Age of Lady Cora: 1 year, 2 months, and 6 days
Family,
And a good morning to you from the Queen City - another epic month in the books, so let's get after it!
2/2 - Today was show and tell day at UCUMC, and K was THRILLED. It was the letter "J," and she doubled up with "Jingle" the dog and "Jo Jo" the giraffe. Jo Jo has been in her bag all week (this girl is stoked). The one thing - after she named him Jo Jo, she started calling him "Giraffey." Hopefully we hear later that it was a success (she's still there as I type this).
On the Cora front, she got her first hair clip today! Holy Moly - she is getting so big! It was some work to get the (cute pink) clip in there, but once she did the bangs were out of her eyes (too cute). My girls - so beautiful (and happy with their smiling faces).
Oh, and it should be noted that Buke LOVES the vacuum cleaner. When you put it away, she is NOT happy. I mean...a Dyson is cool and all, but seriously? :-)
2/3 - So Buke went full on pigtail today! I would call it a ponytail except for the fact that it is a collection of bangs that basically points due north when pulled together in a teeny rubber band. Too cute. Also, we've noticed that, when at the dinner table, Cora will mimic us as we pray - she folds her hands in prayer! It's too cute, and when we notice it and applaud her for doing it, she smiles SO BIG. It's honestly AMAZING what a difference a year makes. This time in 2017, poor Cora was screaming in pain constantly from hunger, reflux, and who knows what else. Now, however, she is smiling all the time - the serious face is really starting to dissipate! It's beautiful to watch. Love my girls!
Also, we had an awesome moment this evening - our first ever "dance party!" We rocked out to the song "One Foot" by Walk the Moon, and K was just cackling as I did my pathetic attempt at the Running Man (think Justin Timberlake and Vanilla Ice both hammered in a bar in their 80's trying to dance to salsa music - I'd say that visual isn't far off...), and K was in Heaven. It was just a perfect, fun, happy moment, and I was drinking in the laughter.
2/5 - So a God moment: after K went to pre-school, Jenny and I talked about some of K's behavior. I didn't know what to do, but Jenny made the observation that some kids just don't like to talk about school. It's their place and their time, and they don't really want to open up. She said that perhaps all of our questions (especially the repetitive ones - who did you play with, what did you do, how was lunch, etc) might just be annoying her. Consequently, I didn't ask about anything when she came home. And you know what? We had a GREAT evening. K spoke up when she wanted to, and there was virtually zero whining. We played with My Little Pony dolls, played Monster (first time in awhile!), and just had a really good time. Thank you, Muffin, and THANK YOU, FATHER for this answered prayer!
2/6 - a treat for me - I got to go to gymnastics today! It was so cute to watch K out there stretching, running around, and bouncing on the trampoline. She did good work with her moves, and they had a blast walking on apparatuses, jumping into foam pits, etc. JT suggested I go, and I am so glad I listened to her.
2/7 - Not much to report today except that poor K rolled her ankle in the rainy day room! I didn't realize how sore she was until the following morning, but it must have really hurt. She was in different shoes (her kitty shoes were soaked form jumping in muddy puddles with Kate the previous day), which meant that we had to put her in shoes that were slightly too large. She must have caught her toe while playing, and then her ankle rolled under.
Oh, and a classic moment - K tells JT and I that she's made something for us at pre-school. she shows it to us, and it's a card with me on one side and Jenny on the other. I say, "Sweetheart, this is really good!" She says, "Yes, that's you, and that's a big bee stinging you." Seriously - the bee was the size of GODZILLA!!!! I flip it over, and she says, "And that's a bee stinging mommy." NICE.
2/11 - Family swim day!!!! We were in the water a long time today - over an hour! And while we had a meltdown to deal with at the end of the night, it was a really fun day playing with the girls. We spent a lot of time playing "Rapunzel" with K (think "sissy kitties" but with a Disney Princess and Mother Gothel thrown in), and it was just a really fun, happy day.
2/12 - So I collected Cora this morning when she awoke, and I discovered that she LOVES to pull clothes off the hangers in her closet! It was the cutest thing - I picked her up out of the crib, and she immediately pointed to the closet (she's getting very good about pointing at what she wants now). Well, I opened the closet, and she gave me a big smile. But when I actually let her touch the clothes and yank a few down, she was in Heaven (and refused to let go of them, for the record).
What is also funny - JT and I have been running around DESPERATELY trying to get good video of her walking but to (virtually) no avail. You would think this is a simple task given how much she's now bi-pedal, but NEGATIVE, GHOST RIDER. Seriously - she could walk 15 steps, but the second you pick up your phone to start recording, she either a) plops down on her tail or b) stops, realizes you're filming, and then sits down. I'm having the same trouble trying to get video of her making sounds with her lips and playing with her lips - anytime I grab the camera, she fixates on it and stops doing what she was doing. WORK WITH ME HERE! :-)
All kidding aside, she has DEFINITELY transitioned from cruising to walking. She's much sturdier now - you can set her down on her feet, and she will stand there. Also, she is walking MUCH further than at any point previous and is (finally) walking more than she's crawling (except around the kitchen at dinner when she's exhausted). It's really amazing to watch how much stronger she's getting every single day - so fun! Also, she is standing up with just a little assistance at this point (really just holding 1 finger). Things are happening quickly!!!
And just to capture it for posterity - K, when you read this 30 years from now, know that, for some reason, you liked to slide Twink around on the floor EVERYWHERE you went in the house. That poor critter is SO DIRTY. But the good news - we don't have to sweep as much!
2/13 - Gymnastics tonight (we took Elizabeth), and K played with Kate at the house, but the featured event of the evening were the Charter School lotteries at Bradford Prep and Corvian.
So K had her Valentine's Day party today, and by all accounts it was fun. She'd spent a lot of time working on writing everyone's name on their Valentine's Day card, had picked out stickers for each of them, etc. However, when you introduce as much sugar as that child received during this party...let's just say that we've determined sugar is a very likely trigger for her behavior, as we can tie all major meltdowns back to overindulgence and the subsequent crash that follows.
So look, I'll be honest - K has been really, really tough lately, and I have struggled with it. I have tried everything - talking softly and explaining, sitting her down to see if something is wrong, talking to her sternly, taking things away, you name it - but NOTHING has worked consistently. However, as she's still been an angel outside the home, I have just treated it as the "parental proving ground" I know I put my parents through. This, however, was a whole new level, and I was furious. This was willful disobedience, but not just to us - to her best friend! I didn't even know how to process it - I was truly disappointed.
K then proceeded to call JT stupid and act out, and after 2 spankings, more toys taken away, and placing K outside to finish screaming (luckily Kate had left by now), she was STILL behaving like a monster. So JT made the boldest move I've seen to date - she took a toy and threw it in the trash right in front of her - a little Anna doll! When K didn't stop, JT took the teapot and chucked THAT in the trash. AMAZING! That did (finally) slow K down. She was bawling crying and begging for them back, but she didn't scream anymore. (For the record - JT later "reclaimed" the toys, wiped them off, and put them in the laundry room. Plan on seeing them again in about 6 months when Buke is older. :-)).
On the Cora front, she woke up from her nap with TONS of snot caked onto her nose. She really struggled to even get to sleep because she couldn't breathe - we had to give her ibuprofen for her nap (still took 30 min to settle). JT is gonna monitor it, but we are thinking we'll have to take her in for a check-up.
Some cute things from Cora - tonight when I said "let's go up!", she was in her high chair. She immediately raised her hands in the air and said, "Up!" We of course bragged on her, and she smiled a mile wide (just like she does when she hears more and does the sign language). She also meowed when she saw the purple cat in "Brown Bear, Brown Bear" - no doubt she knows that sound now.
On the K front, she worked on her "sorry note" to Kate today. Kate doesn't attend preschool on Thursday, so that gave us a day to a) procure the replacement and b) complete the note.
We started giving K children's allergy medicine again today. I wasn't a fan of this, but the Peds have repeatedly suggested we try it to see if it stems a) her cough and b) her consistent infections. Well, it certainly felt like a miracle drug this day, as she didn't cough ONCE after she took it and was blowing her nose like crazy to clear out snot. If this stuff really does work, I'm going to call it the miracle elixir!!!!!!!
2/17 - So today had the potential to go south in a hurry. K was playing with a cheap, plastic slinky from Halloween, and it got slightly tangled (still worked fine). She kept pulling on it and stretching it (even after JT told her not to), and eventually it got so loose that it no longer worked. K just went CRAZY and started screaming "It's so ugly!" and begging one of us to throw it away. We told her that she could do it, but she refused - she always wanted one parent or the other to throw it away. I mean...you can't make this stuff up. The good news is that we rebounded and actually had a really good day after that, including father/daughter swim at NOMAD. Plus Lindsey came over for a babysitter swap, so Team Taylor had date night! BOOM!!!! :-)
After that it was over to Defying Gravity with JT for Emmi's party - looks like they had a blast! I saw some super cute photos, my favorite of which was K swinging off a trapeze into a foam pit. K's favorite part was making silly faces with the Disney masks (and I was treated to a cute photo recap later that evening). All in all it was a day of good food, good times, and PLENTY of sugar for our oldest. The good news - she slept like a ROCK that night. :-)
I even got some quality time with Buke in the afternoon (I had her at the house while JT was with K). We did the 5K loop, and Cora was GREAT in her stroller. It was just nice to go at a leisurely pace, enjoying the pretty day and just letting my mind wander. Those moments are rare (especially in the middle of the day), so that felt like blessed, sacred time.
One other note - K's cough is back with a vengeance. Jenny actually took her in on Friday, but they said that it was fine - likely still a holdover from pneumonia. It has been better the last two days, but there have been moments where it's sounded like croup. Sunday was definitely the worst (meaning most frequent and loudest), and I'm sure it isn't helping her mood. Poor thing coughs all the time, and you know that slowly wears her out. She has her chest x-ray & follow-up on 3/7, so we're hoping we get some good news then.
On the Cora front, we did confirm an ear infection for her. She's now got antibiotics, and we're hoping that we'll see her turn a corner soon. JT's been sucking her out quite a bit lately with the snot sucker, and Cora HATES IT. Poor thing - she can tell when it's coming, and her screams during the whole process are almost primal. But there is a payoff at the end! I just hope she starts breathing better soon - especially for our time in Texas.
2.21 - BIG NEWS on the mobility front: K biked to the park today! It was K's idea, and JT said that it was awesome. And best of all - K seemed to really have fun riding it! She did fall once on the way home, and JT said that it was a struggle to help her up the hill en route home while also having the stroller. However, a) Kaitlyn was treated to a sweet Elena band-aid for her arm boo-boo, and b) the trip to the park was MUCH quicker than walking, so it was a win-win. It has been AWESOME to see how much K has embraced the bike this week. She is really enjoying it, and she is getting more confidence by the minute - especially in the downhill sections. Where she would have previously braked every tenth of a second, she's now starting to (slowly) build up speed. Proud of you kid!
2/22 - Cora rolled 14 months today! How is that even possible? She spent it crawling around the deck and walking around the backyard. That girl LOVES the great outdoors, and she always smiles when she gets outside. That makes me VERY happy, and it's great to see her really enjoying the sun, the wind, and everything to explore outside. Admittedly, we're not quite ready to let her tackle the deck stairs on her own, but hey - we'll get there soon enough! It's also great how good she is in the stroller. Bottom line - as long as that girl is outside, she is content. Also, I have to compliment the change of attitude during teeth brushing - she's really starting to get the hang of it! Instead of constantly having to fight to wedge the toothbrush in, she's now opening her mouth and actually letting me scrub the enamel. Yay!
The one incident - K got off the plane SO EXCITED. She was sprinting through the terminal, jumping over cracks, and just enjoying a general state of euphoria. Well, we arrived at the escalator for baggage claim, and she said she wanted to go with me. Considering we've done escalators about 14,985 times, I said cool and hopped on. Well, she didn't, and then she FREAKED OUT. She was SCREAMING for daddy to come back up, but I was loaded with 3 bags. Jenny then tried to get her in the elevator (she had Buke in the stroller), but K REFUSED - even when Jenny tried to pick her up and carry her! Luckily a very nice lady offered to hold her hand down the escalator, and K assented. I mean....WOW.
We arrived at the Robinson's to find presents on every bed - including in the pack 'n play! Jenny and Henry had purchased the CUTEST little gifts for the girls (bath towels, books, clothes, etc), and it was a great end to the night. We got the girls down by about 9 CT (so 10 pm their time) and expected they would sleep like champs. Oooooooooh, naive parents....
2/24 - So Cora did NOT sleep good. She called out at 12:30 (woke up the house), 1:42 (woke up only me), and 3:06 (woke up the house). She was in the room with K, and obviously that woke her up as well. K said, "Dada, I can't sleep," but she was a trooper and stuck it out (and managed to fall back asleep rather quickly). They were up in earnest by 6:45, but I honestly woke up feeling pretty good.
Needless to say it was an early night that night!
Zoo Highlights:
K's foot started hurting her toward the end - not sure if she tweaked her ankle, walked too far in bad shoes, or something else, but she was struggling pretty good when she got home. Buke was a little fussy as well (absolutely REFUSED to take her meds in the morning), and both girls passed out on the ride home (Buke had also passed out on the drive there). They crashed hard that night, and we followed soon thereafter.
2/27 - K was really hurting today - couldn't put any weight on her foot! The pain lessened after some ice and ibuprofen, but she couldn't put any weight on it at the airport. That made things TOUGH at the airport, as we had about 16,000 bags to juggle! However, between the kindness of strangers, carrying Buke, having short lines, checking three bags, and putting K in the stroller, we made it work. I had to carry her through security and onto the plane, but by the end of the plane ride she did feel better and was actually able to put weight on her foot (which was awesome). We still made her ride in the stroller vs. walking to ensure her foot healed for preschool (and JAX, of course). She wasn't happy about that, but ultimately she did submit (when we didn't really give her any choice :-)). Luckily, the favor of God was with us, and for the FIRST TIME IN PROBABLY 10 YEARS we walked outside to find the Long Term 1 shuttle waiting for us. We hopped on and were home quickly, getting the girls down by 9 (which felt like 8 to them). They both passed out almost instantly and slept until 7:45 the following morning! Cora actually fell asleep on me (never happened before) when I was putting her down, and while she did wake up when I placed her in the crib, she didn't make a peep. Amazing!
2/28 - Today was a busy one, emptying out the suitcases, washing everything, and then getting ready for a) Lifegroup in the evening and b) the trip to Jacksonville tomorrow! But the great news - K felt MUCH better today and was able to go to preschool without incident. And even better - she got to play with Kate after school!
Also, since we are leaving tomorrow and I'll miss "Donuts for Dad," K presented me with my very own donut today. :-) She also gave me the little packet she created for me, which is HILARIOUS!
1. Age: 14
2. Favorite thing to say: "Donkey Trash" (got me on that one!)
3. He's as big as: A Door
4. What he does well: Gives me piggyback rides
6. He makes me smile when we: Walk to the park
Can't argue with any of those! Too cute. The little book is adorable and something I will cherish forever. It's already in my "keeper" files.
Oh, and while sibling rivalry is nowhere near over, today in the bath K conceded the following: "I guess it's not so bad having a sister." #progress.
Okay, so there you have it - February in the books. Just 11 more days to record before volume 5 is ready for print! Chat with you after we've been parents for 5 YEARS! WHAT!?!?!?!!?
Love,
Sam and Jenny
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