Wednesday, March 13, 2019

And so it ends...Year 6 as a Parent

Family,

And a good evening to you from the Queen City, where Team Taylor is wrapping up it's sixth (and
penultimate! More on that further down...) installment of Raise Kids With the Taylors.  Let's get amongst it, shall we?

3/1 - So we got an email from Ms. Pate today shortly before K arrived, telling us that K had scratched her eye.  At first I was afraid they were talking the actual cornea, but luckily it was just a surface scratch below it.  The good news (per Ms. Pate) - after 10 minutes of crying, she was back in the room laughing.  She even got some ice and a visit to the nurse's office. :-)

Granddaddy and Granny A came to visit for the weekend, and so we let the girls stay up later than normal to greet them and play with them.  It was a good (but quick) night, and since I had a 20 miler the next day, we all sacked out pretty early.

3/2 - Talk about an AWESOME day!  The weather was just incredible - we are talking high 60's!  After my run, dad and I hung out while the girls went to K's dance class.  Then it was Lunch at Southern Tier, followed by an EPIC afternoon over at OMB.  I mean, it felt like we were in Europe!  I had a blast with K, as we ran around and played quite a bit of corn hole.  She was loving all the doggies around, and then the funniest moment came - I went to the bathroom and came back to find both girls laying on their jackets in the gravel under the table (and dreaming presumably? :-)).  Too funny!  Alice had given them her phone, and they were flat mesmerized.  It was SO much fun - I can't wait to go back when the weather is better - and perhaps we'll even bring a few friends with us. :-)

The party continued back at the house, where we had pizza, ice cream cake, a fire, and plenty of presents for the Hoff.  We didn't get K in bed until probably 8:30, and it was close to 8 for Bear.  Amazing since it was a no nap day!

3/5 - So Kaitlyn was doing AMAZING handstands tonight - probably her best ever!  She is seeming to really enjoy gymnastics this go-around, which certainly makes me happy.  I am certainly planning to watch at least one more session, as I definitely want to see her in action again - especially if it's the final time.

Oh, and get this - K slept in really late today, and finally JT went up there to check on her.  She opens the door to find K CLEANING HER ROOM!  When she asked the reason, the quote was priceless:  "It has to be neat so I can tell when the leprechaun comes!  Otherwise, how will I know?"  I mean...are you KIDDING ME?!?!?!?!  Too funny..

Kaitlyn did showcase some yoga tonight, and it was impressive!  That girl pretty much knows all the moves I do, and it was really neat to hear her work through them!  She has a song she does with it - love Bradford!  She also has started doing those "girl hand slap rhyming" games.  Tonight she did something with Tic Tac Toe...three in a row...don't you shoot my astronaut....I mean, look - I'm just an old dude doing the best he can.  Don't judge me. :-)  She loved it (and kept repeating it, which was still far preferable to the previous night when she kept saying "Macaroni what the pants...").

On the Cora front, her pump knot is ALMOST gone - YAY!  You just wouldn't believe how talkative that girl is now.  It is AMAZING how quickly she's picking things up.  And get this - unprompted tonight, she counted to 10!  True, she missed a few numbers, but it was impressive!

In her "Terrible Two" phase at the moment, she is hilarious with her protests.  Currently she just likes to scream, "I'm not!" to rage against whatever command you've given or reproach you've just proffered.  When we ask what "I'm NOT" means, she simply repeats it, as well as occasionally running away.  Cute...

And remember Buddy who reads to her?  Well, Cora has been bringing him non-Leap Frog books and saying, "Buddy, read it."  Also, if she is behind looking at pages he is programmed for and gets to the last page after he's finished, she'll look at him and say, "Say it, Buddy!"  The poor thing appears destroyed when Buddy doesn't reply.  :-)

3/8 - Kaitlyn was a hand stand MACHINE tonight!  I mean, that girl was FULL VERTICAL!  It's crazy, but suddenly she has fallen back in love with gymnastics.  It's so cute!  She did so many handstands earlier in the week that her wrist was actually sore the next morning (JT said the same thing used to happen to her).

Tonight was a fun one, as we prepared "battle formations" for K's birthday sleepover!  We laid out sleeping bags and the air mattress in the bonus room, and as I type this, JT is wrapping presents and making the goody bags.  JT has been a WARRIOR in getting this party ready - pre-ordering tickets, selecting the cookie cake (and ice cream), balloons, presents, party favors, invites, creating the schedule - you name it.  She has been an absolute ROCK STAR!  K - remember this!  You are a very, VERY lucky little girl.

And I think it goes without saying, but K is OVER THE MOON excited about her sleepover tomorrow.

JT had life group today, and Cora got to play with all the other kids.  It was amazing - when I asked her about it this evening, she remembered ALL their names!  She is very cute now saying, "I don't know" when she really doesn't know.  Her favorite books at the moment are "Little Excavator" and "Big Red Barn."

And side note - can I say how cute K's hair is right now?  I am LOVING the little bob ponytail.  And I put Cora's hair in a ponytail last night in the bath, and she rightly said, "Ponytail."  Too cute!

3/9 - PARTY TIME!!!!!  Wow...talk about an EPIC day. We kicked this day off with some Starbucks for the adults and a movie for the girls:  "Tinkerbell and the Legend of the Neverbeast."  It was really cute, and dare I admit this - I actually CRIED at the end.  Seriously - I was locked on the screen and couldn't look away.  Full marks to Disney - I was a puddle.

It was then over to the Y, where the girls had fun in the play house before K went to dance class.  Then it was home for lunch and tablet time before the featured event of the evening - THE BIRTHDAY SLEEPOVER!!!!!  So here's the deal:  JT and I had priced out a lot of things and given K a lot of options.  Ultimately, she wanted to go to Defy Gravity, and so we told her that she needed to pick about 4 friends to go with her.  She selected Kate (obviously), Ellie (a new BFF from her class at BPS), Daisy, and Eden (the last 2 are also new friends from BPS).  All of them except Eden showed up at the house at 2, and from that point on we had a VERITABLE HURRICANE OF ACTIVITY.

The girls were SO excited - it was too cute!  It was Ellie's first sleepover, and she was over the moon. The girls were running around pretending to be "uni-kitties" (don't ask), and they were screaming louder than a playoff game at Arrowhead.  My first thought was "set out the Ibuprofen for later..."

We did cake (cookie cake) and ice cream (birthday cake flavored), and the girls played a bit more before we packed up and drove over to Defy Gravity.  WOW - HOLY BEDLAM, BATMAN!!!!!!  This place was a MADHOUSE, but the girls LOVED IT!  It's so funny - we had booked for only a single hour, and I asked JT if we needed two.  She said, "Trust me - we do NOT need more than an hour."  Sure enough - she was right (and then some!).  By 4:55, I saw them all sitting on the couch EXHAUSTED from the exertion.  They ran up walls, did ziplines, did trampolines, jumped into foam pits...you name it!  Cora even got in on the action - too cute!  They all had a BLAST - even if every single one of them managed to get injured at one point or another.  K actually cried 3 times in the hour she was there (and three more times during the course of the sleepover).

What was funny - when we woke Cora up to leave for DG, she remembered where we were going.  She yelled "I coming!"  She was SO EXCITED to hang out with the big girls, and they were actually GREAT about talking to her and playing with her the whole time at the house - it was really sweet!

It was then home for pizza, a movie (My Little Pony), more playing, and popcorn (a mixture of Kettle and microwave) before the girls sacked out at 8:52 PM.  They all slept in the bonus room, laying sideways on the air mattress.  Adorable!  Honestly - watching them get ready for bed was just too cute.

And the best news - they slept until 5:49, which was 6:49 when you account for daylight savings time.  RE-SULT!  That being said, they all woke up tired, and not even Lucky Charms could pump enough sugar in them to keep them moving.  K was teetering all morning, but she rallied after church.  Her and JT had a mommy-daughter Birthday afternoon, where they hit Panera for lunch, followed by bouncing on the trampolines at Concord Mills, then visiting the Aquarium a final time, followed by cashing in a gift card at the Disney store.  It was then home to make "Leprechaun Rocks" for school before watching one of our gifts to K:  "How to Train Your Dragon" (volumes 1 and 2 came together in a set).

3/10 - So today was another great one for K, as the birthday festivities just kept on rolling. :-)  As I mentioned, they were up about 7 thanks to springing forward, and what followed as a round of Lucky Charms and breakfast, followed by quite a bit of playing around in the front rooms.  The girls were super cute and played great together, but you could tell they were tired!  We found out from Daisy's mom (she didn't stay the night since she's a young 5) that she fell asleep as soon as she got in the car!

The girls didn't want to leave (they got quiet when their moms came), but soon enough we said our farewells and then headed to church.  Kaitlyn cried a bit (largely due to exhaustion, but we've since realized she was probably fighting something as well) in the morning (which marked the 6th time she'd cried in 24 hours, for the record), but by the time church was over, she was gangbusters and ready for another EPIC day - this time with her mommy!

Man, did they have a blast.  First up was Panera, where they ate Mac 'n Cheese (K says no place does it better) before heading over to Concord Mills, where they PACKED IT IN!  First up was the trampoline, which K absolutely LOVED (they just give you 9 min, so it goes quickly).  Then it was over to the aquarium for a farewell tour (our pass expires on 3/15, and we're not planning to renew at this time.  Cora loves it, but we have plenty else to keep her busy.  As for K, she seems to have largely aged out of it, as all she wants to do at this point is look at the octopus and then head out to the gift shop. :-)).

As fate would have it, she did hit the gift shop, where she selected her final present from us:  a baby harpoon seal (which she named Sealy).  She had been looking at it every time she'd been in there, so we felt this was a great way to say farewell to the aquarium.

It was then over to the Disney store, where both her and Kaitlyn got a new animal (an Aristocat for Bear, Angel from Lilo & Stitch 2 for K).  It was then home for the final bit of the day - making Leprechaun rocks!  Again, I have NO IDEA when St. Patty's Day became anything other than a drinking holiday, but here we are... :-)

K was GREAT helping JT with the rocks (it's a class activity at BPS), and after that the girls started watching "How to Train Your Dragon."  Given K's love of Dragons:  Race to the Edge, we figured she would like it (and she did!).  I was very pleased with that purchase.

We sacked out a little later than normal that night, another great weekend in the books.  And just think - we still hadn't hit K's actual birthday!  And in case you were wondering, Bear was AWESOME throughout this whole thing.  She just kept saying, "Happy...Birthday...Yaya" over and over.  Oh, and she actually said Kaitlyn the other day!  Personally I hope she keeps saying Yaya, as I absolutely love that.

3/11 - HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MUNCH MUNCH!!!!!  YOU ARE 6 YEARS OLD!!!!!  HOW IS THAT EVEN POSSIBLE?!?!?!?!?  1/3 OF YOUR TIME UNDER ROOF AT OUR HOUSE IS OVER!!!!!!  Say it ain't so!!!!!

K came downstairs, and I said, "You are 6!  That is unbelievable!  How do you feel?"  She replied, "I see Vol Nana today - seeing Vol Nana is better than turning 6."  :-)

The day went by quickly given that it was a school day, but we did get to meet K at BPS for lunch (she wanted nothing to do with me - just wanted to sit with her friends! :-)).  Mom (aka Vol Nana) arrived about 2:30, and so she went with K to gymnastics.  It worked out great, as she was able to watch K, read to Bear, and relax a bit while JT went and got gas for the X.  Jackpot!

We had Chik-fil-A at the house for a birthday dinner, and then K got to open her presents.  Mom made this Super Cute 6 with lots of cupcakes, and we took several of those down like it was our job. :-)  I will say, it is amazing how much more sugar Bear has received in her first 26 months of life vs. TT.  I mean, we were MILITANT with K, but the reality is that we just can't (or won't) deny it to Bear if everyone else is getting it.  We at least give her substantially less than others, but MAN - that girl is ALL ABOUT SOME SUGAR.

Bed time that night was well past 8, but K was a reading machine, and Vol Nana was blown away.  It was too funny, as the girls were already arguing about who got to read with Vol Nana at the end of the night.  Priceless!  Oh, and did I mention that K was able to read all of her cards?  AMAZING!  It was really, really neat to see.  Well done, Ms. Pate and BPS! :-)

So there you have it - Year 6 as a parent in the books.  Every day is an adventure, every day is a voyage of discovery, and every day is a good and perfect gift from our Creator above.  I am SO SO SO thankful to be on this journey with my soulmate and two have a pair of beautiful, sweet, wonderful little girls.

And so everyone knows - Jenny and I have chatted about it, and next year will be the last year for the blog.  Plans could change, of course, but the reality is that it's getting really tough to find the time anymore, and I think we might (likely will) end up cutting this out.  I am moving to monthly video messages for the girls and am working to do a lot more video and photo documentation of their lives. The work will live on in the cloud, noted by time and date (which I use every day when I go through "memories from this day" on Amazon Photos).

Seven is the number of perfection in the Bible, and next year will be the seventh volume of this journey.  It will include Bear starting pre-school, K starting 1st grade, lots of trips (including Disney), and innumerable memories that I can't wait to record.  I look forward to documenting it all and finishing with a flourish!

That's all the news to print - love you all!!!

Love,

Sam, Jenny, Kaitlyn, and Cora

Thursday, March 7, 2019

Fast, Fun, and Fabulous - February for Team Taylor

Family,

And a good evening to you from the Queen City, where another month is in the books.  Plenty to

cover (as always!), so let's get amongst it, shall we?

2/1 - So I was in Vegas on this day, but the girls made the weekend count!  JT picked Kaitlyn up from BPS and drove south of the border, arriving at her parents just in time for dinner.  They had a good meal and a fun night, and then JT tried a new experiment - putting Bear and the Goose to bed in the same room at the same time.  Oh dear reader...it must have been quite the experience... :-)

So as the story was related to me, about 5 seconds after both of them laying down, Cora just kept yelling, "Yaya!  Yaya!!!!  Yaya!!!!!"  K came out after about 5 minutes, and then she went back in and tried to lay very still (no dice).  Ultimately it took Cora almost 90 minutes to settle, with the net result being Kaitlyn sleeping in JT's room (on the floor on the toddler bed mattress).

2/2 - It was another really good day, complete with parks, sunshine, good food...and The Wizard of Oz!  The girls had never seen it, and Kaitlyn LOVED it!  I came home from Vegas to find her singing, "We're off to see the Wizard, the wonderful wizard of Oz..." Too cute!  They also watched Charlie and the Chocolate Factory...which was every bit as weird as Jenny and I remembered.  Let's just say the girls were far more impressed with Judy Garland than they were with Gene Wilder. :-)  But the best news - they slept until after 7 AM on Sunday!

2/3 - The girls went to church with Bob and Jan, and Kaitlyn got to come into the sanctuary for the kids sermon (I think she was the only one :-)).  Side note - Kaitlyn LOVES the story of Esther (the "Brave and Beautiful Queen") - she says it's her favorite Bible story at present!  Personally, I am THRILLED that my daughter has a favorite Bible story in kindergarten.  And what's crazy - when I was a kid, Esther was the first story that I really remembered (it was Easter Sunday at Trinity with Pastor David Hodge).  Funny how that works, huh?

I got home about 5:30, and the girls were in great spirits.  Kaitlyn had brought home a cute craft from school, which listed out her goals for 2019.  They are as follows:

1. Ride a bike without training wheels
2. Learn how to jump rope
3. Start reading chapter books

I like the goals, I like the attitude, and I love that she has "written the vision and made it plain."  Exciting to see where we go!  I am quite confident those goals will be accomplished. :-)

2/4 - So today was a fun one and a special treat for Kaitlyn - sitting in the teacher's chair!  On Friday, she'd cashed in $20 Bradford Bucks, earning her the right to sit in the teachers chair all day - the first person to do it!  She was very proud of that fact and must have had a blast sitting in Ms. Pate's seat.  It was cute at dinner when she talked about how other folks were spending their Bradford Bucks:  "Camden is bringing a cuddly friend tomorrow."  I love the innocence - it's so sweet and so special.  Time slow down!!!

The girls played really good again today, and can I just say I continue to be AMAZED at Cora's vocabulary!  So many classic word have been added:

1. Cheese stick!
2. Orange (sounds like earring)
3. All done, mama!
4. More milk, please!
5. Computer (pooder)
6. Chik-fil-a!

And now when it's time to stop reading at night, she will say "One" and do the finger point.  Oh, and much like Kaitlyn, she gets FURIOUS when she has to read with Dada vs. Mama.  I mean...I have feelings too!  I'm a person! :-)

Side note on Bear - she woke up with some crusty snot around her nose after nap, has been quite clingy, and seems a bit off.  JT made her an appointment for 10:30, so we'll see what's up.  She JUST got off a round of Cefdinir, but Ashley said there was already some fluid in one ear.  Watch this space!

2/5 - We took bear to the doctor today, where they confirmed the fluid but weren't yet sure if it was residual or on the way in.  She woke up with a MOUNTAIN OF SNOT on her face, and she was definitely off.  Her nose ran like a faucet all day, but she was able to play a lot outside and did seem to have plenty of energy (was definitely better than th
e day before).

Kaitlyn played like a champ with the other kids at Prosperity Park, but on the way home I noticed she looked wiped out.  In the car home, she mentioned that her throat hurt at school and that Dr. Pate took her to see the nurse (who wasn't in her office).  K said it hurt to swallow at dinner - she couldn't even eat a slice of pizza!  Now THAT is saying something!  She was able to eat some yogurt, but she looked absolutely exhausted.  JT and I gave her some meds and agreed - doctor on the morrow.

2/6 - K woke us up about 2:37, saying that her throat hurt.  JT gave her some more meds, after which time she slept until after 7.  And get this - that girl emptied an entire box of tissues!!!!!  I was amazing - she just KEPT blowing snot (and we're talking serious amounts of the yellow stuff - not just some clear fluid).  We are trying to teach her to use a tissue more than once, as otherwise the Amazon rainforest will be depleted by March.  Poor thing...

The doctor checked her and confirmed it was strep, but the good news - she's not running a fever.  She seemed to have pretty good energy today (watched the live version of Beauty and the Beast and was actually outside playing when I got home), and the plan is for her to go to school tomorrow.  This was the first day she's ever missed, and while she wasn't thrilled about it when the day started, she seemed to be in good spirits about it.  The key for us - she didn't miss art (it's on Thursdays), which is very important to her at the moment (they are working on penguin homes for their penguin drawings).

Neither girl was super hungry, and Cora was pretty clingy throughout the day.  We got them medicated and down by 7:30, so hopefully they will sleep soundly all night.

2/7 - The Goose was back at school today.  Honestly, it's AMAZING what a difference a dose of medicine makes!  She felt great at school and even went to the park afterwards, where she was able to do the monkey bars!  I got to watch her in action - she's really starting to get it!   Also, last night she went through an ENTIRE BOX OF TISSUES.  Tonight, however - not a single blow.  Amazing!   Side note - when this is done, we have decided we're going to try Claritin and see if that helps keep the post nasal trip at bay.  Either way, the amoxicillin is DEFINITELY doing the trick right now!

Bear is in great spirits as well and is running around all over the place.  Her nose isn't running any more, and she seems totally back to normal.  THANK YOU, JESUS!!!

2/8 - Today was an exciting one for the Goose - Coupon Day at Bradford!  This is where K gets the chance to spend her Bradford Bucks, and she decided to double up today!  She spent $10 for bring a cuddly friend, and another $5 for "Lose the Shoes" (she gets to be barefoot or in socks all day in class).  She's already decided that she's cashing both in on Monday.  I gotta tell ya - I think BPS was BRILLIANT with this, as K is always SO EXCITED to go to school on Monday morning!  It's so cute - she is basically counting the minutes until she can bring her furry friend in and show him/her off.  The winner has already been selected - Lollipop (the rainbow colored bunny), wearing a stylish pink sock.

So something fascinating today - Ms. Teresa gave the girls a Disney Princess Castle (think Little People House but a castle), complete with 3 princesses.  Cora. Is. OBSESSED. Seriously - it's all she wants to play with!  You have to DRAG her out of the house to go somewhere, and she will NOT go quietly - all she wants to do is play with the princesses.  No matter where you are in the house, she'll run up to you, take you by the hand, and say, "Play."  You'll start walking, and she'll say, "Princess!"  Her diction is improving SO rapidly!

Once you're over there to play princesses, she will NOT let you leave without a protest.  She will let them lay down and then grab them out of bed, saying, "Awake!"  She just laughs and plays with it constantly, opening the doors to the palace and saying, "Out!"  We can't even get her to eat dinner, as after a few bites she just starts repeating "Princess" and then storms off.  Craziness!

On the Kaitlyn front, she is REALLY improving with her reading.  It is MIND BLOWING to watch the pace of learning and progress.  Tonight she started reading "Make Way for Ducklings," and she did AWESOME!  I mean, sure, she didn't know every word, but that book is WAY beyond a kindergarten level, and she nailed some big words!  More importantly, she is doing a tremendous job sounding them out and taking a good guess.  It is just so neat to watch and be a part of it.  She reads about 15-20 minutes at night, which oddly enough is also the recommended amount of reading kids should do at home.  The difference now, however, is that she is LOVING it and actually wants to read (vs. us trying to encourage her).  It's SO exciting to watch - we are so proud!  Go get 'em, kiddo!

One thing I do want to keep an eye on - Kaitlyn has been saying, "Oh my gosh" lately and has at least once taken the Lord's name in vain.  We don't do it here, so I'm sure it's happening at school.  We have had some fairly stern conversations about it, and she even prayed, "God, please remind me to say 'oh my goodness.'"  I am happy to report that, since then, she actually hasn't said it and has been really good about it.  Hopefully we've headed that off at the pass.

2/9 - So Cora is hilarious right now in the car.  As we pass ANY gas station, she will say, "Gas!"  And if there are like 10 or 15 in the space of a mile, she won't stop - you can count on hearing "Gas!" 15 times.  Also, Cora is really loving to read, and right now we're reading a Leap Frog series.  One of the books is about opposites, and Cora actually calls them out!  Big, Little & tall, short are the two she always gets, but it's just amazing to watch those pistons firing.  Proud of you, wee one!

2/10 - Today was a fun day just chilling at the house, where K absolutely ROCKED me at Monopoly Junior - she was uncatchable out of the gate!  She also did her Valentine's Day cards and her Valentine's Day box (dedicated to Knuffle Bunny)  - it was pretty cute (and the art work was really, really good!

That night at bed she read "Splat the Cat Takes the Cake" and did a tremendous job - I mean, that girl is really getting it!  The highlights however, were just before bed, and they are two moments that I think are going to live with me forever.

1.  The Golden Book:  I am warming myself over by the fire when K picks up "Everything I needed to know in life I learned from a Golden Book."  This books is about 100 pages, and K had NEVER tried to read it before.  Well, she just sets to reading and starts CRUSHING it.  Seriously - it. was. AMAZING.  I was so proud.  And the bigger moment for me - I was pretty far away from her, and I was helping her (in the rare moments where she needed it) by working off each page from memory.  It was one of those moments where the stories my mother had read me and the brain/memory God had blessed me with fed into helping my own child (whom God had blessed me with).  I got a little teary eyed as she worked through the pages - I honestly didn't want it to end.

2.  That night before Dinner, K asked JT:  "How do you spell 'picture?'"  We spelled it but didn't think anything of it.  Well, 5 minutes later, Cora runs over with a picture that K has just drawn, and on the backside is a note that says:

Dear Cora,

I love you, and I drew this picture for you.

Love,

Kaitlyn

Again - tears.  I mean...how could you not!?!?!?!?  LOVE THESE GIRLS!!!!!!  What an amazing way to end the weekend!

2/12 - So tonight was a really, really special one for me:  Daddy-daughter Valentine's Day dinner!  So here's the deal - I have been thinking lately about how I can make the holidays more special for the girls.  True, every day pretty much feels like a vacation, but there is also a cadence that we fall into, and I have been feeling lately that I need to make a bigger effort to do various special things around each holiday so that we can a) make them more memorable, b) set them apart from other days, and c) build some traditions.  Well, this year I decided I would start by taking my oldest out for a date.  Don't worry, Cora - your time will come, too!

I put on a coat and tie (K didn't see this since I wore it to the office and left before she got up), and I showed up at the house with sunflowers and a chocolate bar.  She was quite excited (and put on a cute little dress), and we went for dinner at a surprise destination - Panera!  She was SO excited, as they have "the best mac 'n cheese on the planet, dada - I love the white kind."  Too cute!

Honestly, it was SO great.  When we went in, we had to run because of the rain.  She put her jacket over her head to "protect Lollipop from getting wet - even if my arms get wet."  I mean...pretty cute.  When she walked in and saw the treats, she looked at me and said, "Do you think we can get a treat, dada?"  I said, "Sweetheart, get whichever one you want."  You would have thought I'd just handed her the keys to a new Mercedes.  She SPRINTED to the counter to pick it out.

I got her an adult mac 'n cheese (it was Valentine's Day, after all), and when she went to pick the side she said, "There's the fruit cup."  I told her she could get chips if she wanted them, and she looked at me and said, "Wait - you are saying I can have mac 'n cheese with chips - no fruits or veg?"  When I replied, she just exclaimed "YESSSSSSSSSS!"

She picked the seat (the half booth with a coach) and requested I sit beside her.  We then ate and had a wonderful hour just enjoying our food and chatted.  I don't get a lot of focused time with either child, so it was ver special.  The highlight was when K curled up to me and said, "Best date night ever."  I already fast forwarded in my head to our last meal together before taking her to college and got teary-eyed.  TIME, SLOW DOWN!!!!

It was a perfect night, and I even made it back in time to play with bear some.  She is now saying "Critters!" and playing with the Calico Critter tree house all the time - she loves the slide!  It's too cute.  She's also saying, "I want see" and "I want more" - it's amazing!  She was trying to open something the other day and said, "Op...hard!"  I mean...genius...

2/13 - Today was the 100th day of school, and the gang had a good time.  This evening K finished reading "Sam and the Firefly" - she absolutely CRUSHED IT!!!!!

2/14 - HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!!  I got to take K to school, where she had her Valentine's Day party and made out like a bandit.  She even received a monogramed tic-tac-toe kit.  WHAT?!?!?!?!?

When I got home, Bear ran up to me, said, Dada!, and then ran to grab the cards that had arrived for them.  Jenny said, "We can open it when daddy gets home," and she didn't forget that!  The girls had 5 cards and presents from all the grandparents - they made out like bandits!

2/15 - So not sure if I mentioned it earlier, but K had been telling me that she was going to save her Bradford Bucks for something big ($200 is a movie for the class, for example).  However, last night after opening the unicorn, she said, "Dada, I think I'm gonna do one more cuddly friend."  She wanted to bring Uni!  She's taking it everywhere at the moment.  Luckily Cora seems to have forgotten about it...otherwise there would likely be blood. :-)

Jenny and I had date night tonight (Kingdom Builders Dinner at the new campus), and so Cheryl and the McLaren girls were over at our house for awhile.  They girls had a blast (Kate came over after school, so they had a good 4+ hours together), and it was a fun night.  I felt like they hadn't seen each other much lately, so that was a nice treat.  That being said, Cora was apparently NOT happy that we left her with Cheryl, as she must have screamed like a banshee for 20 minutes after Cheryl put her down (promptly followed by an hour of singing...).

We did have one scary moment at dinner.  Jenny was upstairs getting ready, and I was moving the cars outside.  I came in and Kaitlyn was clearly distraught.  She said, "I choked!"  and then broke down crying.  I was able to piece it together (she still had a mouthful of mac 'n cheese), and it sounds like she was laughing and then swallowed too much.  She was able to gulp it down, so the good news (PRAISE JESUS) is that she was fine.  However, it definitely rattled us all.

On the Cora front, I have to relate that her vocabulary is EXPLODING!  Right now anytime she sees your phone, she'll say "Cheese" and then "I...want...see," and will go CRAZY if you don't yield your phone (terrible two's, anyone?).  She is saying "More Milk, Please!," "all done, mama," and is now starting to string together multi-syllable words.  Also, whenever she sees our church she says, "Free...house!!!" It's really cute how she pauses between syllables (i.e. lady...bug, rain...bow).  Also, whenever we get out of the Xterra, she'll always say, "Bye...Rex!"  I mean...pretty cute...  And for the record, that girl was up this morning at 6:06 AM.  When I went in there, she was hugging a bear and happy as a clam, just saying, "Ri Ri."

2/16 - K won at bingo!!!!  It was AWEOME - she won a $10 CFA gift card and a DIY stress ball...which she loves!  I mean, this is a big deal, as they only do this 2x annually and only play 8 or 9 rounds while in there (Allison actually won twice!).  K was THRILLED.

And Bear was a cutie today, constantly saying "Next Page!" as she turned the pages.  K did most of the reading tonight, and it is just INCREDIBLE how she's tearing through books.  If it's Kindy or 1st grade level, she rarely needs help.  If it's something beyond that, she will require help on a few words, but by and large that girl is CRUSHING it.  SO PROUD OF YOU, KIDDO!!!!

One thing to note - K came into our room at 1:08 AM this morning saying that her throat hurt.  JT gave her some ibuprofen, but we are worried that the next round of something (gotta be viral this time) is coming.  Praying for health!

2/17 - Today was another great one. We had 2 services at church, and K even got to join me in Arrows!  She was wonderful, and it's just so great to see how sweet, attentive, and well behaved she is - especially when you stack her up against older kids (she was the youngest kid in the class today). She was clearly not feeling great (the pouch burned her throat), but she rallied when we went to AJ's 6th birthday at....Chuck E. Cheese!

So this is one more reason why Wife Muffin is AWESOME - she had saved all of K's ticket receipts AND the leftover play pass from last year!  That meant that K was able to play double the games she played last year, and she had a BLAST!  She played a mixture of all kinds of games, but her favorite was definitely the Nicktoons Nitro, where she got to race against various Nickelodeon characters in various other worlds.  And get this - SHE ACTUALLY WON TWO ROUNDS!!!!  She loved it - we must have played it 7 or 8 times.  She also loved Jet Rider - she thought that was a hoot.

Unfortunately, she was definitely winding down due to the illness (throat was definitely hurting), and I could tell that she was flagging.  We left there a little after 3:30, making it home in time for a round of Monopoly (she crushed me) before K had tablet time and I sat down to catch up on some stuff (I'm not feeling great either).

Cora was cute this morning - I heard her singing in her crib again, and then I heard her playing with her animals in there, yelling "I want hug!"  Too cute...

2/18 - So we took K back to the doctor today, where it was confirmed - Strep round 2!  Apparently this is quite common, but we certainly weren't expecting that.  Did you know that you actually have to boil toothbrushes during this period so they don't "re-infect" themselves?  We did boil them and she took her meds, but alas - we were in for another round.

An interesting note - K had been saying yesterday and this morning, "My throat doesn't hurt anymore," even though it was still clearly bothering her.  JT knew the reason, and sure enough - K came clean in the morning before the doctor's appt.  She broke down in tears and said, "The testing!" The throat swab the previous time was apparently very painful, and K did NOT want to go through that again.

But the good news - K was a ROCK STAR and didn't even cry during the testing!  She was great and said that it didn't even hurt (nice job, Dr. T :-)).

Not a whole lot else to report from this day, but I will say that Kaitlyn (and Cora, who is now sitting in her chair and LOVING Netflix) is all about 2 new shows:  Mia and Me, and "Ladybug and Cat Noir."  The second one is CRAZY and seems pretty advanced (Egyptian gods and such), but she loves it!  I had to get onto Wikipedia so I could learn about the characters.  Priceless...

2/19 - a not great but very memorable moment tonight - Cora's first pump knot!  So here's how it went down.  We were doing our normal run around the jack and jack (the after tooth brushing, pre-bath thing that both our children now think is TOTALLY normal in American households), when suddenly I heard a THUMP...followed by an extended silence.  I think heard the wail of a siren...only it was from my youngest.  That poor girl (whose stride is SO CUTE as she wiggles around at her waist) had fallen and smacked her forehead RIGHT INTO THE CORNER OF A WALL.  I picked her up, and I could actually see the knot SWELLING in front of my eyes - crazy!  We knew she was okay since it was swelling outward, but MAN was it bad.  Luckily it had actually split the skin a bit in the middle, allowing it to breathe.  Needless to say it was an Advil night!

2/20 - I got to drive K to school today, and she was SO much better.  It's amazing what a difference a day makes !  That medicine kicked in fast, and she was in MUCH better spirits.  Now let's just hope we can keep it knocked out.

Bear's bruise went through about 97 different color changes today, but she seemed fine and in good spirits.  She still made it to the Y, where they have informed us that she is very good at puzzles.  It's amazing - just like her sister in that regard.  The Y staff specifically commented on how quickly she picks things up and is able to assemble them - gotta always love praise about your kid from someone else! :-)

That being said, that kid is FULL ON into her terrible 2's.  MAN!  She is great as long as she's getting her way, but when she's not, it is quite the temper tantrum.  Stuff gets thrown, screaming ensues, people get hit, etc.  It's crazy!  We've actually had to start enforcing some discipline, as we definitely need to bring it under control.  So far the rules are simple - it you throw it, it's gone.  If you hit someone, that toy you were fighting about is no longer an option.  If you are rude, we cut your reading time.  They are small moves, but you can see there is a flicker of understanding in there somewhere. :-)

2/22 - So something cute at the Y - Cora is playing with Jude every day!  It's so cute - when you ask her how the playhouse was, she'll say "Jude" and smile.  It's too cute!

And Kaitlyn is starting to "pray" for things, which is great that she is acknowledging the Almighty but suboptimal when she's saying things like "please give me a 6 when I roll this die."  That being said, more often than not it does happen, so maybe she's onto something... :-)

Oh, and how is this for absolute cuteness.  Cora has a little Leap Frog dog (Buddy) that will read stories to her if you push buttons.  She likes it so much that she won't even let US read to her before naps or bedtime right now!  It's so funny-  she'll say:  "Buddy...read...to...me?"  And if you try and do it instead, you WILL get the eye roll (and might even get the book knocked out of your hand!).  Too funny...I guess you really an outsource everything. :-)

2/23 - Another big milestone for Team Taylor - K started Dance Class at the Y today!!!!  She was SO CUTE in her little leotard and dance slippers (all pink, of course).  We wanted them stretching and dancing for a bit - they were BLASTING "It's a Small World in that Room."  Love it!  K seemed to really enjoy it, and I am really excited for her.  I do think we'll need to watch her posture, as she is starting to slouch a bit.  I am sure part of it is being so much taller than most of the folks around her, but I do want to watch it, as I don't want a habit to form there.

A few other items to note from this day.   First off, I am a BIG FAN of going back through my Amazon pics and looking through the "Memories from this day" section.  What has been AMAZING to watch is how much both girls have slimmed down over the past year.  Incredible!  If you look back to our time last year in Jacksonville Beach for Pattie's tournament, it's just wild to see how much they have both changed.  I credit Bradford for a lot of it with Kaitlyn, as they are GREAT about getting them outside for exercise twice a day.  You just honestly can't put a price tag on that - SO important!

Another item - you know how I always talk about being a cast iron dictator.  Well, lately it's felt somewhat true, and it's started wearing on me.  I know it's my job to tow the line, and I certainly want to do that.  However, somewhere along the way I think I've forgotten that you don't have to legislate every single second of the day with your children.  Simply put - I have been trying to control too much lately, and I think it has affected my relationship with my kids.  Jenny and I were talking about it tonight (in front of the kids, as I want to be open and honest with them), and she gave me an AMAZING piece of wisdom:  "Just try to say yes as much as possible.  If they won't get hurt and it doesn't really matter, just say yes."  I gotta tell ya - I took that to heart, and it has made a TREMENDOUS difference over the past week or so.  As I type this (March 4), I can already feel myself slipping back into old rhythms, so I am determined to fight back and "say yes" whenever I can.

Oh, and how's this for the sweetest thing you could ever hear as a father - K and I were talking about having kids, and she asked me something about having kids and raising them.  I told her, "If you find a boy you love, and you get married, then yes - you could have children."  Her response will stay with me forever:  "I don't want a boy, dada.  I want a boy like you."

I was blown away.  Here I was puffing up my chest and feeling so chuffed, but then she followed it up with, "I want a boy like you because you speak English, and I want a boy who speaks English.  If they speak another language, then I won't be able to understand them!"  Oh well...it was fun while it lasted... :-)

We went to church that night, and Kaitlyn was THRILLED because...she gets to go to Arrows on Saturday nights!  She absolutely LOVES Pastor Michael, and she often gets called on when I'm not there!  She won a round of word freeze, played air hockey, and even learned to play 4 Square!  The last one was huge, as she's really been wanting to learn to play and has been trying to learn it (and getting frustrated) in the sessions I've brought her in there.    Pastor Michael told me that she's really starting to come out of her shell.  Love it!

2/24 - We went to church today as well (JT and I were serving - our first time sharing our story at Get On Track), and then I took Bear home while JT and Kaitlyn headed uptown for another big first - their first ever Mommy-Daughter Life group!  They went to Amelie's, and the day was just AMAZING!  Seriously - the weather was perfect (sun popped out), the temperature was fantastic, they got to eat a fun treat, and they all had a good time playing and talking about life together.  They stayed around in Uptown to play in the parks there, and you could tell they just had a blast - SO HAPPY for them!  It was really, really cool.

2/25 - So I was heading to Minneapolis today, and I was up before 5 to get out the door and catch my 7:30 flight.  Get this - I am ON THE PLANE, and Jenny sends me a photo of Cora's crib.  She has vomited ALL OVER IT, and that is the image I'm left with right before I shut down and takeoff.  Poor wife muffin!!!!  But the good news - Cora never spiked a fever, and she was honestly pretty normal minus the occasional vomit and diarrhea.  It lasted for about a day and a half, but it didn't slow them down much!  They still got out for walks, K still got to gymnastics (did the rock wall to kick off a new session!), and by Wednesday JT was able to get back to the gym and even make her life group.  Praise Jesus!

2/28 - Not a whole lot else to report during my time in Mpls.  I was thrilled that I got to FaceTime with my ladies every day, which was awesome and really helped a lot.  I landed to find a letter from the tooth fairy, as apparently she visited K's classroom today.  I didn't get the story until the weekend, but family, let me tell you - it is AMAZING how true it is that kids will listen to ANYONE but their parents.  Seriously - this girl is rattling off FACT AFTER FACT about brushing, flossing, cavities, you name it.  And even though her parents - the ones who PAY FOR HER HYGIENE AND TAKE HER TO THE DENTIST - have told her all this, she clearly never retained ANY of it until a lady dressed as a fairy walked into Bradford.  Priceless!

K loved this - she got to hug the tooth fairy, talk to the tooth fairy, and listen to her speak.  K can now tell me how many teeth I have, how many she has, how long you should floss, how long you should brush...you name it.  Unreal!  And honestly...pretty cute... :-)

Okay, that's February in the books - fast and furious!  Chat with you all next month!

Love,

Sam and Jenny