both the girls to bed.  Cora was cute as can be, as she is ALL ABOUT blankets right now.  She will just lay on them and say, "Night, night!" and then she'll tuck Ri-Ri in with them.  She wants to take a blanket to bed, but we compromised by letting her cover both her and Ri-Ri with one while I read to her.  She barely made a peep after I put her down, and as I was lowering her into the crib, she said, "Bye!"  Too cute.

For Kaitlyn, she was adorable - she was watching 101 Dalmations, and I loved hearing her laugh as the puppies tried to escape.  We read, snuggled, and sang, and I even gave her a "massage."  It's hilarious, as she gets so tickled any time you try and rub anything - she was cackling when I did her lower back and toes.  Too cute!

11/16 - So I am going to give BPS some more props, as K is really learning a ton right now!  They have moved up to two sight words a week, and she is definitely starting to recognize them quicker.  They are also ramping up the math instruction, as she can now identify even numbers vs. odd numbers and is becoming quite adept at counting.  The worksheets she brings home are quite impressive.  And a pleasant surprise given who her father is - her handwriting is really pretty darn good!  She brings home these sheets where she has tried to spell a word phonetically and then correctly, and the writing is very legible.  Progress!!!

They are also continuing to do really neat art work, including finger painting, water colors, pottery, and other mediums.  They got to do the "Turkey in Disguise" with their House Buddies on this day, and they had to "hide the turkey" so he could be the hero of the feast vs. the meal - cute!

They are learning Namaste in yoga, and their emotion of the week is empathy.  They also read a book called "The Relatives came," and K loved it.  She got to draw a picture of what it was like when relatives come over, and she had the car, the grandparents - the works!  It was cute.  Also, K also proudly displayed her "Thankful Turkey" to us this evening, with each of the four tail feathers representing something she was thankful for.  The winners:

1. Ms. Pate and Ms. Hong
2. God
3. Pets (which she doesn't have)
4. Friends

I mean...pretty cute, right?

And speaking of learning quickly, there is no denying that the pistons are firing for Cora bear.  She has a very keen interest in puzzles right now, and she is really doing a GREAT job getting them into the right slots.  It's fascinating to watch her in action, and it will occupy her FOREVER!  Again - so crazy how different she and K were at that age.  Both loved puzzles, but Cora does not want any help at all - she is all about figuring it out on her own.


After dinner that night, the girls had a BLAST helping me rehearse for church on Sunday.  I was doing my normal welcome "Gooooooood morning, Arrows 10:30 service!"  They were screaming and cackling, and then we were each taking turns being the emcee.  Cora even had the arm motion down!  And speaking of the Bear in motion, she is now dancing like a wild woman all the time and is even jumping!  Admittedly, it's a .5 inch vertical, but still - there was clearance there!

11/17 - K was up at 6:10, and she crept downstairs as requested since we were letting JT sleep.  I got some GREAT cuddle time in, and then it was prepping for an EPIC day - babysitting Team McLaren!

The girls showed up about 8:45, and JT was out the door with them 20 minutes later, headed to see the new Grinch movie (which was apparently very good).  Bear was with me (#nothappy), and she did NOT like being checked into the Playhouse at the Y while I went for a swim.  But we did rally, and she was happy as a clam when we hit Target for some shopping.

The girls hit Dollar Tree for some Christmas decos after the movie, and then it was home for a really fun filled afternoon.  We played outside for a good bit, and the highlight for Fiona and Alison was DEFINITELY when I introduced them to the Wii - too funny!!!!  They were in hog heaven and played for over an hour!

The girls decorated our old tree (now in its 15th Christmas!), and we set out a boat load of Christmas decorations.  We decided to hold off on our tree until Sunday (so we could do it as a family), but the girls had PLENTY to keep them busy.  They actually gave out before all the ornaments were on!

Cora loved having them here, and they all played really, really well together!  Bear can now successfully identify red and yellow, which is pretty darn amazing considering that we've never taught her a single color.  And did I mention that Jenny has her sitting cross-cross apple sauce on command?  AMAZING!  Bear is certainly stringing more thoughts together, and she's doing a better job of articulating what she wants you to focus on.  It's still just 1 word sentences, but I have a feeling the explosion is set to commence any day now.

11/18 - We took the whole gang to church today, and it went really great!  We had some emotions (aka meltdown) to deal with before leaving the house (K was mental because she didn't get to use the blue remote on the Wii), and we had 2 other meltdowns at church (a missing token, couldn't get the candy she wanted...I mean... dude, it was a LOT to deal with).  A lot of it started with the fact that the girls were up at 5:39 and didn't sleep great during the night (we heard footsteps at one point), but the bigger issue - when K doesn't sleep, it REALLY affects her.  WOW.

The afternoon was good - we just took it easy, watched some football, decorated the house, and put ornaments on our new tree!  It looks great!  K even got some hot chocolate, so all was right with the world. :-)

We got the girls in bed reasonably early that night - Team Taylor was exhausted!

11/19 - So today must have been a meltdown for the ages on Regal Court.  I was at work, but apparently Kaitlyn was a pill beyond measure who just refused to cooperate or do anything.  She told us that she had the worst family ever, that mommy wasn't a good mommy...you get the gist...anyhoo...

Eventually Jenny asked K to do something, and she refused.  That cost K two days of screen time (good job, wife muffin).  She then asked K to do something else, which she refused.  Jenny played it perfectly:  "I am setting the timer (didn't tell K for how long) - if it goes off before it's done, I am throwing away some of your Halloween candy."  Sure enough, K didn't move, but you should have seen the look on her face when JT dumped some candy into the trash.  Needless to say K moved a bit quicker after that.

Before gymnastics, K went crazy again, saying she wanted to take a break, didn't want to ride with anyone but mommy, etc.  Jenny said it was just insane and uncontrollable, but as expected she was fine during practice and had a good time (her bridge is getting really strong).  I think she's still just super exhausted from the weekend, but MAN - she must have been tough.  Sorry, Muffin!

But the big news - after I left the room tonight, she APOLOGIZED TO JENNY.  This was the first time EVER it has legitimately happened unprompted, and JT was shocked!  I am proud of her - let's just hope it doesn't happen again at that level anytime soon.

11/20 - New words for Bear!  She has added "block" and "ready!" to her repertoire.  She is also saying, "Yeah, Yo!", which I find just about the funniest thing ever.  Apparently she also loves playing with toy microwaves, and whenever they ding she starts clapping and laughing and says, "Yay!" before going to claim her newly "cooked" food item. :-)

Her hair is just too cute right now - it is a stylish pixie cut that I absolutely love.  JT is still putting it in the whale spout, but at this point it's so big that it almost forms another set of bangs!  Jenny has had to move the location of the spout, and I am finding it tough to remove the thing before bath without ripping some of the poor child's hair out.  Time for clips, I say!

Today was pretty chill, and I didn't even see the gals since I was out with Matt.  JT said that K was in much better spirits and that the evening was uneventful - great news on that front!

11/21 - Team Taylor drove to Raleigh today for Thanksgiving, leaving about 1:15 and arriving about 4 PM.  Bear didn't nap, but she really wasn't all that fussy.  If anything, she was pretty switched on and attentive.  Jenny and I forgot to download anything new to Netflix, and so when we logged in and saw that everything had expired, we expected a meltdown of Three Mile Island proportions.  However, when K saw there were games on the iPad still, she seemed plenty content.  WHEW.... Bear even got in on the action, laughing whenever certain characters on the screen giggled.  You can tell that Bear is starting to notice the television and become interested in it, which I will confess I'm not upset about. She's almost two, so truthfully this is right about the time she should show interest.  And while she really does a GREAT job of entertaining herself, it will be nice to have that other "babysitter" option should we need it.

Dinner that night was CFA, and K was in Heaven pretty much from start to finish.  She and James played SO WELL together - running around, laughing, and just generally having a great time.  It's interesting to watch, as James wants to do everything Kaitlyn wants to do - so cute to see her in the "older cousin" role vs. watching someone else for cues (like when she's with Sam).  We got her and James down around 8:30, with Cora going down just a bit before.  Bear did NOT like being pulled away from the toys while the other kids were playing!  Her screams when I put her in the pack n play were just about as loud and angry as I'd ever heard.

Oh, and bear is all about music during bath, but she DEMANDS Kenny Chesney - specifically, "All the Pretty Girls."  And not just once - that girl wants it on repeat.  And if you try to change the song (even to another KC song), she will say, "No!  Mo...." (and do the hand motion).  I mean....pretty cute...

Cora did cough an awful lot this evening.  She was in the loft outside our bedroom, and I heard her coughing consistently from about 3-3:40.  I closed the door so I could sleep, but I heard her again a little after 5 when I got up for quiet time.  I am fighting a slight cough as well, and both Jenny and I have pretty ragged throats.  That being said, we're going to try and soldier on!

11/22 - HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!!!!  Man, what a fun day it was.  Lunch (and dinner via the leftover route) were catered by Whole Foods, and we ate like KINGS!  The weather was cold but clear, and I got a great run in before lunch.  We spent most of the day inside, but K did get out for a walk with me and Jenny, where she spent a good 10-15 minutes running around in a pile of leaves that had been blown onto the street.

The cousins really played great together, splitting time between Monster Trucks (a TV show), magnetic tiles, ice cream, pumpkin pie, apple pie, loads of other food, football, and gifts from Nole Nana and Grandpa (a car and a basketball from the Corvette factory in Louisville).  The three season room was just perfect - fire, big TV, comfy seats...life was guuuuuuuuuuuud.  Everyone got on well, and it was really cute to see the kids playing together.

11/23 - Most of the gang went to the Raleigh Science Museum today, where they spent over 2 hours and had a blast!  The place must have been huge, and it sounds like they didn't even get to the second building!  JT took some really cute shots, and K came back raving about it.  I'm so glad they had an indoor activity, as it was FREEZING.  I was able to get a workout in at the Y, which I am SO THANKFUL for, as I would NOT have wanted to run outside in that weather (probably right at freezing with the wind chill).

We hung out in the afternoon, and the kids were great about playing and occupying themselves.  All of them (and us) were coughing, and it was clear no one was at 100%.  That being said, everyone was in good spirits, and we crashed hard that night.  I slept the best I'd slept in a while - JT said I was snoring when she came to bed!

Bear did a really good job of sleeping in the pack 'n play.  She screamed louder and harder than normal each time I put her down, but with each night she fell asleep quicker and quicker.  She also commandeered 2 "ri ri's" from James, bringing her total to 5 in that pack 'n play.  I absolutely loved that quiet window snuggling with her each night before putting her down - I can feel the end coming, and I want to savor every second of it.

11/24 - Team Taylor drove home early today, arriving back about 1 in the afternoon.  The kids seem SO HAPPY to be back home with their toys, and they have played by themselves together pretty much since we arrived - so cute!  Cora took a solid 30 minutes taking clothes out of the laundry basket and then putting them back in.

Side note - given the weather (pouring and freezing and cloudy for tomorrow), we have cancelled fall family pics.  Given that we've already done our Christmas cards (THANKS, JT!!!), some of the urgency around getting the pics is gone, and we didn't want to chance getting the girls sick - especially with me heading to MSP tomorrow.  Jenny and I are coughing as well, and our "cute little family outfits" would NOT have made it long against a wind chill in the 30's.  Truthfully, that makes our life easier, as it will take some of the rush out of the day tomorrow (we'll hit church and then come home before I roll to the airport).

11/25 - Cora said "All done!" today!  It was super cute.  She's still doing the hand motions, but she's now added the verbal component!  It's a word a day and then some at this point - absolutely amazing to see the growth and development.  She can also now name all the colors in our outfits!  I have heard her say gray, black, pink, blue, green, and red.  Impressive!  Seriously - knowing the colors at this age?  That's pretty cool, right?

The day was going really well out of the gate, and we even made time for some family photos at Church.  We ended up cancelling pictures (which was a good thing, because K slept THIRTEEN HOURS LAST NIGHT!), but we dressed in the planned outfits and asked Lindsey to take a pick for us.  She has the new iPhone, and the pictures were INCREDIBLE!  Seriously - we may have her do our spring shoot with just her camera - they were fantastic!

The one hiccup - Jenny and Lindsey's purses were side by side, and I accidentally put my phone in L-Dub's purse vs. JT's.  Consequently, I thought I'd lost my phone.  Now normally I wouldn't freak out, but I was leaving for the airport in THIRTY MINUTES, and needless to say that phone was more than a little critical to my success. :-)  I didn't scream, but I was clearly rattled, and it really scared poor Kaitlyn.  When I parked the car and went running off, everything was fine (I went into the church, looked around the outside, etc). However, when I came back in, I noticed that K had been bawling and had just now composed herself.  When I asked her later on if I had scared her, she just hugged me and nodded.  Poor thing had never seen my like that before, and it really rattled her.

I had to head to the airport right after that, which was obviously less than ideal.  But the good news - JT trotted out some candy from the Halloween stash, and soon Dada was a distant memory. :-)

11/29 - I got back from MSP late last night, which meant that I missed tucking both girls in.  I did at least get to face time with them a bit, which was good.  Also, I left early this morning, which means I missed them again!  But we finally got to have dinner and bath time tonight, and it was SO GREAT to be back with my ladies!  They are growing up so fast and are SO BIG!  Cora was much happier to see me than K, who gave me a thumbs down, and X to my face, and basically tried to avoid me as much as possible.  Good times... :-)

Poor Cora is coughing a lot, and she didn't really nap today due to the coughing.  Ashley checked her ears for us, and one of them does have a little fluid.  We're all fighting something, so we are gonna give it just a few more days and see if it rectifies itself.  If not, we'll obviously get her to the Peds and get the little girl feeling better.

11/30 - And so ends November!  The day was really good, and it was just so nice to have some focused time with my ladies.  We played Monster (K was so excited she laid out my 6 piece outfit for the occasion), I got to read to the girls (Cora was all about Linus, Gladys, and Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus - they actually both wanted them separately at night!

Cora is now running a fever just north of 100, and this morning she was really struggling to breathe.  She woke up about 5:30, and I actually got her and brought her downstairs with me.  She tried to lay on my and sleep, but every time she got comfortable, she promptly exploding into coughing.  The good news - she went down without a peep tonight - poor little thing actually fell asleep while I was rocking her (which NEVER happens).

Kaitlyn has been a bit of a pistol lately, and she's very "anti-daddy" at the moment.  The reason (she told JT) is because "daddy's a boy and I don't like boys."  She spends a lot of time telling me to stop talking, giving me a thumbs down, and making an X when looking at me, followed by a heart when looking at mommy.  Good times... :-)

So there you have it - November in the books.  But before I close this month, a note from the author.  I love this blog - it is truly a labor of love - but I fear it's starting to take away from some of my family time - especially with Jenny.  When I wasn't as busy in my previous job and working at home, it was less of an issue.  Now, however, my time at home is incredibly precious (really 1-2 hours per night tops, and sometimes less with other to-do's), and so I am thinking I'll finish volume 6 strong and then dramatically scale back the amount of time I spent on future volumes.  It pains me to type that, but I have to prioritize better, and so this is something that has to fall down in the pecking order.

For now, however, we are cooking with gas, baby!  Chat with you in December!

Love,

Sam and Jenny

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

Trick or Treat! Team Taylor has an AWESOME October...


Family,

And a good evening to you from the Queen City.  Another EPIC month for Team Taylor is in the books, so let's get amongst it, shall we?
10/1 - I woke up today to find Kaitlyn dressed and already in bed with Vol Nana (I wasn't feeling great and therefore slept in).  Kaitlyn was about 2 inches away from her all morning, knowing that the inevitable was coming.  Cora was stalking Mom as well, doing her gallop to catch up with her.  At one point when Mom was holding Cora, Kaitlyn came over to hug her as well.  Cora noticed K and pushed her away - too cute!  

Ultimately the moment we all dreaded came, and we put K in the car.  She was really, really, REALLY brave and tried so hard to hold back the tears.  She is getting better about containing her emotions, but at some point the dam always bursts, and today was no exception.  She cried about 20 minutes (all the way to school and with the poor Burch children in the car the whole time), but she was better by the time the school day kicked off.  

The day was really good all around.  JT and Cora had a good day (a proper return to normalcy), and K had fun both at school and at gymnastics.  The highlight of the day for me came that evening, when something truly unexpected happened - KAITLYN READ BOOKS TO ME!!!!!!  

So apparently Jenny had already seen this, but I hadn't.  She'd mentioned something about K wanting to read a lot while I was in MSP, but I thought she just meant K wanted to practice.  Well, she is now reading to me!  Seriously - she cut through 3 books tonight with very limited help.  AMAZING!  SO PROUD!

Oh, and a classic moment at dinner.  I served the girls the last of the Bob Evans Mac 'n Cheese that Mom brought, and when Kaitlyn saw it she eyed me suspiciously.  She then said, "Dada - this is Vol Nana's mac 'n cheese.  How did you get it?"  I mean, kid - it's not the first time you've eaten leftovers.   Classic!

10/2 - Cora has added a word!  She now says, "night night" while you're putting lotion on her before bed.  She's also saying "bow" and pointing to bows on Minnie's head and/or Daisy's head, so that definitely counts.  Mom kept trying to give her credit for saying "blue" this past weekend, but considering that every color (and some tables) are "blue," I am not ready to sign off on that one just yet... :-)

Kaitlyn read EIGHT BOOKS TO ME TONIGHT - again with limited help.  She is doing really, really good.  The sight word for this week is "this," and her job this week is "backpack helper."  I am really having to work to get any information out of her about her day, but finally tonight we made some progress.

The evening was a lot of fun, running around and playing Monster.  Both JT and I were monsters, which meant we could actually catch her and tickle her into oblivion.  Cora loves running around after us as well, and that's fine until she drops a MEGA STEAMER like she did this evening, at which point chasing her around is taking your life into your own hands, as it's like running after an open sewer.  

Did I mention the thumb suck game?  Jenny isn't crazy about this one, but the gist is K starts sucking her thumb and I have to yank it out of her mouth, tickle her, and make her promise she won't do that anymore (rinse/repeat 4-5 times).  We only do it at night, and I do wish we had an alternative (meaning I wish she wasn't sucking her thumb so much).  That being said, she's only doing it for a bit at night until she falls asleep, and with 2 teeth missing up front, I don't really think she's jackifying her grill.  All the same, it would be AWESOME to drop this habit by summer.  Watch this space!
Cora and JT had a good day.  It was Jenny's Life Group today, and they met at North Meck Park (we are giving that place some LOVE these days!).  

Lastly, cutest moment - Kaitlyn took the pics from the Photo Booth down from the fridge today, hugged them, and then put them in her backpack so she would "have Vol Nana with her all day."

10/3 - Kaitlyn received special recognition from Ms. Pate today!  It was super cool - she walked in and presented mommy with an award from Ms. Pate that recognized Kaitlyn for being "on point the entire time" in Math Center.  K was proud, and of course we celebrated it.  Also, she read three books (which she hadn't seen before) to JT tonight - exciting!  You can tell that K is working hard, as she is mentally exhausted by the time it's over.

For me, it was a big night, as it was the Financial Plan review with our new financial planner.  This guy is GREAT, and he spent 2 hours with me working through our retirement goals and adjustments we needed to make to get on sound financial footing (including insurances).  The shocker - he projects that we'll need $377K all in to fully fund both girls going to a "Chapel Hill" type school.  CORA'S PORTION ALONE IS 202K!!!!!!  I was in shock.  Truly - my jaw was on the floor as I tried to process that.  And obviously some of that is progress with investments vs. straight cash, but I was SHOCKED.

10/4 - Kaitlyn had a special adventure this evening - sleepover at Kate's house!  That meant that Jenny and I had Cora alone in the house.  It was CRAZY - such a surreal experience, as it took us back to the days when there was just K in the house.  We had a blast.  For us, it was really fun to focus on Cora, and we spent the evening reading to her and playing music in her room while she danced for us (it was too funny).  You could tell that Cora was loving the attention as well, and she made quite the production out of running around the jack n jill route (stopping to give me a hug and a kiss each time, mind you!), smiling and laughing the whole time.  She is now saying "Hello" and "Bye Bye" when playing with the phone, and she demonstrated some real creativity tonight.  She was taking this little inflatable fish and pretending to bite us with it.  When we reacted, she would pretend it was swimming to someone else - rinse repeat (about 68 times).  I was cool to see, as it was the first time I'd really seen her come up with a creative game (vs. just bringing us things to hold or blocks/books to stack).

Now that we're into Fall, I definitely have some goals and things that I want to focus on for each girl. For Cora, I want to start potty training.  I know it feels a little early, but I honestly thing she's ready, and she seems to be showing interest in it.  Also, I want to work on more puzzles for Cora and more words.  Those last two will I think just be products of being in this house, but I do want to actively encourage both.

For K, I want to keep focusing on sight words and introducing new books - whether from the library or from book order purchases.  She is really enjoying it, and I want to keep kindling the fire of motivation to learn, read, and be independently creative.  Also, I definitely want to get her more comfortable riding a bike.  If we can ever get cooler weather (still in the 90s!), then I will get her down to the greenway.   Bed time was about 7:30 for Cora, and I was down at 8:12 (sick and still in recovery from MSP!).  Slept like a rock after some NyQuil - 12 hrs!

10/5 - Today was a big day for Team Taylor:  we got a new ride!!!!  And no, Katie did NOT go the way of the dodo (thank you very much).  Instead, we added a third car to have more space for the car pool, hauling stuff, etc.  Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you - THE 2003 NISSAN XTERRA!  Names are TBD at the moment - Rex, T-Rex, Tenaya, etc - we have a lot of options. :-)  Car drives GREAT, and I'm really, really happy with the purchase.  It's honestly perfect for our family.

JT did spin today with Cora bear, who fell asleep in the car on the drive down to Monroe (looked like an angel).  For Kaitlyn, we found out that she woke up at 3 AM, and her and Kate had to be separated at 3:45!  They apparently slept until 6:45, and all was good until they left the movie theater, at which point Kaitlyn apparently started sobbing uncontrollably and said, "I want my mommy!"  JT drove straight over to pick her up, and they are now at DPK as I type this.  Needless to say - early to bed for both girls tonight!!!

10/6 - Big day for Team Taylor - our first ever family outing in the Xterra (aka "Rex the X").  It was GREAT!  We drove over to Hodge Field Farms, as it was a) the quarterly FH Kids outing and b) our annual visit to a pumpkin patch - and Cora's first time ever!  We spent 2 hours there, and it was a blast.  We had a chance to see some friends (including classmates from Bradford), and the girls loved playing with the animals and running around the field.  There were plenty of activities, and Cora really enjoyed climbing on some carved logs over near the entrance.  Kaitlyn was all about climbing, running on, and jumping around the hay stacks near the animals - she was really getting some air!  And yes, we did manage to get some food - pancakes and a pair of sno cones, to be exact.  Cora had no interest in the pancakes, but she LOVED the sno cones!

The highlights:











After that it was home for lunch and Bear's nap.  Jenny took Kaitlyn on a WHIRLWIND of activity, including:

1. Haircut (at Kaitlyn's request, no less!):  They took at least 3 inches off, and her hair looks SO MUCH HEALTHIER NOW!  It looks AWESOME, is so much easier to manage, and still looks good in a pig tail.  Too cute!

2.  Aldi

3.  BJ's

4.  Publix

5.  HT

6.  Dollar store!  The goal here was two-fold.  First, they needed to get some supplies for the BPS school project, which is donating supplies to schools that were impacted by Florence.  Secondly, the girls had $10 set aside for the acquisition of Halloween decorations.  We have them scattered around the house now - they look really good!  Well done, ladies!  I mean, the motion sensor witch and ghost can be a little obnoxious, but that's what the kill switch is for.  The owl and the glowing eyes are a nice touch. :-)

7.  AC Moore:  Jenny went in here for some crafts, and while there K spent some of her chore money on a mash 'em and a splat ball (I didn't know what either of these things were before this moment).  The good news - she is enjoying them a lot.  The bad news - despite her mother's repeated warnings, she kept squeezing the splat ball too hard, and it now has a hole that leaks some substance that's kind of like water but you know doesn't exist in nature.  K walked up to JT BAWLING and showing it too her.  Jenny had warned her not to squeeze it so hard, and so she did a great job of sympathizing but being firm about the need to a) listen and b) take care of our things.  I must confess - I was heartbroken!  The ball was $3 - a week's allowance!  But it does still work pretty good, and she's obviously rallied since thing.  Crisis averted...but I may have to buy her one at some point in the not too distant future... :-)

Ashley brought the kids over about 4:30 (Zach was out of town), and we all had dinner together.  The kids played well together, and Ashley got some much needed adult time to bridge the gap until Zach got home that night.  All in all, a fun night!

10/7 - So today was awesome, largely because of the way it started.  After attending the 9 AM service, Jenny and I went to our respective FH Kids rooms to serve.  Jenny talked to Morgan, who let Kaitlyn come into Arrows with me to "watch daddy."  K got to see me do the opener AND got to see me be part of the actual message - it was SO COOL!!!!  She really enjoyed it, was super well behaved, was a great participant, and seemed to have a really good time (and clearly learned something, as she mentioned "contentment" - the theme of the month - later that evening).  We got to dance during worship together, play some four-square before service started, and just got the chance to be together in the house of God.  It was AWESOME - LOVED IT!!!

After service, Pastor Michael introduced himself to Kaitlyn, which was very sweet.  He also asked me to consider being a Lead Teacher - what an honor and a dream come true - PART OF THE TEACHING TEAM!!!!!  So I am going to look at the message for 2 weeks from now and see what I think I can do.  How exciting is that?!?!?!?!  It is an incredible blessing from God, and I absolutely want to make Him, Pastor Michael, and my family proud.  YAY!  Such a great morning!  Jenny and I also got the opportunity to be a Team Prayer for someone up front - first time that's ever happened (and it was very powerful).

The afternoon was good and lazy.  Nole Nana and Grandpa came by, and we spent the afternoon playing Monster, watching football, doing Earthquake, eating, playing "frisbee" with the top of a cotton candy tub, and teaching K how to jump rope.  It was a very, very good afternoon.

One thing I have to comment on here - Kaitlyn is doing an AMAZING JOB learning how to read.  Every night she is cutting through 3 or 4 books - often books she's never seen before.  She is doing a TREMENDOUS job sounding out words (and then remembering them), and every night you can tell that she is recognizing more and more words on sight - just INCREDIBLE.  So AWESOME.  THANK YOU, FATHER!!!!!  She is really interested and motivated - such an answered prayer and dream come true!

10/8 - Today has been a nice and lazy day.  I took the girls to NOMAD in the morning, where Kaitlyn informed me that she is now a fan of the songs "Havana" and "Feel It Still" (kids bop versions, of course).  She also said, "Dada, we heard 'feel me like a race horse," which the staff didn't understand but I knew to be Whatever It Takes by Imagine Dragons.  At least she didn't say "Whip me like a race horse," which is what she said last time - CLASSIC.

After running the golf course (it's still so hot outside!), we chilled indoors until gymnastics - and I got to take her and Elizabeth!  I was excited, as normally I don't get the chance to watch her in action, so this was a treat.  Plus they are really starting to work on stuff now, so it's something very cool to see - I love watching K try to stick landings!  They spent a lot of time on the beam and the floor tonight, and K managed her first ever walk-up handstand!  YAY!  She was thrilled - couldn't wait to show JT when she got home.

Two things to note about Cora bear that I find fascinating, as they are two of the few things her and Kaitlyn did similarly at her age:

1. When I'm rocking her to sleep at night and her head is on my shoulder, she likes to reach down with her right hand and grab one of my fingers (usually my pinky).  I love it - she just holds it and is happy as a clam.

2. The 12 little Mickey Board books - she can't get enough of them!  Seriously - that girl will just churn through them repeatedly.  The similarity, however, is in how fast they've learned to answer the questions (correctly, I might add) that I ask, even if I mix up the order (find this animal, where is X, etc).  It's really, really cool to watch those pistons firing!

Oh, and tonight K went next level at reading - while it took a long time and required JT to help with a lot of words, she read, "Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus!"  How awesome is that?

10/11 - Cora has added new words!  Tonight she pointed to the yo-yo in her book and said "Yo-yo!"  She's also added "door" to her vocabulary.  Best of all, she's starting to try and say things (and even repeat things when you ask her to).  It's all starting to click!  Really cool to see her in action.  She's definitely remembering things in books, such as "which is the tallest, largest, etc."  And when she reads "Little Excavator," she just about wets her pants with excitement whenever we get to the end and she sees the little doggie that plays with Little E.  Too funny.

Cora is now getting into her high chair by herself, and she's even clipping in sometimes!  Normally she still requires assistance, but more than once she's managed to secure both clips.  Very cool!  But what is not cool - keeping a bib on her has become IMPOSSIBLE.  Now it's just a simply decision - do we leave the shirt on and ruin it or feed her topless.  The latter has certainly been the preferred approach.  We've also started taking off her shorts for naps and just leaving them off when we're not venturing back out in the afternoon.  It's been pretty warm, and Cora seems to like the freedom.  Win, win!

One interesting thing this evening - after prayers tonight (and Cora saying "yay!", she immediately said "Night, Night."  When I asked her if she wanted to put her head on my shoulder, she said no.  When I asked if she wanted to go to her crib, she nodded.  JUST. LIKE. KAITLYN. That was crazy, as I remember K doing the exact same thing about this age.  And while it's AWESOME that she can articulate what she wants, it also means that the time and # of days I will rock her on my shoulder are dwindling.  So it goes...the inexorable march of time.

Oh, and the cutest thing - there is a little boy in K's class who is drawing pictures of her and giving them to her during art class!  He's done it more than once - so sweet.

10/12 - Granddaddy and Granny A arrived today!  The girls got a good 2+ hours of bonding with them, and it was GREAT.  Alice came in with a BOATLOAD of toys, and as you can expect, K was over the moon.  Cora ran right up to her and cuddled up with Granny A,which left Alice speechless.  She hadn't seen Cora in awhile, so she's missed her coming out of her shell!  It was super cute.

And speaking of Cora, I am now going to give her credit for "blue," as she is consistently pointing to that color and saying the word.  Jenny has mentioned that she's also saying the color "gray."  However, as she has yet to correctly identify the color, I am NOT giving her credit just yet.  But in that vein, this week she FINALLY started verbalizing the word "more" - HOLY MOLY!!!!  BREAKTHROUGH!!!!!!  She still does the sign while saying it at dinner, but she is definitely saying "more" as well.  Yay!  We are on the verge of a language EXPLOSION ladies and gentlemen.

The cutest moment of the night:  Kaitlyn brushed her teeth and was up with me, but she went downstairs while I put Cora to bed.  Well, she came back up and said, "Dada, I had a sour patch kid, but I didn't really eat it."  I was a little confused, and only later did I get the real story.  Granny A apparently had a hankering for something sweet and opened the sour patch kids.  Well, K came down and saw her, and Alice offered her one.  K said, "I can't - I've already brushed my teeth."  HOW CUTE IS THAT?!?!?!?  Alice kept trying to force her to take one, so she took a bite but then spit it out.  LOVE THAT KID!!!!

Oh, and proof that K hangs on my mom's every word.  Tonight at dinner she announced, "Vol Nana is going to come every six weeks."  I did correct her to say it was every 6-8 weeks, and we can cushion that since K has no concept of time just yet.  That being said, Mom - you are now on the clock. :-)  So cute...

10/13 - TALK ABOUT A DAY FOR THE AGES!!!!  After getting Jenny out the door for Authentic, we rolled over to the Sweet Spot for breakfast.  K had already had a chocolate croissant from Starbucks, so the chocolate milk and chocolate chip muffin were probably overkill. :-)  Cora (who was still all about Granny A!) didn't eat much...but she did enjoy my pancake and biscuit a lot more than the fruit pouches I brought for her. :-)

After that we drove (in the X, mind you, and it was AWESOME to have everyone in the same car FINALLY!!!) down to Elmwood Cemetery.  Alice had long wanted to look for an aunt buried here, and while it wasn't a successful search (there was no office on-site and no one picked up), we did have fun driving around and just looking at the tombstones (all 19,302 of them!).

Kaitlyn was pretty funny, as she asked the following questions:

1.  Are there skeletons here?
2.  When I die, will I be buried in a tomb?
3.  When I die and go to Heaven, will I be able to see everything?
4.  Are there skeletons in this cemetery (see why I don't want her to watch scary movies? :-))

As we were looking around, I made the statement at one point, "Sorry, Alice, nothing is jumping out at me," meaning "I don't see a headstone marked "Jones."  K thought I was talking about ghosts and skeletons, and she immediately said, "What do you mean jump out, dada!"  Priceless.  She even tried to pick the spots where the skeletons likely lived.

After that it was over to the Dollar tree to shop for Halloween decorations, and the girls were in HEAVEN.  Cora was ALL ABOUT running down the aisles and touching/eating everything, while Kaitlyn was just asking to buy everything not nailed to the ground.  We arrived home shortly thereafter, at which point Alice and Kaitlyn went FULL ON DECO MODE around the front of the house...AND DID AN INCREDIBLE JOB!  Seriously - you wouldn't BELIEVE how good the house looked when they were done.  We had skeletons hanging down, spider webs on the bushes, pumpkins out front, a projection light against the stoop, light up sticks for the walkway - it was AMAZING!  I was well and truly impressed.

Seriously - Granny A was INCREDIBLE throughout the entire day.  These girls went NONSTOP!  They carved two pumpkins, and then they pulled out all the seeds, cleaned them, baked them, covered them in garlic, pepper, and salt, and then ROASTED THEM.  Dude - they were SO GUUUUUUD!!!!  Seriously -we were SHOVELING them in all day.  And I should note - K really did a GREAT job on her pumpkin - she was focused and did some really good carving work (using a special tool - don't worry :-)).   Also, K was great about doing the decorations.  She is really starting to show some creativity and some skill for art.  She has loved coloring lately, but any medium seems to be fun for her at present, and she genuinely seems to have some aptitude.  Very exciting!

Oh the Cora front, the highlight with her was Alice placing her in a hatchimal costume.  ABSOLUTELY.  PRICELESS. AND.  HILARIOUS.  Incredible!!!  Cora was NOT happy about it - she refused to let me take a proper picture and kept burying her face in Alice's legs.  But the good news - she LOVED hanging out with Granny A and was content to sit on her lap or be held whenever Alice was interested.  Cute...

After grilling burgers and dogs, having cake and ice cream, finishing some moonshine, and having the great unveiling of the front of the house (house and flashing lights inside the pumpkins included), we went around back for what might well have been the highlight of K's weekend - our first ever fire in the fire pit!!!!!  Dad got it going, and Kaitlyn could NOT have been happier.  She LOVED sitting out there, and when it got dark, she wanted us to start telling ghost stories!  I wasn't very good, as every story I know involves an ax murderer or an evil ghost.  So when I tried a simpler story, K readily provided feedback:  "That wasn't very scary, Dada."  Cora was out there for some of it as well, and she was good about not going toward the fire.  The key was having a lap for her to sit in. :-)

Everybody crashed about 9 PM or so, and so Jenny and I went back out, had a few beers, and enjoyed the fire until a little after 11.  The weather was PERFECT - talk about a GREAT night!

The highlights:













10/14 - JT and I went to church this morning (FOR AN AWESOME SERVICE), and Dad & Alice took the girls to IHOP.  K had been begging to go for awhile, and so this worked out perfectly.  They had the smiley face pancake, had some chocolate milk, and had a really good time just hanging out.  Cora has been GREAT around Granny A and Granddaddy, just curling up with them and letting them hold her non-stop.  They left about 11:30 or so, and K watched a movie on TV before heading over to Kate's house for an impromptu play date!  They had 2 hours together, and Kaitlyn was SO EXCITED.  She even created a picture for Kate that said, "Kate I Love You Kaitlyn" and had stick figures wearing Meow Squad shirts to depict them.  The time obviously went super quick, but the good news is that they have several other play dates in the hopper.

Kaitlyn came home and said, "Dada, I want to watch 'The House With a Clock in Its Walls' because it's really creepy."  I mean - HOW DID SHE EVEN KNOW THIS MOVIE EXISTED!!!!  It's so funny - K is ALL ABOUT watching "scary" movies or Halloween movies right now because either a) her (older) friends are doing it or b) she hears about them from folks like Granny A.  Alice couldn't say enough about Hocus Pocus, and now K is desperate to watch it (Alice did record it on our DVR, so K knows we have access to it :-)).  We have heard mixed things, but consistently we are hearing "a kid should be 8 to watch this."  Given how freaked out K already is with skeletons, I am not yet on-side with her watching this.  Watch this space!

On the Cora front, that girl is ready for a language EXPLOSION!  Seriously - she is babbling so much, and you can tell she's trying to talk more.  She is genuinely trying to repeat whatever you say, and she is actively using more words these days.  Yay!

10/15 - PICTURE DAY AT BRADFORD!!!!!  Yes, Team Taylor did spring for the CD.  I mean, you only get one shot at first school pictures, and we weren't taking any changes.  The package will be 8 pics (4 poses, a color and BW of each).  Kaitlyn said it went well!  Also, she is the Station Spotter this week, which means she has to make sure all the stations in the room are clean.  Also, she switched tables and is now at Table 2.

Side note - she has been DESPERATE for a play date with a new friend named Abby.  Oddly enough, Abby's mom told us that she's been desperate for a play date with Kaitlyn.  Too cute!  So the current plan is for a Thursday play date.  New friends!  Watch this space!

Also, we got confirmation tonight that the playground is being installed at BPS.  YAY!!!!!  Can't wait to see it, and SO GLAD K will get to experience it.

Last thing on K - she woke up this morning complaining that she'd rolled her ankle at Kate's.  We gave her some ibuprofen (she was hopping around on one foot all morning), and she seemed fine after that.   It didn't seem to slow her down at gymnastics, and when she got home she showed us a) her splits and b) her new walkover.  It was AWESOME!  I mean, obviously she had to have a spotter (Jenny in this case), but she did a GREAT job.  Getting stronger!

On the Cora front, she was SO much happier today.  She wasn't nearly as snotty, and her face was happy again.  She definitely looked rough yesterday, but today she was as chipper as ever and full of energy.  She didn't nap today, and it's been odd to chart her sleeping habits as of late.  The nap has really been hit or miss, which is odd because we'd expect her to nap for another YEAR or so - that's the plan at least!  Now granted, most days she has a great nap.  The last couple of days, however, have really been hit or miss.  Some of it is likely illness, and some of it is definitely teething.  The good news - she is still sleeping like a ROCK STAR at night, which is the most important thing (for all of us!).

10/16 - Bradford continued the Spirit Days theme today with Breast Cancer Awareness Day.  All the kids were encouraged to wear a pink top.  It was really interesting, as K did ask about why she was wearing pink, what cancer was, who got it, what happened, etc.  It was fascinating to me, as it was the first time I'd ever really seen someone "become aware" because of the color.  We explained it as best we could, and she was truly interested (which I think speaks volumes to the importance of wearing those colors and raising awareness).

After dropping K at school, Jenny took Cora to the light rail to head Uptown for their planned playdate.  Well, as fate would have it, the light rail (for whatever reason) was closed and was NOT running uptown today.  Consequently, Jenny had to make the drive (suboptimal, but at least it wasn't rush hour).  The activity of the day was Imaginon, where Jenny was coordinating a playdate (her life group).  JT and Cora had about 2.5 hours there and really had a blast - I am looking forward to seeing that place at some point!

The afternoon was a blast for Jenny and the girls, as they went to CFA with the Burch clan!  K got some ice cream, and I even got a few nuggets.  Win-win. :-)

Oh, and a really cute Cora thing - within the last couple of weeks she's started taking our hands and leading us where she wants us to go.  It's been really cute - as she will latch on and literally DRAG you to her intended destination.  Getting her to let go premature is like trying to pry open the jaws of a T-Rex after it's found some meat!

Other side note - Jenny and I have decided that we need to start getting the girls upstairs for the bed time ritual sooner.  As we have expanded all the crazy things we do before bed - teeth, mouthwash and the gingerbread man run, potty, bath time, lotion, reading, the thumb suck game, prayer, tickle time, back scratch, lullaby (twinkle, twinkle little star), rocking/tucking in....I mean, it's exhausting to even type!  Add in the fact that K wants to try and read books that are WAY above her current level, and the time extends even further.  Now don't get me wrong - I LOVE the fact that she is working so hard at reading and really wants to practice and learn, but some changes we are realistically going to have to make:

1.  Uptime is going to be 6:15
2.  Reading option - Parents read 2 books or K can read 1
3.  Clothing must be selected for next day as soon as we go up

If we put those guard rails around the process, I think we'll be fine.  But then again, as I always say...WATCH THIS SPACE!  :-)

10/17 - Continuing in the Spirit Days theme, today was "Disney Day!"  All the teachers apparently dressed as Disney princesses (Ms. Pate was Belle).  Kaitlyn was interesting, as she didn't want to dress as ANY of the 14,567 princesses for which she has a gown.  Instead, she said "I want to be the Aristocats."  I mean...No. Words.

So here's what's so funny about that - last week Kaitlyn suddenly decided that she wanted to find and wear the cat costume Vol Nana bought for her while JT and I were in Colorado for Tait's wedding.  Well, for whatever reason, she couldn't find the tail that goes with it (most likely reason is that she didn't really look for it).  Well, this weekend Granny A helped her find a costume at the dollar store that included a tail (and face), and so Kaitlyn consolidated them and started wearing them on Saturday afternoon.  Since then her and the costume have basically been inseparable, which we think led to K needing to figure out which Disney character she could be and wear the cat costume.  When I asked her who the female cat is in the Aristocats, she had NO idea (it's Duchess, for the record - I looked it up).  Furthermore, Duchess is white as the driven snow, and Kaitlyn's costume was straight leopard print with pink frills.  HILARIOUS!!!  However, it's Kindy, people were in good spirits, and let's face it - pretty much anything goes.  Good times.

There was a funny moment on the drive apparently.  Jenny heard sniffling and first asked Taylee if she needed a tissue.  When she said it wasn't her, JT asked K.  When K said it wasn't her, Jenny asked Cora if she needed a tissue.  Jenny looked back to see the response, and poor Cora just broke down crying!  Poor thing!

Today was another first for JT - her first time volunteering at Bradford!  She was doing the hot lunch distribution, and she said it went well.  She was there about an hour (with Cora the whole time, who was actually quite good so long as she had snacks), but she didn't actually deliver the hot lunches to the rooms.  Well, when K came back in from recess (she'd already seen Jenny and waved),  she asked if the lunches had already been delivered.  When Ms. Pate said they had been, K apparently broke down crying!  She thought Jenny was going to deliver them so she could say bye, and she was quite distraught.  Luckily Ms. Pate walked her out of class and to the parking lot (Jenny was still there), at which point JT was able to give her a big hug and calm her down.  Crisis averted!

The reality - as the week wears on, K just becomes more and more exhausted.  She's well rested Monday and Tuesday, but by Wednesday she needs the alarm to wake her up.  Today after the alarm went off, she got up, turned it off, and crawled back in bed!

10/18 - Cora is adding words!  I came home tonight and watched Jenny ask her to identify a few body parts, and she went through eye, nose, and ear!  She's also saying "sky" - talk about meteoric progress and development!  She actually got soap in her eye last night, and while reading to her she continued rubbing it and saying, "eye."  It reminded me of when Kaitlyn got a hair in her eye once and said, "Eyeball, dada!  Eyeball!"

Cora also jumped for the first time ever tonight on the trampoline!  I got some video of it, and it was priceless.  She was bouncing up and down like a jack russell terrier - too cute!

For Kaitlyn, today was "Dress Like A Teacher" Day.  She looked cute as a button - really did look like a teacher (complete with eye glasses that had no lenses).  Pretty adorable.  After school she had a playdate with a new friend - Abby.  They go to Freedom House, and Jenny's had life group with her mom before.  She seemed sweet and was cute as a button, and I think they had fun.  Jenny said K tried to explain "sissy kitties" to her, but it fell on deaf ears.  I couldn't help but chuckle.

10/19 - Today kicked off a veritable vocabulary explosion for Bear.  He said "yo yo" in earnest, but the exciting moment was when I walked in from work, Jenny held up an Elmo doll, and said, "Cora, who is this?"  Bear looked at me with that sweet smile and said in that teeny little voice, "Elmo."  Too cute!  Of course, even that wasn't without drama, as apparently Jenny had told K she could raise the Elmo and ask her sister.  So when Jenny did it, Kaitlyn LOST IT.  But we did right the ship by dinner. :-)

Cora also did "one" (and raised one finger!) and "big" (with both arms flung wide like Little Quack in his opposites book).

K's sweetest moment came in the evening when I was tucking her in.  She said, "Dada, you have my heart."  And then when I finished reading to her, she said, "Can you read to me tomorrow night?  Because you have my heart."  WOW - considering most nights she thinks I'm chopped liver, I milked that for all it was worth. :-)

10/20 - Team Taylor braved some rain today and headed to the state line for a GREAT day at the Great Pumpkin Fest at Carowinds!  K was of course not very happy that we didn't stay for "Scarowinds" and kept asking how long it was until the real Scarowinds started.  Keep in mind this is a girl who is now afraid of Boo Blasters - can you IMAGINE taking her to the REAL Scarowinds?  We were in line at the first ride of the day (Flying Ace Aerial Chase, aka Kiddyhawk) when she boldly announced, "Dada, Scarowinds wouldn't bother me because I'm not afraid of clowns."  My response:  "Well these clowns have their teeth filed into points, have blood on their faces, and are walking around with chainsaws and knives."  She simply said, "What?"  I thought I had her stumped until she then proceeded to ask like 65 more questions about the weapons.  Oh child...you have no idea...

The day was great.  We had some bad weather, but the girls got to do lots of fun stuff as well as all the rides.  It wasn't terribly crowded, and we ended up spending 4+ hours there by the time it was all said and done.  A highlight for K was at the end.  We saw the huge mechanical troll that talked to the crowd, and K thought that was amazing.  She also got quite engaged with it, as after hearing about how the troll bit off someone's head, K screamed at him, "You're not a very nice person."  A little teenage girl said, "You tell him!", and K thought that was the coolest thing EVER.  Too cute.

The highlights:










A highlight for me was Cora's NEXT word.  We were in line for a ride, and Cora was staring at a girl beside us.  Suddenly she said, "Ariel" and pointed.  Sure enough - the little Mermaid was on that girl's shirt!  Awesome!

This really was a GREAT battery re-charging weekend for me.  I had been going flat out as of late, and for whatever reason I hadn't felt properly focused on or connected to the family unit.  Having dedicated time like this made a HUGE difference and was such a blast.  THANK YOU, FATHER!!!!!!

10/21 - Today was AWESOME and filled with activities!  K was in church for two services, but she made them count and racked up 6 tokens (which helped to secure a fun dip from the price hub).  She also got to lead the offering prayer in one service and collect the offering in the other.  After church, K and I headed to the Greenway during Cora's nap, and I'm pleased to announce that K CRUSHED IT.  We didn't ride as far this time (just 4 miles), but she was much more aggressive on both the uphills and the downhills - that was so exciting to see!

We then headed over to Clarke Creek park, where the girls had an absolute BLAST.  They were so cute and played so well!  Cora was snug as a bug in the swing for a good 30 minutes, after which time she was ALL ABOUT the slides.  This park is really great for her, as it's very compartmentalized with walked and gates on all sides, meaning she can't really fall off once she gets up the stairs.  She LOVED climbing the "swinging bridge," and she kept going back to the biggest slide - time and time again!  Each time she'd make the bottom, she's say "Mo!" and run back to the stairs - it was great!

Kaitlyn did a GREAT job pumping her legs and swinging on her own - easily the best I've ever seen her do!  We also started doing a series of "challenges," where I would assign a list of things to climb and places to run to within a set time frame.  The girls definitely got their exercise this day, and MAN was the weather perfect.

10/22 - I headed to Minneapolis for work today, but the report I got was that all went great.  Cora added two more words:  "hay" and "dark" (both while reading Big Red Barn).  Kaitlyn enjoyed gymnastics, where they started doing the rock wall!  Also, it was pajama day, and ask you can expect the my little pony nightgown came out.  Don't worry - we also had her wear pajama bottoms.  It was a really cute day, as they actually let them wear slippers everywhere buy PE.  Oh, and K was Picnic Pick-up this week for her job - basically tidying after lunch (I think, at least).

10/23 - So I woke up this morning (still in MSP) to a text from Jenny that said "Rex is dead."  The X wouldn't even turn over!  Luckily we had Ellie, and triple A came out and confirmed that the heads on the battery had popped off for some reason.  Once reconnected, it fired right back up.  YAY!  Note to self - learn more about cars in 2019. :-)

It was school picture day for K, and afterwards Kate came over for a play date and dinner.  I didn't get to FT K in the evening, but I heard that it was a smashing success all around. :-)

10/25 - Cora added 3 more words!  She has now added "whale," "up," and "ray" (as in Sting ray).  I'm telling you - it's just meteoric at this point!

Also, not only is K improving on her handstands (she's well and truly doing them at this point), she's also finally improving her cartwheels!  She's starting to get those legs in the air and is DEFINITELY more comfortable in "gymnastic" style positions (my words, as I have no other way to describe all that acrobatic stuff :-)).  She wants to practice all the time, and it's paying off!  She's also coloring all the time, which has been really neat to see.  Not sure if I've mentioned it before, but a huge transformation has taken place recently with her artwork.  Instead of just coloring or tracing pictures, she's now starting to actually create images on blank pieces of paper and make pictures herself.  Very cool!

10/26 - We've got more words to add to the Cora word bank!  Problem is they were on my phone, and somehow I must have deleted them.  But what I can confirm - after praying over her, she instantly popped her head off my shoulder and said, "Night, night!"  That is AMAZING, as that is EXACTLY what Kaitlyn used to do!  It was an emotional moment for me, as I remember that, after K started saying that, I really didn't get to rock her too long before she wanted to be in that crib.  Sure enough, now when I ask Bear if she wants to go "Night Night" after she says it, she nods immediately and starts looking over at it.  They grow up so fast!!!!

10/27 - Cora said "backpack" today!  Also, for the first time ever, JT had her hair in a clip vs. the whale spout.  She looked so grown up!  It is amazing how fast she's transforming - AND RUNNING - these days.  Her little gallop is just about the cutest thing ever - she runs on her toes, the whale spout (or hair in a clip) just bouncing the entire time.  Also, she's taken to LOVING doing "Ring Around the Rosie" with Jenny - she just cackles every time they do it.

So today was the definition of FLAT OUT for Team Taylor.  After getting an 8 mile run in, Team Taylor had some Starbucks and then rolled over to the sweet spot, where K tried crepes for the first time!  They weren't exactly what we expected (the crepes were a little tough and hard to cut/chew), but there was enough sugar to keep her happy. :-)

After that, we headed back to the house, packed up, and then rolled over to the Greenway.  Jenny and K got to ride this time, and I pushed Buke behind them.  Cora was GREAT - very content to just ride and take in the scenery.  UNCC was playing at 2, so the atmosphere was quite jovial around the campus.  There was a CFA stand open, and we even got 2 plush moo-moos (and got our photo with the cow).  All in all, a great trip!

While Bear was napping, K and I rolled over to the Fall Fest, where K had a power hour of a) candy, b) pumpkin painting (Bear even got in on that, and it was ADORABLE), c) bounce houses, and d) ponies!  She actually rode on 2 horses!  It was wet and rainy, but we really had fun (and the rain kept the crowd away).  Watching the girls paint at the same time was really cute...even if they did COMPLETELY COVER THEMSELVES IN PAINT.  Details - it's all washable. :-)

The highlights:







We headed to church after that (POWERFUL service), where K must have dominated Simon Says and earned a load of tokens.  Then we scrambled back home for a late dinner and bed.  The whole family was EXHAUSTED!

10/28 - Today was another great one - Carowinds with the McLaren clan!  K actually rode there with Cheryl and Team McLaren, while we followed a bit later with Bear.  We spent 4+ hours there, and it was GREAT.  Honestly, it was SUCH a terrific recharge for me, and it was a perfect pace for family time.  Everyone felt great, we had a good mix of the girls playing together and me getting to play with each of my girls, saw some other friends, and just had a blast.  The weather was incredible, and it was just a perfect day.  And Cora added another word!  She climbed up to a slide, pointed at it, and said, "Ide!"  That counts!

Highlights from Carowinds with Team McLaren:












10/29 - Today was "Mascot/wear your favorite jersey" day at Bradford.  Now admittedly K didn't have a massive selection to choose from, but what, pray tell, did she pick?  RUSSELLVILLE HORNETS, BABY!!!!!!  I mean, HOW CUTE IS THAT?  I sent it to Dad, Alice, and Pattie - just too cute.

K did a backwards roll on the bar today - very cool!  She tried to do a backwards roll on the mat as well, so progress being made!  She wasn't happy that she needed help to do the roll on the floor, but as we explained to her - this stuff just takes practice and time.

Oh, and when asked what she wanted to be for Halloween tonight, she told a family friend, "I want to be a killer leopard that eats humans."  Um...okay, I guess...

10/30 - Jenny led her Life Group today, and she had a lot of fun with another mom at Frank Liske Park.  Bear apparently really enjoyed it, and we now have a new destination that we definitely want to check out as a family.  Very cool!

10/31 - HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!!  Today was SUCH a fun day!  It all started at Bradford at 10 AM, where Jenny and I both got to watch Kaitlyn perform 5 Little Pumpkins and then be part of the character parade! This was really neat, as the entire lower school (that's K-6) each sang a bit, and then they all walked around the car pool circle, showcasing their costumes.  I showed up wearing a Rainbow Dash wig and a witch's hat, which K and her classmates thought was great.  Too funny - whatever it takes, right? :-)

After they sang, each of the classes gathered in a circle and waited for the parade to start (the other grades had to do their performances).  This was awesome for me, as I had the chance to observe two things:

1. Ms. Pate (K's teacher) is AWESOME.  She has so much GREAT energy and is just so good with the kids.  Each kid dressed up and brought in a book tied to their costume, and Ms. Pate was reading those to the class while they waited.  While every teacher was clearly focused on her respective class, Ms. Pate was flat ELECTRIC in reading the stories and keeping the energy level high.  SO HAPPY that K has her for her first "academic" experience.

2.  In looking at the class sizes, Jenny and I realized that less than 100 kids are in kindergarten, which is historically the biggest class at Bradford (case in point - they'll only graduate 37 seniors this year).  I LOVE that, as I know she'll have a chance to make so many wonderful friends and really grow with them over the course of her time at BPS.  Also, selfishly I was excited because it means she's got a great chance to play sports there, and for me that is such an important part of the educational experience.  Even if they aren't 5 A rockstars, just being part of a team, traveling, learning how to play together, and learning the value of competition is HUGE, and I love the fact that K could very well try her hand at a couple of sports there.  LOVE THIS PLACE!!!

After school, the girls did some shopping before heading home.  I went back to the office for a bit before heading home and setting up for...HALLOWEEN, BABY!!!!!!  We ate quickly, got dressed, and made it outside by about 5:30 or so.  We linked up with the Shades again and were on the street by 6.  Bear would NOT stay in the wagon, so we ended up having to use the stroller (which she didn't love, but we didn't have many options, as she wasn't doing a great job running downhill in the dark).  The crazy thing - Bear was out there NINETY MINUTES, and K went full steam with the older kids for TWO HOURS!!!!  She came back with a bucket of candy BRIMMING over.  And after eating a good 6 or 7 pieces (as well as a big slice of cookie that Ms. Julie had brought over), do you know what my daughters got into?  DORITOS!  I mean, you can't run from the genetic code, I guess... :-)

Seriously - they had a BLAST, and it really was a fun Halloween.  The Shades are SO GREAT to trick or treat with, and it's always fun in this neighborhood.  The cul de sacs are decorated, the candy is plentiful, there are plenty of cool lights, and people are very friendly.  We have been down in the total number of trick or treaters lately, but it's still been a hoot (and obviously the girls LOVE it.

It was lights out about 8 for Bear, and K followed about 9 PM.  YIKES!  The good news - no school the next day at BPS, as it was the first of two days set aside for parent teacher conferences.  BEST. SCHOOL. EVER!!!!!

And there you have it -an AWESOME October now in the books.  I am actually typing all this up in early November, which tells you how wild and crazy it's been lately.  Working in the office 5 days a week has cut into my blogging time, so I am scrambling to try and stay level.

That's all the news that's fit to print.  Chat soon!

Love,

Sam and Jenny